Theory: Women Fake Everything

[Mike32ct]

I won’t say they fake everything, but they can be convincing actresses when they want to.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Why?

Faking everything requires a super human amount of brainpower that nobody has.

You are misinterpreting their fickle emotions for conscious fakery.

In fact, they are not faking anything, it's that there emotional "state" has a half life of about 0.23 seconds.

So when they say they love you, and they a quarter second later they pick up a knife and say they want to kill you, they are being truthful both times.

 

[SW15]

They are wired to be run by their emotions. Emotions change on a dime.

fickle emotions

This is the answer.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I see. So it’s best to assume they are faking it anyways so one doesn’t get sucked into the momentary sentiments

 

[SargeMaximus]

Not fake. Emotions at that moment are real to her. At that time. Yes just dont let it bother you on the level of a guy who she can emotionally get reactions out of.

No that’s not what I’m saying. Nevermind. I’m not a noob you know

 

[Alvafe]

actually everyone is a fake, people will lie to make then feel better or look better, and that is everyone, some lie more then others but in the end of day everyone does it, and the reason is it works, most people ego are so fragile if you tell then what you really think you will amke a enemy of him, so you lie, woman do it more for her need to be in a group that is all, but everyone does

 

[SargeMaximus]

actually everyone is a fake, people will lie to make then feel better or look better, and that is everyone, some lie more then others but in the end of day everyone does it, and the reason is it works, most people ego are so fragile if you tell then what you really think you will amke a enemy of him, so you lie, woman do it more for her need to be in a group that is all, but everyone does

I don’t

 

[Blacksheep]

actually everyone is a fake, people will lie to make then feel better or look better, and that is everyone, some lie more then others but in the end of day everyone does it, and the reason is it works, most people ego are so fragile if you tell then what you really think you will amke a enemy of him, so you lie, woman do it more for her need to be in a group that is all, but everyone does

I would add to that one idea that, if someone can truly face his/her ego and start to become aware of their own mechanisms and reactions. Maybe that can lead to better values, principles and behaviors. It also doesnt remove lies from the equation... But at least someone can become more honest in general.

Also this can take years to develop, plus our environment, culture, educations and examples we saw since childhood plays a big rule on people behaviors.

The problem in our society nowadays is that they don't put effort to better educate population. What I see are consumism addiction, social media addiction and impacting on our mental health/behaviors, corruption, violence, destruction and abuse in many kinds (theres also the good side either). So we should expect some negative outcomes on population based on those things.

Just putting some ideas out... I have a big interest on those subjects.

 

[derby1]

I think it seems that way, but the attachments are as thin and solid as a strand of hair. Not a chain. They have those attachments one day, that they truly believe what they say, then the next day "not feeling it". They were being true both days.

Nah. They are wired to be run by their emotions. Emotions change on a dime.

my recent post ive made about the JCB worker fully backs this up

 

[bat soup]

Hey guys, been mulling things over as always and it occurs to me that perhaps women don’t just fake orgasms but they fake interests, emotional bonds, and everything else. Hence why it’s so easy for them to move on if and when they do.

I suspect this due to women in my life faking things to get on my good side or try and lock me down. My fwb has faked orgasms and then shortly afterwards talk about how we have such great chemistry and then subtly try for exclusivity for example. Thoughts?

They don't fake everything. At least 30% of what they say is actually true.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I would add to that one idea that, if someone can truly face his/her ego and start to become aware of their own mechanisms and reactions. Maybe that can lead to better values, principles and behaviors. It also doesnt remove lies from the equation... But at least someone can become more honest in general.

Also this can take years to develop, plus our environment, culture, educations and examples we saw since childhood plays a big rule on people behaviors.

The problem in our society nowadays is that they don't put effort to better educate population. What I see are consumism addiction, social media addiction and impacting on our mental health/behaviors, corruption, violence, destruction and abuse in many kinds (theres also the good side either). So we should expect some negative outcomes on population based on those things.

Just putting some ideas out... I have a big interest on those subjects.

Read “The Power of Now” for this

 

[jimwho]

Perhaps it's just evolution. Women want things. And since they are physically the weaker sex they (must) manipulate to get things. It could be anything, a toaster, job, not working, dress, a man, a cat, a homestead. Back in time a horse, or be treated as an equal. Add in a lesser moral compass arguably, and you get a henhouse full of fakery and manipulation at a professional level. Its just what woman have had to do to survive. It's what they're wired to do.

 

[Alvafe]

I don’t

and you don't consider having a lot of friends do you? also its meaningless, don't matter IF you belive you are, you will lie to prevent hurting someone or to very least not having the hassle to deal with things, if you ever watched house waht he says its true, everyone lies, there is a reason for that.

also note we fake we are interested in what a woman have to say so we can have sex, we fake to have interest in what her friend told her just to keep her happy, we fake we are interested in wht your mom are telling just so she is not pissed or fell bad, EVERYONE IS A FAKE, the more truthfull you are less willing people are do deal with you and less people you can call a friend

 

[SargeMaximus]

and you don't consider having a lot of friends do you? also its meaningless, don't matter IF you belive you are, you will lie to prevent hurting someone or to very least not having the hassle to deal with things, if you ever watched house waht he says its true, everyone lies, there is a reason for that.

also note we fake we are interested in what a woman have to say so we can have sex, we fake to have interest in what her friend told her just to keep her happy, we fake we are interested in wht your mom are telling just so she is not pissed or fell bad, EVERYONE IS A FAKE, the more truthfull you are less willing people are do deal with you and less people you can call a friend

I don’t have any friends because I’m not fake. Don’t project your weakness into me

 

[AureliusMaximus]

e. Hence why it’s so easy for them to move on if and when they do.

Na dude, they are genetically encoded to be like that, aka. the war bride phenom. It is part of the female survival strategy to not get really attached as we men (can) become.

In past history when villages where conquered they had the chose to quickly jump over to the strongest men of the new tribe or face death. Which is why chicks just few days later after a breakup easily/already have fund new a dude, while her ex is sobbing for month over the loss.

They don't have to fake it; its part of their DNA mate.

 

[Alvafe]

I don’t have any friends because I’m not fake. Don’t project your weakness into me

again everyone is, you trying to hide is not even cute, its internet dude, don't matter if you are fake or not, being fake here will only hurt you in the long way, don't need to be afraid

 

[SargeMaximus]

again everyone is, you trying to hide is not even cute, its internet dude, don't matter if you are fake or not, being fake here will only hurt you in the long way, don't need to be afraid

You’re projecting hella strong my guy. Next you’re gonna tell my I’m bald because I always wear hats

 

[darksprezzatura]

Of course but if women are as I suspect, even if they are complying they are still trying to nail you down in some form or another so don’t be fooled and think she’s complying because she will love you for eternity is all I’m saying. Women don’t form bonds like that

I believe the love men perceive/feel and the love women perceive/feel is like apples and oranges

 

[metalwater]

I would add to that one idea that, if someone can truly face his/her ego and start to become aware of their own mechanisms and reactions. Maybe that can lead to better values, principles and behaviors. It also doesnt remove lies from the equation... But at least someone can become more honest in general.

Also this can take years to develop, plus our environment, culture, educations and examples we saw since childhood plays a big rule on people behaviors.

The problem in our society nowadays is that they don't put effort to better educate population. What I see are consumism addiction, social media addiction and impacting on our mental health/behaviors, corruption, violence, destruction and abuse in many kinds (theres also the good side either). So we should expect some negative outcomes on population based on those things.

Just putting some ideas out... I have a big interest on those subjects.

A better world with better people would be awesome.

but alas, it's not going to be;
It is a zero-sum world. It's all a competition, with a time limit. Another poster said it better than I can, "you're either fcking someone or they are fcking you, your choice". This honesty with self is the first step to true honesty. One can not rise if one don't know what direction is up.

It's ok to be kind and work for human condition improvements. But do not expect approval or even help about doing it. Do it only because you can see or feel something you like from being able to will a change of something.

 

[The Duke]

Hey guys, been mulling things over as always and it occurs to me that perhaps women don’t just fake orgasms but they fake interests, emotional bonds, and everything else. Hence why it’s so easy for them to move on if and when they do.

I suspect this due to women in my life faking things to get on my good side or try and lock me down. My fwb has faked orgasms and then shortly afterwards talk about how we have such great chemistry and then subtly try for exclusivity for example. Thoughts?

They fake their own thoughts just to appease their closest friends. Their ego's are very fragile. It's in their DNA. Even in males, the weakest care the most about how they are perceived. This is where fakeness comes from.