Another "dating a party girl" thread

[firstbornunicorn]

Dating a self described 23 year-old party girl that "doesn't trust herself" when she's drunk.

We were talking last night and she says that if she's with the right person then she will not put herself in a situation where she would cheat. But she's fully aware that if she goes partying and gets totally wasted, she will probably hook up with a random if the situation is right (note the use of "right", an extremely subjective term).
Her solution since we've been exclusive (a conversation I started) is to simply:
a) Not go partying
b) Not get totally wasted when she does go
c) Hit me up when the party is over and comes to my place (drunk her is super wild)

I didn't tell/ask her to do any of this.

It feels like a ticking time bomb, but here we are. I guess as long as she's having more fun with me than the potential/imagined fun she'd have with a stranger, things will be ok. She's had enough ****ty sex to know that most drunk hookups will be just that.

 

[powersize]

Dating a self described 23 year-old party girl that "doesn't trust herself" when she's drunk.

We were talking last night and she says that if she's with the right person then she will not put herself in a situation where she would cheat. But she's fully aware that if she goes partying and gets totally wasted, she will probably hook up with a random if the situation is right (note the use of "right", an extremely subjective term).
Her solution since we've been exclusive (a conversation I started) is to simply:
a) Not go partying
b) Not get totally wasted when she does go
c) Hit me up when the party is over and comes to my place (drunk her is super wild)

I didn't tell/ask her to do any of this.

It feels like a ticking time bomb, but here we are. I guess as long as she's having more fun with me than the potential/imagined fun she'd have with a stranger, things will be ok. She's had enough ****ty sex to know that most drunk hookups will be just that.

Do not get too attached to her. Just smash from time to time and be ready to drop her at any moment.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Do not get too attached to her. Just smash from time to time and be ready to drop her at any moment.

It's more than just smashing, but yes. I think at some point I'll feel when her feelings change, right now she's enjoying it very much. Still doing approaches like I normally would, I have no fear/anxiety of her leaving, which also changes how we interact. I'm not "nice" and tell her no when I have to, which is rare because she's extremely submissive anyway.

 

[Bingo-Player]

This will end horrendously

She's in her prime c0ck carousel years 22-25 is that age where they are usually regularly getting a lot of D from multiple guys

It wouldn't be uncommon for a party girl at this age to sleep with 3-4 men a month every month , its exciting , its fun and its pleasurable she isn't going to stop during these years , despite telling you what you want to hear

after 25 they do tend to calm down a bit , they either want a relationship the hangovers and depression from being a wh0re usually starts to weigh or they just get pregnant and head into single mother phase which naturally halts them in their tracks

( although i do know a 26yr old single mother who's basically had the kid and tried to jump straight back on the carousel so there are execptions out there)

Nobody wants to hear it but that is the game

 

[metalwater]

solution a is the only one. b and c are for sure slip slope.

if she is ready to ltr you, she should either want to spend all that energy helping you or have some other non-man attention hobby or activity that she loves.

keep some others in your thoughts and actions also.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

It wouldn't be uncommon for a party girl at this age to sleep with 3-4 men a month every month , its exciting , its fun and its pleasurable she isn't going to stop during these years , despite telling you what you want to hear

Well, same. Within 24 hours of the first time we had sex I had two others come over. If it's this easy for me, I know how easy it is for her. She stopped now and so did I, but it will of course not last forever (for both). I'm betting it lasts for the winter (typical pattern, ltr for winter, breakup just around Spring).

 

[firstbornunicorn]

if she is ready to ltr you, she should either want to spend all that energy helping you or have some other non-man attention hobby or activity that she loves.

This won't last forever. I give it the winter. She keeps busy. Two jobs (one full time). 50% of her free time is with me, 50% with friends/family.

It's funny how women communicate. The other weekend she went out with 3 girls, and she was telling me how all they wanted was d1ck. And that these days she goes out to have fun and not chase guys/etc/etc. Very subtly qualifying herself.

But also tbh with myself, I'm top 5%, so she knows what she's got rn. Will get bored eventually, but not for at least 3-6 months. Meanwhile, great times.

 

[Plinco]

Not only the lack of trust, but with all that alcohol she is not going to age well either.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Well, same. Within 24 hours of the first time we had sex I had two others come over. If it's this easy for me, I know how easy it is for her. She stopped now and so did I, but it will of course not last forever (for both). I'm betting it lasts for the winter (typical pattern, ltr for winter, breakup just around Spring).

Right so you already know the score but you are still posting threads about her on a internet forum so your either more bothered about her than your letting on , or your rotation isn't as strong as you want it to be

Either way case closed

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Right so you already know the score but you are still posting threads about her on a internet forum so your either more bothered about her than your letting on , or your rotation isn't as strong as you want it to be

Either way case closed

Just sharing the experience. I have no rotation, but know where to get it if I need it.