OLD always goes cold after the first few messages

[Kotaix]

Anyone else having this experience? You match with a girl, you send a few messages back and forth, and then she ghosts. It feels like a default behavior at this point, really bizarre. Basically an OLD equivalent of me asking a question and her turning and walking away out of nowhere.

You have to see this from their perspective.

OLD is a fire hose of d!ck for women. She has 20 other guys that she's talking to. If you don't stand out from the rest of the guys then she's not going to care. You do the same with fat chicks

 

[Glassguy]

"Anything easy isn't worth a damn!" - Woody Hayes

Most men use OLD because they think it's easy. They use OLD because it requires little work and little skill. Yet most of them fail miserably and get frustrated.
You get what you put into it. Stay on OLD if you want to be frustrated and not do well. You literally put nothing into it and you'll probably get little out if it. Yet you expect to meet quality women on there? Mind blowing.

Men use OLD because they are scared of approaching women in real life. Instead of working in it and improving it (which takes actual work) they choose to be lazy and take the easy way out.

And these AWs on OLD appreciate your free validation while you sit there pouting and frustrated with them.

SMH.

 

[Zimbabwe]

"Anything easy isn't worth a damn!" - Woody Hayes

Most men use OLD because they think it's easy. They use OLD because it requires little work and little skill. Yet most of them fail miserably and get frustrated.
You get what you put into it. Stay on OLD if you want to be frustrated and not do well. You literally put nothing into it and you'll probably get little out if it. Yet you expect to meet quality women on there? Mind blowing.

Men use OLD because they are scared of approaching women in real life. Instead of working in it and improving it (which takes actual work) they choose to be lazy and take the easy way out.

And these AWs on OLD appreciate your free validation while you sit there pouting and frustrated with them.

SMH.

Guys write off Cold Approach after a few rejections, yet they stick to OLD despite getting thousands of rejections. Some also claim they have no time for Cold Approaching yet they spend hours Swiping away on OLD.

You have to see this from their perspective.

OLD is a fire hose of d!ck for women. She has 20 other guys that she's talking to. If you don't stand out from the rest of the guys then she's not going to care. You do the same with fat chicks

That's why you get her off of OLD ASAP. I have no idea why some guys on the internet spend weeks chatting to girls on OLD, without even meeting them.

 

[Glassguy]

Guys write off Cold Approach after a few rejections, yet they stick to OLD despite getting thousands of rejections. Some also claim they have no time for Cold Approaching yet they spend hours Swiping away on OLD.

Well said

 

[EyeBRollin]

I’ve had 5 LTRs in the last 10 years from OLD, including my current girlfriend. I’ve also laid close to 100 chicks. It’s work but definitely good money in major cities.

 

[Glassguy]

I’ve had 5 LTRs in the last 10 years from OLD, including my current girlfriend. I’ve also laid close to 100 chicks. It’s work but definitely good money in major cities.

In a large city/market I agree with you. In a smaller area, real in person approaches is where it's at. For me anyways. If I lived in a larger city I would consider using OLD but only as a side gig.

 

[Kotaix]

Guys write off Cold Approach after a few rejections, yet they stick to OLD despite getting thousands of rejections. Some also claim they have no time for Cold Approaching yet they spend hours Swiping away on OLD.



That's why you get her off of OLD ASAP. I have no idea why some guys on the internet spend weeks chatting to girls on OLD, without even meeting them.

Most guys want the validation just as much as the women do. That, and they're lazy.

OLD is the equivalent of dumpster diving. You can find gems, but you're still rooting thru trash.

 

[derby1]

Anyone else having this experience? You match with a girl, you send a few messages back and forth, and then she ghosts. It feels like a default behavior at this point, really bizarre. Basically an OLD equivalent of me asking a question and her turning and walking away out of nowhere.

Bro, read this 10 times, THEIR DOPAMINE RECEPTORS ARE FRIED, they will ghost you because you like crinkle cut chips,instead of straight cut

I noticed along time ago, I would be in the comments section on Facebook, having a convo with a woman and she would literally leave me hanging 2 comments in, looking like a tit, even though she pursued the first question.