My biggest question about Hypergamy

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I see it on Tik Tok & Youtube, I see it on here...Your girl has drake or some billionaire in her dms or your girl meets some football player/Ashton Kutcher at the club. No offense, but why is someone like Drake or Ashton Kutcher interested in your 6-7/10 gf in the first place? I saw this video on YouTube where this guy's gf got asked back stage by some rapper and she was a 6/10 at best. Most of my girls are plain janes/nothing to boast about and they have been with .001% high value male at some point. My friend gets a lot of dms from these guys and she's nothing special at all. If these guys are so high value then why are they chasing after normie 6s and 7s?

Disclaimer- I consider 6s and 7s fvckable and slightly attractive and 8s- 9s hot tier. Y'alls scale might only consider 8s-9s fvckable.

 

[2Rocky]

Dial down the Analysis Paralysis. You can't control what other people do, say or look like. Focus on yourself. Particularly your ability to socialize. You seem to have an issue with being charming...better work on that

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Dial down the Analysis Paralysis. You can't control what other people do, say or look like. Focus on yourself. Particularly your ability to socialize. You seem to have an issue with being charming...better work on that

We aren't going to play the I'm superior/more intelligent than you mind game of turning every response in to a subtle insult. The red pill/black pill communities are obsessed with Hypergamy. I am asking a simple question based off it. Plain and simple kid.

 

[2Rocky]

you know who isn't obsessed with Hypergamy? Dudes who worked on themselves...Just sayin'...

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

you know who isn't obsessed with Hypergamy? Dudes who worked on themselves...Just sayin'...

dang man, got me good with the typical red pill guru hook and sinker

 

[Barrister]

I see it on Tik Tok & Youtube, I see it on here...Your girl has drake or some billionaire in her dms or your girl meets some football player/Ashton Kutcher at the club. No offense, but why is someone like Drake or Ashton Kutcher interested in your 6-7/10 gf in the first place? I saw this video on YouTube where this guy's gf got asked back stage by some rapper and she was a 6/10 at best. Most of my girls are plain janes/nothing to boast about and they have been with .001% high value male at some point. My friend gets a lot of dms from these guys and she's nothing special at all. If these guys are so high value then why are they chasing after normie 6s and 7s?

Disclaimer- I consider 6s and 7s fvckable and slightly attractive and 8s- 9s hot tier. Y'alls scale might only consider 8s-9s fvckable.

I think most men universally would consider a HB 7 and 7.5 "fvckable." That is actually an attractive woman -- maybe not "hot" -- but certainly good looking. And men like variety. It is natural to try to sleep with as many (good-looking) women as we can. So it shouldn't be some monumental shock that celebrities who have access to endless women would sleep with a HB 7 even when their SMV is out the roof and they can get a HB 9 whenever they want. They will sleep with both.

 

[Alvafe]

I see it on Tik Tok & Youtube, I see it on here...Your girl has drake or some billionaire in her dms or your girl meets some football player/Ashton Kutcher at the club. No offense, but why is someone like Drake or Ashton Kutcher interested in your 6-7/10 gf in the first place? I saw this video on YouTube where this guy's gf got asked back stage by some rapper and she was a 6/10 at best. Most of my girls are plain janes/nothing to boast about and they have been with .001% high value male at some point. My friend gets a lot of dms from these guys and she's nothing special at all. If these guys are so high value then why are they chasing after normie 6s and 7s?

Disclaimer- I consider 6s and 7s fvckable and slightly attractive and 8s- 9s hot tier. Y'alls scale might only consider 8s-9s fvckable.

you want to know why a random guy would hit a girl over the internet? for sex, if she perceive she can do better(the texting guy looks better), or she can get away with it she will take the chance. that is why you don't care about this, you just make it clear(please don't tell her upfront) you will drop her like a bad habit if she don't behave, and this also goes for the whole standards, you never tell her what or how to behave you see how she does, if she entretain random males over the internet, or loves to go out alone a lot you better drop her and get another.

problem with some is they get lost on semantics and try to understand woman, you don't understand woman you just accept what they are and choose one who don't annoy the hell of you and is there for you, and not just because you are the best she can do now

 

[spikeanut]

OP, I don't understand how this observation is about hypergamy. If you're talking about why celebrities and high-value guys are DMing random women, it's to have sex. Bottom line. Drake is not trying to wife up your 6/7 friend; he's trying to Fvck them. That has nothing to do with a woman's hypergamous nature, that has all to do with a man's sexual urge.

What you're looking for in an LTR, is a woman who is able to abstain from her hypergamous nature when higher tier men are pursuing them while they're in a relationship with you. That's where the question of hypergamy comes in; and this all boils down to filtering out based on red flags and setting up boundaries in the relationship. Even then, women are creatures of the moment. All you can do as a man, is ensure you immediately drop a woman who disrespects you by supplicating to their hypergamy.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

OP, I don't understand how this observation is about hypergamy. If you're talking about why celebrities and high-value guys are DMing random women, it's to have sex. Bottom line. Drake is not trying to wife up your 6/7 friend; he's trying to Fvck them. That has nothing to do with a woman's hypergamous nature, that has all to do with a man's sexual urge.

What you're looking for in an LTR, is a woman who is able to abstain from her hypergamous nature when higher tier men are pursuing them while they're in a relationship with you. That's where the question of hypergamy comes in; and this all boils down to filtering out based on red flags and setting up boundaries in the relationship. Even then, women are creatures of the moment. All you can do as a man, is ensure you immediately drop a woman who disrespects you by supplicating to their hypergamy.

I fully disagree, Drake has hot girls Dming and chasing him. Why in the world Is Drake chasing after some random 6 or 7 in Kansas City, Missouri? Either A, we are highly over inflating the sex lifes of the top1% of men or hypergamy is really that much of a problem

 

[DonJuanjr]

Hypergamy is an obfuscated term and is applied broadly. What is your understanding as it applies to this scenario? Just so I can understand.

Even if he doesn't answer you, I think others on here would benefit from your response.

 

[Epicenter]

My guess is that the real hot girls are still more work. So it is about ROI as usual.

 

[Focal core]

If your D swings like crazy with 6-7 why bother with 8-9?? Just answering your question Op..

 

[zekko]

If these guys are so high value then why are they chasing after normie 6s and 7s?

These rich and famous guys have top SMV because of their status. They say 20% of the guys bang 80% of the women. I consider 6's and up fvckable. These guys are spreading it around, they like the variety. An HB6 is sexy in a way an HB9 might not be. Even average women are appealing in their own unique way usually, as long as they aren't fat. These guys want a piece of it, an average girl might even be exotic for them. "Oh, here's Miss Girl Next Door in Kansas, let's see what that's like". This is why some girls get spoiled, because they had some high value guy in their past. It doesn't mean that guy is going to stick with them, but they think they got him once, so that's what they're worth.

 

[OldComeBacker]

Short answer: Because they can. Longer answer: If you are a musician/athlete or touring celebrity of some type, it's good to have a reliable 6 or 7 in just about every major city or place you regularly hit up. If you're there you're already working and after the show or at the hotel after the game or whatever it's good to have someone pre-selected with a low amount of additional work. This can also straight up be just paying for it. I mean, why do guys like James Harden and Drake publicly pay for OF/IG escorts? And if you aren't paying for it, I could see many reasons why your Road Beef doesn't have to be over a 6 or 7. Another answer is: notch count and the 6 or 7 is "bangable" enough for most dudes regardless of status, and I'm sure easier to play when you are one of those dudes.

 

[Georgepithyou]

I fully disagree, Drake has hot girls Dming and chasing him. Why in the world Is Drake chasing after some random 6 or 7 in Kansas City, Missouri? Either A, we are highly over inflating the sex lifes of the top1% of men or hypergamy is really that much of a problem

Did you ever see how thirsty james franco was in his texts to that 17 year old.

 

[user252009]

I'm pretty sure Drake doesn't dm random women. I mean, come on.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

This question is similar to one's about why do billionaires keep wanting to make more money.

Or why Alexander alleged wept when there were no more lands to conquer.

It's not just the sex they're after, it's a flex on every other dude on Earth that they can whoever they want.

If these guys are so high value then why are they chasing after normie 6s and 7s?

Because they are operating from a different mindset than you.

They don't go out and see who the hottest girl they can bang.

They go out and see how many girls they can bang as easily as possible.

 

[rjc149]

Everyone is hypergamous. Men too. We all want the best, hottest, fittest mate we can get.

Don’t be hung up about it.

 

[Epicenter]

They talk like hypergamy is a desease. You can also say that they want a better life without writing 20 books about it.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I heard the greatest quote the other day, really encapsulated the Red Pill perfectly, "Smooth seas do not make good Sailors"