What redflags did you ignore?

[Mazer]

Two divorces in four years. (Blue-pill days)

 

[jaymbrs]

- She put out the night I met her.
- She really liked to drink.
-Divorced twice.

Honestly though, I was a bit lonely in a new city so knowingly overlooked these things. Once things got better for me, I started having A LOT of issues with her.

 

[GT40]

- She put out the night I met her.
- She really liked to drink.
-Divorced twice.

Honestly though, I was a bit lonely in a new city so knowingly overlooked these things. Once things got better for me, I started having A LOT of issues with her.

Those are three Red Flags. Huge. At
Least you moved on.

 

[2Rocky]

 

[Redwolf]

Colored hair

Tattoos

Obsessed with famous people

Daddy issues

Travels often to party with friends she meets online but won't hang out with friends in her everyday life

Women who can't maintain friendships (never ending new friend of the week)

Her longest relationship was 9 months

 

[derby1]

Daddy Issues. They are bad news. I work with many females. The ones who have daddy issues or no dad. Totally insane.

you will be put in a mental asylum if you try and talk about it openly, biggest problem in the world totally ignored by schools /doctors/ society.
the girls in my daughters year with no dad. Theyre behaviour is chalk and cheese, compared to fathered kids, plus they have weird habits, and little A.W tricks already at the age of 13..

 

[2Rocky]

 

[Fruitbat]

While I do believe that there is very often a link between poor behavior or personality disorders and certain family dynamics, I personally don't disqualify based on learning of them. They are really only applicable in hindsight IMHO because not all women turn out bad due to various family dynamics.

Agree with Steve McQueen that hindsight is 2020.

or 2021 even