Josh Davidson
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Start the first date with a hug.
What should I say before the hug?
What should I say before the hug?
It would be weird not to hug her when you meet, what else do guys do? Shake hands with the girl or just awkwardly stand there?I’ve never had a first date where I didn’t hug them at first. But it’s not the same as “touching” during the date.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That is not a "barrier to break"; that's standard default social interaction (with girls), so there is nothing special about it...Start the first date with a hug.
What should I say before the hug?
Start the first date with a hug.
What should I say before the hug?