Can happy hour drinks 1st date turn into a hookup?

[Sebastian0001]

It's not just her who's filtering, it's you too.

Deflecting personal question with humor shows her that you aren't the kind to get emotional too fast and take things slow and easy.

Talking about other girls shows insecurity, instead if you actually talked to some other girl or she notices other girls being attracted to you, it increases attraction.

Never talk about other girls with plates.

It also reassures her that you'd be discreet about HER if you're with other people.

even if its a story about how many women want me? lol. What do u mean girls with plates?

 

[MatureDJ]

I remember during my younger days having a some success with cougars at Happy Hour. I was living in a city (OK, close-in suburb) that was/is a very popular business convention (as well as general tourist) destination, so there were a lot of cougars that were married to the Corporation. I would imagine that my fellow local Ranger Mike also did well (and as he is not short, he probably did a lot better).

 

[MatureDJ]

even if its a story about how many women want me? lol. What do u mean girls with plates?

A girl with plates is a slut that doesn't charge her johns. (NOTE: An orbitor is not a "plate" since he is not getting sexed.)

 

[SW15]

I remember during my younger days having a some success with cougars at Happy Hour. I was living in a city (OK, close-in suburb) that was/is a very popular business convention (as well as general tourist) destination, so there were a lot of cougars that were married to the Corporation. I would imagine that my fellow local Ranger Mike also did well (and as he is not short, he probably did a lot better).

Cougars? Were you in your 20s and they were 30 or 35+?

 

[MatureDJ]

Cougars? Were you in your 20s and they were 30 or 35+?

yes, although I think one gal was 43.

 

[SW15]

yes, although I think one gal was 43.

Interesting. The older woman-younger man thing didn't really take off until the early 2000s so you were ahead of your time.

 

[MatureDJ]

Interesting. The older woman-younger man thing didn't really take off until the early 2000s so you were ahead of your time.

I suppose the movie "The Graduate" was ahead of its time too.

 

[2Rocky]

There is no formula, but bouncing to another place from there is a good way as any.
Of course if you can incorporate solid Kino (NOT groping) you can show your intent.
The idea of hitting a different venue seems to give her a wider variety of experiences with you , and allows for a more isolated one on one experience.

Happy hour to a tapas restaurant to walk along the river to dessert on your patio....

Happy hour to live music venue with opportunity for dancing to your house for a hot tub

Happy hour to ice cream and walk downtown. My place is right over there....

Happy hour to wine bar to late night diner to I have to feed my dog.....

Happy hour for 30 minutes and then lock in a second date that same week....

 

[KindredSpiritzz]

what's an example of a cool thing?

I know you cant in an apartment, but i invite them back to my place to go for a dip in my hot tub. Many times the hot tub is the first date but only if im pretty damn sure they actually look like what they are presenting. That hot tub has been worth its weight in gold and i highly recommend one to anyone owning a house. Adds another level to your game but basically hot tub or not it all comes down to if shes sexually attracted to you or not.