I Can't Take Corey Wayne Seriously

[Zimbabwe]

Every single scenario his faced with gets the exact same response "let me know if you change your mind". If a girl is not interested in you she isn't going to turn around and change her mind because of one line you say.

It also makes you look extremely weak since you're waiting like a good little boy for her to come back, and that you will tolerate disrespect and disinterest.

What is it with him and asking guys to read his book 10 to 15 times? Does he think his audience is insane or something?

 

[Harry Wilmington IDS]

He gets the "read his book 10 to 15 times" mantra from the late Doc Love, who used to tell men to read his "System" book 10 to 15 times to have it fully embedded in their brains. Eh, he's not wrong.

As for the response: in my past there have been several times where I was hooking up with a woman, her interest waned, and I'd tell them, "Well, let me know if you change your mind." That didn't mean I was waiting around for them; it just meant if they wanted to hook up again and I was available, I may decide to partake. And guess what? That's happened quite a few times in my life where women would come back and we'd re-connect physically or otherwise. The point is to not be butt-hurt when a woman decides in the moment to leave - as Corey says, you must allow her to feel free, and give her choice. That also means you get to choose what to do while she's making her choice, whether that be wait for her or move on to other women in case her choice is to never see you again.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Corey Wayne ripped his material straight from Doc Love. He at least credits Doc in his book.

I usually say something to the effect "reach out to me if circumstances change" and let it be. It is not that uncommon to get a text a few months later for a rebound bang.

Regarding reading 10-15 times, that is actually the bare minimum. Reading game principles really does burn it into your brain so you can go out and apply it.

 

[RickTheToad]

Every single scenario his faced with gets the exact same response "let me know if you change your mind". If a girl is not interested in you she isn't going to turn around and change her mind because of one line you say.

It also makes you look extremely weak since you're waiting like a good little boy for her to come back, and that you will tolerate disrespect and disinterest.

What is it with him and asking guys to read his book 10 to 15 times? Does he think his audience is insane or something?

His response shows he's not angry or upset, and if you are interested at a later date, reach out. Shows no emotional response; which females crave. He's denying them of this.

When you read or listen to his book multiple times, you can pick up something that you may had missed. This is true on any book.

 

[bat soup]

Every single scenario his faced with gets the exact same response "let me know if you change your mind". If a girl is not interested in you she isn't going to turn around and change her mind because of one line you say.

It also makes you look extremely weak since you're waiting like a good little boy for her to come back, and that you will tolerate disrespect and disinterest.

What is it with him and asking guys to read his book 10 to 15 times? Does he think his audience is insane or something?

It's actually a good answer because it leaves the door open without having to keep following up (which probably wouldn't be worthwhile anyway).

I read his book, but it's fairly short and just describes the same few situations that he keeps referring back to and the conclusions he drew from that.

 

[Mike32ct]

Reading a textbook or standard non-fiction or possibly a classic fiction book 10x is great advice.

Reading a dating advice ebook 10x? That’s cringe. Need to get a life lol. Two or three times max if it’s something you’re really into.

 

[derby1]

tbf I think his advice is pretty "alpha" without coming across as a arsehole,

what you have to remember is even now in 2021 blokes still send a "?" to a woman god forbid shes probably having a bath.

the dating pool is so terrible for women, that if you have a bit of game and under 20% bodyfat they should really be camping outside your house, for your signature on their titties.

women are in no mans land because they have been taught men submit to them, so if a guy has a backbone they start flapping about.

 

[Bingo-Player]

the dating pool is so terrible for women, that if you have a bit of game and under 20% bodyfat they should really be camping outside your house, for your signature on their titties.

Not sure where your based but in my local area competition is pretty rife , seems to be a pool of 6ft+ tattooed f*ck boys that are smashing everything and anything

area is small though so that's a factor

Think we forget sometimes game can be highly area dependent .... i find metropolitan citys are USUALLY are easier to get laid in as women aren't so susceptible to "local celebrity" syndrome and weekday evenings are usually a little more active

A lot of girls in m area have all slept with the same guys it's kind of weird

 

[derby1]

Not sure where your based but in my local area competition is pretty rife , seems to be a pool of 6ft+ tattooed f*ck boys that are smashing everything and anything

good point, I'm in Birmingham.

I noticed when I went to a services on the way to Warwick last week, it was absolutely rammed and every lad was in shape + groomed well , it was the strangest experience of my life seeing so many top tier men.

 

[Bingo-Player]

it was the strangest experience of my life seeing so many top tier men.

Try going to Ibiza in the summer Jesus Christ ..... i am in a good shape and i felt out of shape there

Fairly convinced its the toughest place on earth to stand out

Competition with the females is rife too but they have it easier because there's nearly always more single guys than girls

 

[derby1]

Try going to Ibiza in the summer Jesus Christ ..... i am in a good shape and i felt out of shape there

yeah I went to a speed garage event recently, nearly every lad was in shape, this woman who was in our mini bus, shes quite honestly fat & disgusting, got railed by some working class Ronnie coleman.

she aint shut about him, he should have to do community service for even rewarding her with the nut.

 

[PRW63]

Every single scenario his faced with gets the exact same response "let me know if you change your mind". If a girl is not interested in you she isn't going to turn around and change her mind because of one line you say.

It also makes you look extremely weak since you're waiting like a good little boy for her to come back, and that you will tolerate disrespect and disinterest.

What is it with him and asking guys to read his book 10 to 15 times? Does he think his audience is insane or something?

I've found him correct far more than when he isn't. If you knew his material well enough (most don't, they just bi1ch about it,...same as they do with Tomassi) he isn't really expecting the woman to change her mind but is just leaving the opportunity there if she does. It is a sales tactic and is certainly not weak. It means you can walk away without being butthurt "cop an attitude" over it,...and it keeps positive "vibe" with the person you say it to,...sale people understand this. Dating and pickup are "sales" whether anyone likes it or not. Many I see in these forums would cop an attitude over it and claim there acting "alpha" in the process.

The "read the book 10-15 times" thing is based on the idea that most people only retain 10% of what they read on a first-read,...which is true for most. So he is just overstating the point with some rough numbers to tell you to just read the thing enough times to understand it deeply enough to become competent at what you are doing rather than skim it and cherry-pick it,...then go off half-c0cked and bi1ch about it on web forums and YouTube comments. Too many people just can't comprehend "nuance" and "intent" in things that are said or written, and treat everything they read with autistic literalness,....and sebsequently miss the point.

 

[PRW63]

Corey Wayne ripped his material straight from Doc Love. He at least credits Doc in his book.

There is nothing new under the sun. Everyone gets what they say from somewhere else. I don't have a problem with it.

 

[manfrombelow]

It also makes you look extremely weak since you're waiting like a good little boy for her to come back, and that you will tolerate disrespect and disinterest.

1. No, that line is not intended to "make her come back", it's for opening doors for her to get back to you in the future (and when that happens, you have the right to accept her back or not), while you go date other women in the meantime.

So it's not tolerating disrespect and disinterest as you incorrectly interpreted, but rather the contrary: It's all about NOT TOLERATING them by not wasting time, effort, and energy to keep chasing after a girl who doesn't want you sexually and romantically.

What is it with him and asking guys to read his book 10 to 15 times? Does he think his audience is insane or something?

2. Since he's the author of his book, I think he has the right to suggest whatever the fvck that he wants - but it doesn't mean you're forced to.

Corey Wayne, as I stated many times on here, has literally opened my eyes tremendously. He's not a god nor he's perfect. He doesn't force any of us to listen to his stuff (which is free by the way), so the fact that you had to make an entire thread on SS (which has nothing to do whatsoever with the guy) just to show that you "can't take him seriously", to me, is hillarious and ridiculous.