Dude, a person shouldn't be hanging with prostitutes in the first place. No need to pay for sex these days. None.Who said you have to be with a prostitute to know that? If a prostitute ad says 'no blacks', then anyone reading that ad can conclude its a racist ad.
The thing is, this has become so common place that even if it's not mentioned, the ad is still suspect, since the escorts can always screen people, especially if the escort is asking for your age and ethnicity/race. These days, unless it says "all races and nationalities are welcome" or "blacks welcomed", then you cant be sure.
Provide a quote where I said I was either hanging out with prostitutes or paying for sex.Dude, you shouldn't be hanging with prostitutes in the first place. No need to pay for sex these days. None.
Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??The thing is, this has become so common place that even if it's not mentioned, the ad is still suspect, since the escorts can always screen people, especially if the escort is asking for your age and ethnicity/race. These days, unless it says "all races and nationalities are welcome" or "blacks welcomed", then you cant be sure.
Don't want to get stretched outWhy do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
Again its systemic racism. Everybody down on blacks for any bs reason where a white person would either get a pass or personally banned but not their whole race. Maybe its to keep racist police from targetting their operation.Why do prostitutes/escort businesses say "no blacks" ??
Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?Most after 23, so about 10 years. Most were pump and dumps.
I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.Provide a quote where I said I was either hanging out with prostitutes or paying for sex.
Why do you think I would do that if I feel prostitute have demons who want to attack me and everyone else seems to get that this is a barrier to escortcelling?
Did you have any long lays where you banged 100 or more times?
Did the pump and dumps teach you anything you would not have known with out them?
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Either way, even as a generalization, it deflects from the issue. But I digress, almost no blacks on this board seem to have any issues with women and even @cola went with an Asian massage parlour, which means he has no problem accessing services he wants. I guess it's just @AttackFormation and myself.I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.
I know if i lived a certain way, I could eventually get several new lays per week, but it would require a time investment, obviously a successful system, a lifestyle that's a great "bait" in itself, and it would be like a part time job. I do have satisfaction having gf's or positive contacts that i sleep with like i've done up until now, but perhaps going a few years and adding 100+ might not be so bad and we might learn something.I corrected it to dudes in general, not you. I wasn't targeting you, just stating in general.
Not for nothing, but most of these dudes, who've not posted pics of themselves stating they layed 20, 50, 100, 200 + females is bullsh!t. Just saying. I, and you, have both posted pics of ourselves. I cannot speak for you, but I've not layed 100+ females. I cut my ONS out after getting an STD once, so I curtailed my laying quite a bit since then.
Having sex at a reasonable rate is not an "addiction" and I know the powers that be and feminist included would wish 99% of men were sex deprived eunichs, and for them to desire a situation with sex a couple times a week would consider them a "sex addict" or "abusive to women".I had a few relationships in that time, but I was never faithful. The dynamic would just be her trying to tie me down, and me doing whatever I wanted.
The vast majority, I'd say 90%, of my lays were one night stands. This was because I didn't want women getting attached to me because it weighed me down. I wanted to be free all the time. I discovered if I bang a woman once and ghost then it's usually a lot easier to get rid of her rather than if I bang her multiple times and ghost. If you bang her once and ghost, she's going to assume that you didn't like the sex. She can rationalize it. But if you bang her multiple times then you lose that Exit Strategy and she will feel much more entitled to your "commitment'.
It's kinda funny. My concerns were never around getting laid. I was only ever concerned about how I was going to get rid of her cleanly after I'd used her.
Pump and Dump - I learned that the more you get, the more you want. Greed is endless.
End Game for me now is being aware of sex addiction, and not letting it rule my life anymore.
I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.I’m in my mid-twenties so the count is still 10-20. I also still believe in love (though I know most people on this forum don’t and would call me naïve) so I usually get to know the girl a bit first which I think is also uncommon on this forum. Usually I don’t bang on the first date (unless she’s smoking hot) and I don’t do male escorts which I suspect a lot of the people with 500+ counts have. However, I’m not a child and will bang if she asks me to, but I will wait a bit if she does not initiate it.
I was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.I don't really believe in love and I still like to get to know the person.
Oh, I knowI was saying that since I believe in love, I like to get to know the person first. I didn’t say that if you don’t believe in it then you don’t like getting to know them. Just that it’s more common with people like me.