Single and lonely girls

[AttackFormation]

How do girls end up complaining about being single and lonely and "just wanting to be loved" despite being swamped in men?

I see it on a site that im on where girls are literally drowning in messages and followers. Is it some ploy to get more customers for their onlyfans girlfriend experience? are they schizophreniac? what's going on?

 

[metalwater]

How do girls end up complaining about being single and lonely despite being swamped in men?

I see it on a site that im on where girls are swamped by followers and messages. Is it some ploy to get more customers for their onlyfans girlfriend experience? are they schizophreniac?

is it the same girl?

some girls are very swamped in men, the ones that smile and look good. the ones that frown (a lot) and crabby not so much. a good-looking woman that always frowns and crabby drops 3 or 5 points. then they tell the guys that try no because the dude is not hot. hot ones not doing to go down 3 to 5 points.

it is the same way that men complain about low character women, while they contribute to the problem. history is remembered from the viewpoint of the winner.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Because to them simps and beta males might as well not even exist, they get attention but not from the guys they want. This is why women complain they can't find any guy on OLD even though they get thousands of messages.

They literally had to close close the female incel subreddit down because it was swamped with lonely men.

 

[AttackFormation]

is it the same girl?

some girls are very swamped in men, the ones that smile and look good. the ones that frown (a lot) and crabby not so much. a good-looking woman that always frowns and crabby drops 3 or 5 points. then they tell the guys that try no because the dude is not hot. hot ones not doing to go down 3 to 5 points.

it is the same way that men complain about low character women, while they contribute to the problem. history is remembered from the viewpoint of the winner.

Yes it's the same girl obviously lol that's the point of this thread!

 

[AttackFormation]

Because to them simps and beta males might as well not even exist, they get attention but not from the guys they want. This is why women complain they can't find any guy on OLD even though they get thousands of messages.

They literally had to close close the female incel subreddit down because it was swamped with lonely men.

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But who the fvck do they want then, if thousand and thousands of men arent good enough? and is really everyone messaging them a simp or a beta male?

I guess the men they want are the men theyre actually fvcking (they sure aint living in celibacy). Maybe theyre happy to just fvck those guys, but still crave to be a victim too, so they do both.

 

[AttackFormation]

They are deeply mentally ill. They don't last more than one or two dates with any guys with self respect.

Do you have any examples with girls/dates youve been on?

 

[mjb3617]

Do you have any examples with girls/dates youve been on?

I'll bite. My last relationship (when I was a beta simp with no self-respect) was with a girl with legitimate mental issues. On head meds, attempted suicide earlier in life, had cutting scars on her thighs and arms, grew up with a schizo mom. Still lived with her ex-bf while she drove out to me to get boned. Claimed she loved me and vice versa but eventually realized I was a dumbass and she was full of it. Cut her loose when I wised up. Relationship lasted all of 3 months.

That relationship woke me up to reality. After it ended, got into the gym, lost 50 pounds so far, gaining muscle, and working on my mindset/frame. Happier being alone right now but the urge to see a woman is still strong. But I'm not going to enter any relationship being a beta simp.

Onwards and upwards.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Women monopolize sex, men monopolize relationships, it's simply they cannot share in intimacy with a man, cannot get that emotional input they need, so they try to get all this **** from their friends by acting masculine around them, then try to take this masculinity into the relationship market place and it gets even worse for them

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

They are complaining about either A) the guy that they are currently fvcking not wanting to commit or B) the top 1% of men not approaching them.

98% of men are completely invisible to these women

 

[AttackFormation]

Yes, I was dating this pretty sexy 30yo woman. Social butterfly and always surrounded by men. You would definitely wonder why she was ever single considering that she had would appear to be a giant harem of suitors and orbiters.

Had an amazing first date. Great second date, but she had a few drinks and starts getting incredibly negative and critical. I called her out on it afterwards and she apologized and said she didn't mean to do that. Then she did it again on the third date, and I called her out to her face. She completely flipped out and that was that. She knew that she pretty much couldn't help herself and that she was just inherently broken, and certainly knew she couldn't pull anything by me and I wasn't going to put up with it.

And we know theyre not living in celibacy right, so the guys theyre actually fvcking are the ones who are hot enough for her to want them, but who minimise their interactions with her to ejaculating and evacuating. And that and their craving for being a victim (exasperated by their mental illness) is why they complain.

It paints a very bleak picture of the site im on. Like you say, they have giant harems of suitors, hookups, fwbs and orbiters year after year. Your diagnosis of "deep mental illness" confirms what i already suspect must be the case, it just doesnt make sense otherwise.

 

[Fruitbat]

Yes, I was dating this pretty sexy 30yo woman. Social butterfly and always surrounded by men. You would definitely wonder why she was ever single considering that she had would appear to be a giant harem of suitors and orbiters.

Had an amazing first date. Great second date, but she had a few drinks and starts getting incredibly negative and critical. I called her out on it afterwards and she apologized and said she didn't mean to do that. Then she did it again on the third date, and I called her out to her face. She completely flipped out and that was that. She knew that she pretty much couldn't help herself and that she was just inherently broken, and certainly knew she couldn't pull anything by me and I wasn't going to put up with it.

i dated a single mom when I was 21 (she had just divorced and I was seeking a quick pump and dump)

On the first night she gave me a lecture about how if I used her for secks her father and his mates would stalk me “first it would start with your wing mirrors and your tyres but that’s just the start”

oddly as I was drunk I accepted a blower and never called her back and nothing ever happened in retaliation

 

[Fruitbat]

They are complaining about either A) the guy that they are currently fvcking not wanting to commit or B) the top 1% of men not approaching them.

98% of men are completely invisible to these women

i know quite a hot single mom I went to school with. She is total trash but she is quite hot, and she spends a lot of time posing on Facebook with split dresses etc.

she was dating some dude (looked total alpha Coke dealer type - muscular, good car and tough looking)

this guy obviouslt Left her for another woman. This women spend literally months typing Facebook posts about how this woman was a slut, how she didn’t care, how they deserve each other.

it was so degrading for her. She has a ton of betas.
Regardless of her obvious alpha widow soul I actually quite like her on a friendly level.

I did try telling her privately not to be so public as it’s making her worse.

I am conscious I don’t want to be a simp, I am not, repeat hot for this woman. She’s attractive but she’s waaaay too crazy. On the other hand I wanted to help her.

my wife is way hotter by the way. I guess that’s why she always wants to speak to me despite me definitely not being her type.

mad words.

 

[AttackFormation]

i dated a single mom when I was 21 (she had just divorced and I was seeking a quick pump and dump)

On the first night she gave me a lecture about how if I used her for secks her father and his mates would stalk me “first it would start with your wing mirrors and your tyres but that’s just the start”

oddly as I was drunk I accepted a blower and never called her back and nothing ever happened in retaliation

Have you noticed that:

- Men who dont want to be "friends" with women who reject them for sex are "misogynistic" or "toxic"
- Women who dont want to be the sex buddy of men who reject them for relationships "know their worth" and "are right to never settle for less"

I personally dont experience this as i never relate to them platonically. But what's with that double standard?

 

[Robert28]

If these women had to live one week as a guy and experience was REAL singleness and loneliness, or what real rejection felt like they’d probably off themselves. After a week.

 

[Robert28]

Have you noticed that:

- Men who dont want to be "friends" with women who reject them for sex are "misogynistic" or "toxic"
- Women who dont want to be the sex buddy of men who reject them for relationships "know their worth" and "are right to never settle for less"

I personally dont experience this as i never relate to them platonically. But what's with that double standard?

Women make the rules for the dating market and that’s why it’s so screwed up and makes no sense.

 

[metalwater]

Yes it's the same girl obviously lol that's the point of this thread!

their mind works in partitions. one of those is really sad as told, another is excited and processing the attention, another is working a calculator about the money, another is processing a new relationship, the list goes on. they don't have a shared state on the processing memory. the sadness does not follow into the other partitions as it is only short-term memory. all of the short-term memory and processing are in partitions independent of each other. there is shared long-term storage, but what goes there is first scrubbed.

men have shared short-term processing and shared working memory. it is why we are FAR better at solving new problems.

women do stateless processing, while men do stateful processing. very different.

trying to figure out what is the master's program in women is foolish, none is it. if you/we only have a view of one persona of a woman we don't know much about her yet even after years sometimes.

 

[corrector]

If these women had to live one week as a guy and experience was REAL singleness and loneliness, or what real rejection felt like they’d probably off themselves. After a week.

You are giving them a week? Thats generous. I would give them a day.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

How do girls end up complaining about being single and lonely and "just wanting to be loved" despite being swamped in men?

I see it on a site that im on where girls are literally drowning in messages and followers. Is it some ploy to get more customers for their onlyfans girlfriend experience? are they schizophreniac? what's going on?

Because deep down they know they are the problem. And they have unrealistic expectations when in reality they are not even close to that which they are looking for with nothing to offer or out on the table.

Modern Man Advice

 

[bat soup]

How do girls end up complaining about being single and lonely and "just wanting to be loved" despite being swamped in men?

I see it on a site that im on where girls are literally drowning in messages and followers. Is it some ploy to get more customers for their onlyfans girlfriend experience? are they schizophreniac? what's going on?

They just want to be loved by a guy that earns six figures.

 

[Robert28]

They just want to be loved by a guy that earns six figures.

Yep. And 6 pack abs. And 6’ tall. But he’s gotta be a white Chad that stays home a lot while earning those 6 figures. I don’t see women lining up for Indian doctors lol And I’m saying this as a white dude!