Most guys are too formal and full of tension when they approach. It doesn’t flow naturally at all. The way I overcame this was to practice friendly banter with strangers every day, with both men and women. This teaches you to interact with an easy style. Less formal.
The thing that undermines most men is Investment. The woman senses that the man is already “all in” even before he opens his mouth. Instead, practice self-amusement, making fun situations for yourself first and for others around you second. I can’t stress how important this skill is. It’s life-changing.
Secondly, always project a vague attitude of superiority over women. Contrary to popular belief, this is a huge turn on. Women everywhere are CRAVING a man who is superior to them, a man they can look up to. They most definitely do not want a man whom they consider their equal.
Learn a few big words and deploy them sparingly but with intent. Tease them for not knowing what the word means. Frequently remind them by implication that you are superior to them. Do it in a fun, self-amusing way.
“That was pretty good…for a girl…”
“Ooh, that must cost you serious points with men.”
“Wow, you just lost a few points there.”
“Come on… you’ve got to be quicker than that.”
“Try to keep up with me.”
“On what planet is that considered cute?”
“Does this quirk run in your family?”
Use stuff like this strategically and with lighthearted amusement; Sort of a twinkle in your eye. Confuse her and make her wonder if you’re joking or serious.
Even if you clearly convey that you’re teasing, she will feel a bit insecure (all women are immensely insecure) and wonder if there’s a grain of truth to what you’re saying.
Mix that with friendliness, politeness, boldness and gentlemanliness. This is a lethal combination. You will cause women to completely obsess about you if you get the formula down.
