How do you find quality women for your rotation ?

[Bingo-Player]

Basically been working the clubs over the last couple of months as thats where i meet 90% of the chicks i interact with , gotten a few lays and pulled a lot but they are all fleeting one night only kind of things

I am conscious i am getting older and cant really be running club game week in week out and nor would i want too as its detrimental to my health , my mindset and my wealth

Problem is i work from home usually on my own , theres only a handful of females in my gym the second place i spend the most time outside of work gym and clubbing i have no idea where to start looking for women , i know someone mentioned coffee shops the other day and i may start trying that

Another issue i am finding is that my tolerance for anything less than perfect is far lower than it used too be

I am getting to the point where in dating i will only even consider a certain look in a female ( brunette , nice eyes , good dress sense)

My last GF was maybe 2 points lower in SMV than me but i allowed it because we connected so well , unfortunately as time went on the level of physical attraction i had towards her deteriorated to the point where i didn't even want to have sex with her and was constantly pining for other women nasty but harsh reality

So at nearly 30 i dont want too take that risk again , so the next girl i feel has to be physically 100% there

For those of you with rotations are you picky ? or do you just stick anyone in there ?

If you have a quality rotation how did you build it ?

I am not looking for answers surrounding OLD as i think its such a poor way of meeting people

dont mind doing the legwork its just knowing where to do it.....

 

[AureliusMaximus]

So at nearly 30 i dont want too take that risk again , so the next girl i feel has to be physically 100% there

lol you're still young dude. Chill.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Define what is quality for you.

Get that quality yourself by going to:
eg. Gym, Art shows, Finance seminars, Tech conferences, Book stores, music concerts

Talk to all kinds of women, don't focus on sleeping with them but filtering them.
(This is what I didn't do younger)

Take their number if you find them great.

Calibrate game.

 

[Bingo-Player]

lol you're still young dude. Chill.

Perhaps its just the places i am going but i swear this weekend nearly every chick i spoke with was under 25

a large proportion even under 22 , i dont have a problem with dating and sleeping with these girls but they are not what i would class as "quality"

Most of them just seemed to be out for a good time and too get laid again no problem with that but not sure these are the types of girls i would want as a partner

 

[Bingo-Player]

Define what is quality for you.

Get that quality yourself by going to:
eg. Gym, Art shows, Finance seminars, Tech conferences, Book stores, music concerts

Talk to all kinds of women, don't focus on sleeping with them but filtering them.
(This is what I didn't do younger)

Take their number if you find them great.

Calibrate game.

Good advice i was just thinking i probably need to project the type i am looking for from myself

My "game" is definitely going to need to evolve running around clubs chatting women up is starting to wear thin

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

As stated by @darksprezzatura you first need to define what you are learning looking for. Even in bars and clubs normal people go there sometimes. If you don’t want a club rat or party girl quit looking where those congregate. Try a happy hour setting somewhere young & hip for example. Women who might have a drink or two & then head home.

Volunteering can involve young women who are passionate about something…animal rescue, the arts, etc. Go to yoga classes or take up salsa.

Looking for a partner is a different deal than looking for a bang, obviously…

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Lmao who still goes and would pick up a girl at a club?

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

You be a quality man.

You attract what you are.

If you have a hole inside you will attract all sorts of nasty.

too many men thing they are entighteled to "quality" without having anything to offer.

Not saying that's your case.

But water eventually finds its own level.

this is horrible advice, a lot of high quality men get hooked on terrible women

 

[TheProspect]

this is horrible advice, a lot of high quality men get hooked on terrible women

So what’s your advice to OP? This is your second post to this thread and you still haven’t contributed anything to it.

 

[TheProspect]

For those of you with rotations are you picky ? or do you just stick anyone in there ?

If you have a quality rotation how did you build it ?

I am not looking for answers surrounding OLD as i think its such a poor way of meeting people

dont mind doing the legwork its just knowing where to do it.....

It’s cliche and has already been mentioned, but there’s a lot of truth to “you attract who you are”.

The quality of women I meet and interact with has grown as my own value increased, even if it’s just perceived value — and a lot of perceived value is just a matter of raising your confidence level and how you carry yourself overall (mindset, self-perception, etc).

There’s also the standard advice that comes along with improving your SMV…. as you improve your looks, money, and status (in addition to game), both the quantity and quality of the options available to you begin to increase as you begin to operate on their frequency — they notice you and you begin to notice them. Like attracts like.

I’ll add that timing and luck is a big factor as well, and probably the most important. Sometimes it’s just a matter of being in the right place at the right time.

Prepare for meeting quality women by becoming a quality man, it’ll increase your odds of actually attracting and attaining them. Then it’s just a matter of opportunities presenting themselves.

“Luck is what happens preparation meets opportunity”

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

So what’s your advice to OP? This is your second post to this thread and you still haven’t contributed anything to it.

I don't have an answer, but avoiding bad advice and doing nothing is better than following bad advice

 

[Zimbabwe]

Try the meetup groups with hobbys you are into, it's important to find women who share the same interests so it's easier to connect.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I guess im in a transition stage in my life where i am building wealth , value and status and as a result am finding it difficult to not only pin point my own market value but also female market value

perfectly aware it's naive to value a woman solely on her beauty although its an extremely easy trap so many men fall into

I do believe beauty, integrity and intelligence are probably a very rare combination in a female , i think ive only ever discovered a woman with all these attributes maybe two or three times in my entire life and as you say your never going to find one of these in a nightclub at 3 in the morning


i have a lot to think about , thanks all for your input

 

[Grounded eagle]

Lmao who still goes and would pick up a girl at a club?

What is wrong with that?

 

[BadBoy89]

I am not looking for answers surrounding OLD as i think its such a poor way of meeting people

I went out with a really hot girl in my social circle. She tried to sue me for $25,000,000.

I met a girl online a while back. Still going with her and it’s been my deepest and most intimate relationship ever.

You can find them wherever. Just don’t expect the girl to be “pure“ or a “innocent”. She has been f*cked 18 different ways from Sunday at 30.

 

[Glassguy]

So what’s your advice to OP? This is your second post to this thread and you still haven’t contributed anything to it.

He rarely does.

 

[Glassguy]

@Bingo-Player
You find quality women for your rotation the same as you do finding quality women that you would date and feel they qualify for LTR potential.

@BeExcellent gave great advice. I rarely go to a club or bar because what I'm looking for rarely exists there. I'm not looking for a party chick for my rotation. I'm looking for someone worth investing into, and even someone I see once a week is still someone that I am investing my time into. And these days, my time is valuable.

My best rotations have been with 2-4 women who were all very much worth dating. Very attractive, financially independent, socially outgoing, and very fun to be around. They also all very much pleased me sexualy. It was difficult for one of them to really stand out.
That's the issue with a rotation. When you get a good one going it brings along with it some tough decisions because of my lack of time. Sometimes it's like splitting hairs as to which woman rises to the top.
In my rotations I am dating different women but I take it to the edge of committing to one of them without actually committing. And when it gets to that point you either have to drop your other chicks or lose the one that you won't commit too.....which is ultimately a revolving door of women.

Rotations definitely have benefit, but at 44 years old I am starting to feel as though I'd be more content with just one woman to find that is worth commitment to and see where it goes. I have a 3 woman rotation rolling right now and there is one that fits the bill. The problem is I haven't dated her long enough to know for sure. And we all know that once a woman knows she can have you, the perimeters of the game changes as does the paradigm of power.
So who knows. Its anyone's guess.

Hope this helps with the question you asked. Just find women that you could see worth investing in. Look for those women in places where they exist.

You won't find pearls in the desert.

Happy Hunting

 

[darksprezzatura]

Advice from the old lady:

As stated by @darksprezzatura you first need to define what you are learning looking for. Even in bars and clubs normal people go there sometimes. If you don’t want a club rat or party girl quit looking where those congregate. Try a happy hour setting somewhere young & hip for example. Women who might have a drink or two & then head home.

Volunteering can involve young women who are passionate about something…animal rescue, the arts, etc. Go to yoga classes or take up salsa.

Looking for a partner is a different deal than looking for a bang, obviously…

Great bit about animal rescue shelters/dance. Not a bad addition to places to check out

 

[metalwater]

looking for a girlfriend, exclusive or a rotation, or just better quality encounters.

some decent girlfriends will not like to be in a rotation but might choose you for exclusive. but either way, the encounters have to be good quality. so the base question is where and how to meet girls that have more value to you than just sex.

some tell that no such thing, so don't allow such a girl to find you.

some ideas that I have seen work... however corny and outdated it sounds.

- let your friends know what you want and why, as long as the why is something other than for variety. if your friends believe you're trying to meet up with better quality women and you want to treat her in a higher quality way they will route that type to you. I mean based on what you tell your friends would they send their sister or daughter to you... Those types of hookups can be very high quality, but they have to believe you're providing high quality also.

- some of the valid red pill attraction skills will work against you. I mean you might want a more stable woman, that has a smaller fluctuation in emotions. I mean she might not bang you on the first night, but being sure she would if she liked you will color your view. your view might be correct or it can be that her slower emotional change takes also longer to sync into you. but you won't know because she will be next before the chance because we don't want to be beta... Far more betas have stable relationships than alphas... but with bad treatment... I mean look at what they do, and use the parts that you can to attract, if you can attract in both beta and alpha frame the same girl, that one will be worth testing out.

- never ever forget that the woman is your employee, you have to give her jobs and make sure she does them the way you like. if she is smart you can let her come up with the details of how she does it. you have to verify and qa her all the time if you want the project to stay on track. remember there are plenty of guys just like you outside, and you don't want her to have a rotation; right... A huge mistake is to find the high character woman and then just forget that she is still a woman with almost every guy she meets available to her and many pokeing and pushing to find an opening... It's your job to manage your project, she is just part of it.

 

[roaming shark]

At 30, you really aren’t at your prime if you work hard. Also, I sense that you may be a little desperate. Please understand that probably 90% of us wonder the exact same thing you are wondering...”where are the good gurlz”

In my opinion and experience, is that they are everywhere. But the key is cultivating a personal ecosystem that puts you in the best position to attract them. Like I said, they are literally everywhere. Clubs, bars, church.

Now obviously you need to gauge where your personal time is best spent looking for them. But ideally you shouldnt Be looking. You should be DOING. Living a life of abundance and value. This will inevitably attract multiple women you want. Ultimately allowing YOU to filter and qualify women to bring into your life.

Also don’t forget that as you age, what you think you want or like now will definitely change. Prepare yourself for this.