RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I'll focus on this, NEVER build negative rapport with chicks. When she starts b1tching about sh!t, change the subject. I have teenagers... and yeah teenagers are a pain in the @ss. Many women I've dated have teens too, when they start complaining about their kids, it would be SO EASY to just go with that and have a drunken b1tch session about our kids. Yeah... it's INSTANT rapport, but it is NEGATIVE rapport. You want to build POSITIVE rapport. So what I do is start talking about how great my kids are (it's easy because they are great) but what this does is it starts her saying positive things about their kids... then... well it becomes POSITVE Rapport. If she won't follow your lead and be positive, then that is the last date you go on.... During that conversation she was telling me about a small issue that she was facing at her shop and I responded by saying that I wish I had more time to be able to assist her.
This is true with EVERYTHING. Some women will start complaining about their exes, DO NOT fall into that trap, just say things like, "Well, he couldn't have been THAT bad since you were with him." Then say "I really don't talk about my exes, but I learn from all my experiences." Again, if she is interested in you , she will follow your lead. If she stays negative, she isn't looking for a playful mate, she'll looking for a therapist.
One more thing... NEVER offer to help a chick with ANYTHING unless she specifically asks you for help... then at that point you negotiate what she will do for you in return.
Negative rapport creates ENEMIES. Which is why she got mad at you. The USA and USSR... we had rapport when we were fighting Nazis, soon as the Nazis were vanquished, we became enemies. Our rapport was negative.
Positive rapport creates friends and playmates. The USA and the UK, we always had positive rapport based on common culture and language, so even after Hitler offed himself in a bunker.. we still remained friends.
I all you have in common is sh1t you both hate... well... when that thing you hate disappears you have to find something you can hate together... if you can't find something you can agree to 'hate', you will start hating each other.... this works on a micro as well as marco level.