Making Friends With Attractive Women

[Zimbabwe]

I've been doing some research on social circles and I stumbled upon this video, He brings up a really interesting concept of using women who friendzone you to your advantage by getting to introduce you to their social circles

I've been thinking, my friend groups have always been 100% men and I never got any women from it.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I've been doing some research on social circles and I stumbled upon this video, He brings up a really interesting concept of using women who friendzone you to your advantage by getting to introduce you to their social circles

I've been thinking, my friend groups have always been 100% men and I never got any women from it.

Yep this works.

 

[Robert28]

I have never, and I mean NEVER met a woman THROUGH another woman. Every woman I’ve ever dated or slept with I got on my own.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I have never, and I mean NEVER met a woman THROUGH another woman. Every woman I’ve ever dated or slept with I got on my own.

It works tho because pre-section. I done it and does work. You get a broader social circle and access to more chicks that way whuicb you prolly would never have meet "the normal way".

 

[Zimbabwe]

I have never, and I mean NEVER met a woman THROUGH another woman. Every woman I’ve ever dated or slept with I got on my own.

Same here, that's why I'm looking to expand my horizens. Social circle for LTRs and cold approach for casual dating.

It works tho because pre-section. I done it and does work. You get a broader social circle and access to more chicks that way whuicb you prolly would never have meet "the normal way".

Exactly, if they put in a good word for you it skyrockets your SMV in their eyes. It's an untapped Goldmine

 

[corrector]

It works tho because pre-section. I done it and does work. You get a broader social circle and access to more chicks that way whuicb you prolly would never have meet "the normal way".

Was these really women who rejected you (friendzoned) or your exes or had or currently have something with?

 

[Robert28]

It works tho because pre-section. I done it and does work. You get a broader social circle and access to more chicks that way whuicb you prolly would never have meet "the normal way".

Pre-selection only works if you bring a new woman around one that had low interest or rejected you or dumped you. She will never get jealous if she sets you up with her friend and you hit it off.

 

[corrector]

Of course it would be great to have attractive women as friends who hook you up with other ladies. Its not realistic since people dont really do favours for people like that unless there is something in it for her. Why would she want or care to do that for you unless she likes you enough for herself, in which case you would not be frienzoned in the first place.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I was under the impression that females would only introduce you to those that they feel are lower than themselves. I suppose this would work if the chick you befriend is a 9. My first suggested me getting with her friend who I knew for a fact she felt superior than. After I had been demoted to friendzone.

 

[Grounded eagle]

I've been doing some research on social circles and I stumbled upon this video, He brings up a really interesting concept of using women who friendzone you to your advantage by getting to introduce you to their social circles

I've been thinking, my friend groups have always been 100% men and I never got any women from it.

If a girl friend zones you the best thing to do is cut all ties with her. I hope I need not explain why.However, I do believe that constantly surrounding yourself with beautiful girls is a good thing.It inures you to her beauty,it makes you a guy who isn’t beguiled by looks and turns into a nervous wreck around such women.It can also make you look good when you’re out and surrounded by beautiful women.In that respect,I do believe that having beautiful female friends is a good thing.

 

[Bingo-Player]

The concept is sound myself and several friends used it in our early 20's

We would integrate ourselves into female friendship circles and sometimes (not all of the time) we would get some pu$$y

But although it sounds simple it's not , women get jealous and territorial really really quickly and this doesnt really go away with age

So once you enter a female social circle as a "freind of a freind" and you hook up with one girl the rest immediately become off limits
even if it doesnt work out with that girl guess what the rest still remain off limits " because you were hers"

Females like competing for a man but once he is marked by one of her friends usually he will be off limits

The only time this doesnt apply is if the women in the circle dont really know each other and are just mutual associations..... but even then if the girls find out what your up too there will be drama

Like i said on the tin it sounds like a simple strategy to meet and hook up with lots of new women

In reality it doesn't quite work out like that and i'm saying that from experience

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Was these really women who rejected you (friendzoned) or your exes or had or currently have something with?

Chicks I don't have attraction for which I friend zoned.

Pre-selection only works if you bring a new woman around one that had low interest or rejected you or dumped you. She will never get jealous if she sets you up with her friend and you hit it off.

No.
Pre-selection works in most cases/on most chicks in my experience. No magic here; still need game, but it does make it easier.

 

[corrector]

Chicks I don't have attraction for which I friend zoned.

You are chadsplaing then. The OP is talking about females who rejected you that you are attracted to and she knows that. That does not work and is a waste of time since if you are not good enough for her why would she think you are good enough for her friends?

 

[Grounded eagle]

The concept is sound myself and several friends used it in our early 20's

We would integrate ourselves into female friendship circles and sometimes (not all of the time) we would get some pu$$y

But although it sounds simple it's not , women get jealous and territorial really really quickly and this doesnt really go away with age

So once you enter a female social circle as a "freind of a freind" and you hook up with one girl the rest immediately become off limits
even if it doesnt work out with that girl guess what the rest still remain off limits " because you were hers"

Females like competing for a man but once he is marked by one of her friends usually he will be off limits

The only time this doesnt apply is if the women in the circle dont really know each other and are just mutual associations..... but even then if the girls find out what your up too there will be drama

Like i said on the tin it sounds like a simple strategy to meet and hook up with lots of new women

In reality it doesn't quite work out like that and i'm saying that from experience

Women will and do break that rule for men who are high value enough.

 

[RangerMIke]

I have lots of female friends. They are friends because I like them and we have some commonality. They are not friends just so I can get other women. I never burn bridges, some of them are women I've slept with, but never lasted. You have to have a level of maturity to do this. Women cut themselves out of my life, I don't do this. Many start off trying to set me up with their friends, but they learn fast that I don't do blind dates.

I think it is always a good idea to have female friends, as long as you aren't hanging around hoping something turns around. I have a couple that are super hot.... clean up great.... and do really well working a room at formal events... they both have serious boyfriends. But, I take them to events where I need to make a good impression. You walk in with a super hot chick, and you can wear a Sears machine washable suit that doesn't fit, and people will automatically think you got things going on. In return, I use my network to help them.

 

[SW15]

I've been doing some research on social circles and I stumbled upon this video, He brings up a really interesting concept of using women who friendzone you to your advantage by getting to introduce you to their social circles

I've been thinking, my friend groups have always been 100% men and I never got any women from it.

I have never, and I mean NEVER met a woman THROUGH another woman. Every woman I’ve ever dated or slept with I got on my own.

My experience has been exactly the same as @Robert28.

Like @Zimbabwe, I have had solely male friends over the years. I've experienced one primary advantage by doing this. I've not gotten stuck in the friend zone with any women when I've been physically attracted to them. The downside of this is that it has likely affected my ability to get social circle introductions. Without social circle introductions, I've had to navigate a more difficult path via approaching and websites/swipe apps.

While social circle introductions have been declining in recent decades (see below), they are still best for producing longer lasting relationships.

In theory, the way to do this would be to latch onto to the girlfriends of your friends, your sister, and whatever attractive female cousins you have. Those are the best ways to break into female groups. I would not recommend making friends with women you're attracted to for the purposes of future introductions. You must also live in the same city as your sister and cousins, which isn't probable.

In practice, a lot of social circle introductions happen from "off limits" type women. These are from women who you work with, friend zoned women from before puberty (this only works when you and her live in the same city as adults that you did in K-8 grades), and friends/acquaintances of your friend's girlfriends. In practice, this is happening less as social circle introductions have been declining for 3 decades. People's real life social circles are getting weaker. An example of this is my closest friend's now wife but previously girlfriend. When she was the girlfriend in the early to mid 2010s, us guys in the same circle would marvel that she had over 1,000 Facebook friends but could never put any of us on a date with any of those 1,000+ Facebook friends.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Women will and do break that rule for men who are high value enough.

yes but that kind of man wouldn’t be friendzoned in the first place.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I think it is always a good idea to have female friends, as long as you aren't hanging around hoping something turns around.

Ye, I agree.
Women usually tend have much larger network than guys, so that can theoretically leverage your own social network too.
I meet some male buddies too through chicks social circles too, not only their girl friends. So it is great way of boosting your connections.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Women will and do break that rule for men who are high value enough.

Thots will yea , quality women won't trust me i've been through it

i tried it on with 3 within the same group it blew up in my face

Also If she's prepared to that to her friend and break the "girl code" she will probably be trouble later down the line

 

[AureliusMaximus]

You are chadsplaing then.

Newer heard that expression before mate, but then again I'm not native English so it is impossible to keep track of all expressions in the English language..

Well I do both in the cases where they have sort of ljbf with me or I friend zoned chicks for whatever reason...
Either way it does work as a good way to expand your social network.