Everytime you see an average looking guy with a hb8+ it is always through social circle, you get access to better quality women this way. Most guys who do this are beta and have no game knowledge though.
Most men are beta males. These beta males are pusssy beggars in cases when they don't have a social circle.
When a beta male has a social circle, he'll get a girlfriend and be able to get laid. The relationship will last some extended period of time. Shorter, long term relationships from social circle last less than 3 years. You'll see many relationships form out of social circles in one's 20s that last somewhere between 5-20 years and can often involve marriage. I've seen divorced or broken up from LTR guys with social circles move on easily from one of those 5-20 year long relationships. If a guy comes out of a 5-20 year long relationship with no social circle, he's going to have some issues.
When a beta male has no social circle and isn't in a relationship, he's usually doing some combination of swiping and texting a lot on apps, wanking furiously on a porn tube site, simping, etc. Greater betas might be able to cold approach with alcohol.
"The whole notion of not having any type of social life/access to women and just cold approaching your way to abundance with women is not optimal or sustainable. You will run out of willpower eventually and give up and join the priesthood, aka MGTOW.
The easiest way to get chicks is having a few hobbies where women exist. Like a dance club, fitness club, etc.
When I show up to these places, I am energized. I don’t chase or game women. I just let them come to me.
Its really that simple. Be fit, and be around chicks. It’s this simplicity that keeps it fresh for me."
Cold approaching to abundance is really difficult. You might be able to cold approach your way into a relationship. Cold approach sourced relationships are typically shorter than social circle sourced ones, so you'll have to do more cold approaching lifetime. If you can get 2 years out of a relationship from a cold approach, you're doing well.
Having hobbies where women exist will still involving you as the man initiating the interaction. If you go to a mainly female exercise class, you're still approaching women. It's a warm-ish approach. That might be a hybrid of pure cold approach and social circle. It's still not that easy.
20 something social circles are almost always work and/or school based.
One of my friends got married to a woman in a different department of a large company with little interaction between the two departments. They did know some people in the same company.
In my experience, if a man wants to meet a girl in his social circle, he has to get close to her friend who is not single. Treat that friend really nice, and then that friend will put in a good word for him. It’s not like if a man’s in social circle and it’s a hook up orgy with 8+ young actresses. It’s just a tough for man to meet a girl by himself, if not tougher.
Any guy in a man’s social circle is not going to help a man out. In fact, if the guy finds out about the man’s dating in the social circle, he will go out of his way to ruin it. He doesn’t want the man to get action consistently and not be alone, so he will sabotage the relationship. People want what’s worst for others.
If there are multiple single men in a social circle, there will be fierce competitions for whatever women are in the realm of that social circle. It happened in my main group of friends in the mid-2010s.
The most true thing said here is that
"It’s just a tough for man to meet a girl by himself, if not tougher."
I've seen men with girlfriends and wives who would be ***** beggars/simps/borderline incels without a social circle. That's how important social circle is to getting laid.
Social circle takes a lot to put together and the variables won't line up for some men. I've been one of those men. Learning approaching skill to overcome that is quite difficult. Getting laid from cold approach and cold approach lite (fitness classes, etc) is quite difficult. Having people on the inside to vouch for you makes all the difference.
In any case, join dance or something. But at 25, I think any young hot girl in dance will have a boyfriend. These alpha men, they get them
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So i take it that the best way to meet these women, is by becoming a regular at these venues to build rapport and ask them out?
Not at all. You've got to meet these women outside of their workplace. I once met a stripper playing pickup games of a certain sport. That's an example of how you do it.
