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Has anyone Tried the Pre-emptive Breakup?

Zimbabwe

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After watching Seinfeld, I decided to give it a go with a chick I had been chatting to from OLD.

What's interesting is at first she seemed pretty indifferent to the whole, then her next message was a bit passive aggressive. I'm curious if she will send more.

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Has anyone else tried this? Here is the clip from Seinfeld for those wondering
 

mrskinnypantz

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I did this recently with a chick I met from online dating
Even tho she didn’t say it,I feel as if I was coming on pretty aggressive as well
I was on a highway to the friendzone When I employed this pre-emptive strategy
She then backpeddled and told me she had feelings for me
 

Zimbabwe

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I did this recently with a chick I met from online dating
Even tho she didn’t say it,I feel as if I was coming on pretty aggressive as well
I was on a highway to the friendzone When I employed this pre-emptive strategy
She then backpeddled and told me she had feelings for me
She's not going to tell Chris Hemsworth that his "coming off too strong". Interesting how one little rejection gets their hamster spinning in overdrive.

Dude, chicks cannot handle rejection.

Sometimes a Chick will try to get back with you just so she can end it. Their egos are insane. They haaaate losing. You see the worst sides of female nature when you reject them.

Reject a chick and you often gain a stalker.
It makes sense, it honestly makes me want to try this more just to see what kind of reaction they would give. I'm surprised this isn't talked about more on this forum.
 

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Good job!

You can just get a good laugh at her follow up response. Her words actually mean nothing... your takeaway is that 20 minutes later, you were still burning in her mind.

There's no guarantee how this will turn out... but your silence (at least for the time being) will work to your favor. If you get a few mean text's, this is actually a good sign (after she cools down, it'll be the opposite).
 

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She's not going to tell Chris Hemsworth that his "coming off too strong". Interesting how one little rejection gets their hamster spinning in overdrive
She wouldnt dare.
I bet you he doesnt have to “get to know” her for an extended period of time either
 

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Good job!

You can just get a good laugh at her follow up response. Her words actually mean nothing... your takeaway is that 20 minutes later, you were still burning in her mind.

There's no guarantee how this will turn out... but your silence (at least for the time being) will work to your favor. If you get a few mean text's, this is actually a good sign (after she cools down, it'll be the opposite).
At first I thought I would just get one indifferent message and never hear from her again, I have a feeling she expects me to respond but i never will.
 

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It's not talked about because dudes are so thristy that the thought of rejecting a chcik never occurs to them. It goes back to what we were discussing before about the Simp Apocalypse.

I've said it before on this forum - rejecting a woman does more for your masculinity and self-respect than anything else.

I just rejected one 20 minutes ago who was tooling me. Predictably now she's trying to call me. I will never, ever speak to her again. Just so that she has to live with it. Women think playing hard to get is cute. It's not.
The only time a girl ever reaches back out is when it's on her terms or convenient for her, that's why I've always hated when guys say to "never delete a number".

No girl is worth giving up your dignity over, I don't get care how nice that rack is or how fat that ass is. Men need their self respect again.
 

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Reject a chick and you often gain a stalker.
Yea had to block one

She spent a fortnight telling me how amazing in bed she was and how her ex used to say she was like a porn star

we fvcked and it was crap and she knew it was crap ........ i told her we weren't sexually compatible and she went crazy

Kept messaging me on FB begging to let her have another go

had to block her in the end
 

Dash Riprock

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After watching Seinfeld, I decided to give it a go with a chick I had been chatting to from OLD.

What's interesting is at first she seemed pretty indifferent to the whole, then her next message was a bit passive aggressive. I'm curious if she will send more.

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Has anyone else tried this? Here is the clip from Seinfeld for those wondering
Yes. It works big time. It's the nuclear option. BUT, once you do this with a woman you CANNOT go back and "give her another shot" as she'll dump you guaranteed just to "get even."
 

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My ex did this to me. We were exploring polyamory and she got hella insecure and kept saying I’d leave her for another woman. Try as I might to assure her I had room in my heart for multiple women, she broke it off. My mistake was trying to “fix” things and it went downhill once we decided to give it another shot. I was glad to be done with it tbh but I still think we have crazy chemistry and she is taking too many notes from feminist magazines.

Additionally, I can also say that I’ve field tested the “fvck ten other women” strategy to get over a breakup but it hasn’t worked
 

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After watching Seinfeld, I decided to give it a go with a chick I had been chatting to from OLD.

What's interesting is at first she seemed pretty indifferent to the whole, then her next message was a bit passive aggressive. I'm curious if she will send more.

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Has anyone else tried this? Here is the clip from Seinfeld for those wondering
If you don't like the way a woman is responding, the best thing is to just stop writing to her. It's never worth telling a woman anything about how you feel.
 
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