It's a common theme I see on this forum where a woman is showing very low interest or at best borderline medium interest, and the poster wants advice on how to convert the lady into a high interest prospect.
Yes it is possible to convert low interest woman into a high interest woman and it happens every day. However there are many dynamically moving variables that make it near impossible to achieve. Even if you pull it off successfully its not repeatable, you won't know the exact formula or how to execute the formula in the same way, and each women's response to the formula will vary significantly depending on a multitude of sociological, biological, and emotional variables that are outside your control.
If she has low or borderline medium interest she will not respond to your text messages and if she does respond her replies will become slow with little effort. If you try to arrange a date she will never declare her availability or will find 1000 reasons why she can't meet on the days you suggested, and funnily enough she will never contribute and make a suggestion! If she does agree to a date she will flake at the last moment or pretend she forgot about the date.
If you persist she will downgrade you to an orbiter status, some random guy she uses for attention. You will think you are making progress to get her on a date, meanwhile she is going on dates with other guys and getting 'extra' attention from you! Why would you want to hang out with somebody who doesn't want to hang out with you? If she wanted you in her presence she would make it easier not harder for you!
Some individuals 'claim' they want the challenge of changing the woman's mind or are too stubborn to focus on that nerdy and possibly less attractive woman you know who is readily available. Whatever the reason, please stop!
Seducing a woman is a process, in most cases a difficult and long process so choose your battles, you don't go into war fighting the strongest enemy, instead you pick the battle you can win in the most efficient and cost effective way. Here is an analogy, low and borderline medium interest girls is like fighting a well equipped army, whereas high interest women is like fighting a developing nation.
A man can only fight so many battles before they get drained physically, mentally and spiritually; so the best course of action is to stop fighting a difficult battle or a losing battle with a woman. If a woman is deliberately being obstructive to date or she is not committing to a plan from the beginning of the courtship then its already a lost battle and you should begin to walk away to an easier battle. She probably doesn't like you, doesn't like you enough or is entangled with another guy whom she prefers.
Yes it is possible to convert low interest woman into a high interest woman and it happens every day. However there are many dynamically moving variables that make it near impossible to achieve. Even if you pull it off successfully its not repeatable, you won't know the exact formula or how to execute the formula in the same way, and each women's response to the formula will vary significantly depending on a multitude of sociological, biological, and emotional variables that are outside your control.
If she has low or borderline medium interest she will not respond to your text messages and if she does respond her replies will become slow with little effort. If you try to arrange a date she will never declare her availability or will find 1000 reasons why she can't meet on the days you suggested, and funnily enough she will never contribute and make a suggestion! If she does agree to a date she will flake at the last moment or pretend she forgot about the date.
If you persist she will downgrade you to an orbiter status, some random guy she uses for attention. You will think you are making progress to get her on a date, meanwhile she is going on dates with other guys and getting 'extra' attention from you! Why would you want to hang out with somebody who doesn't want to hang out with you? If she wanted you in her presence she would make it easier not harder for you!
Some individuals 'claim' they want the challenge of changing the woman's mind or are too stubborn to focus on that nerdy and possibly less attractive woman you know who is readily available. Whatever the reason, please stop!
Seducing a woman is a process, in most cases a difficult and long process so choose your battles, you don't go into war fighting the strongest enemy, instead you pick the battle you can win in the most efficient and cost effective way. Here is an analogy, low and borderline medium interest girls is like fighting a well equipped army, whereas high interest women is like fighting a developing nation.
A man can only fight so many battles before they get drained physically, mentally and spiritually; so the best course of action is to stop fighting a difficult battle or a losing battle with a woman. If a woman is deliberately being obstructive to date or she is not committing to a plan from the beginning of the courtship then its already a lost battle and you should begin to walk away to an easier battle. She probably doesn't like you, doesn't like you enough or is entangled with another guy whom she prefers.
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