How did your Relationship End?

[AttackFormation]

It always backfires, the guy thinks they need to pursue them more if they pull back. Before they know it they have a stalker on their hands. It drives a man insane not getting the proper closure.

Those men just dont understand that the behavior is the communication.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Those men just dont understand that the behavior is the communication.

It's not really taught to us, very few of us even search up red pill related topics to fully understand women.

It doesn't help that women say one thing but do another. They say they want a nice guy, who constantly compliments them and treats them like a princess.

They say they want a guy in touch with their feminine side who shares his feelings.The moment a guy does all that, she loses all attraction to him.

When i was a kid, i always wondered why they complain about Bad boys ignoring them and cheating but still staying with them. Thankfully i found someone on the bodybuilding forum who explained everything to me and pointed me in the right direction.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's not really taught to us, very few of us even search up red pill related topics to fully understand women.

It doesn't help that women say one thing but do another. They say they want a nice guy, who constantly compliments them and treats them like a princess.

They say they want a guy in touch with their feminine side who shares his feelings.The moment a guy does all that, she loses all attraction to him.

When i was a kid, i always wondered why they complain about Bad boys ignoring them and cheating but still staying with them. Thankfully i found someone on the bodybuilding forum who explained everything to me and pointed me in the right direction.

Yes, this is the big problem with our culture, i was gonna write it up in that other thread you quoted me in but didnt want to write a huge amount of text.

Succinctly, we both:

1) Dont teach men what they need to know. This would be bad enough by itself, but then we also......
2) Teach men the wrong things. This comes from both women, simps, white knights, and the scam artist/poser/personality disordered personalities in the manosphere who teach men to behave like blowhards or autists

 

[AttackFormation]

It's not really taught to us, very few of us even search up red pill related topics to fully understand women.

It doesn't help that women say one thing but do another. They say they want a nice guy, who constantly compliments them and treats them like a princess.

They say they want a guy in touch with their feminine side who shares his feelings.The moment a guy does all that, she loses all attraction to him.

When i was a kid, i always wondered why they complain about Bad boys ignoring them and cheating but still staying with them. Thankfully i found someone on the bodybuilding forum who explained everything to me and pointed me in the right direction.

By the way, the more mentally unhealthy a woman is the more she will behave like this - complaining about the men she chronically chooses and how much of a victim she is, insisting she wants "good treatment" and a soyboy but punishing that and rewarding "bad treatment" and stoicism instead.

If you want a good girlfriend you have to screen out women who chronically talk and behave like that, because they have any number of bad personality traits (duplicity and dishonesty, bad impulse control, poor self awareness, personality disorders, low self esteem meaning she will be unfaithful for validation, lack of a sense of personal agency/accountability ................).

A mentally healthy woman would have the opposites of those traits, for example she would have more of an understanding that she likes stoic men and would admit that, she wouldnt have a victim narrative about herself, and wouldnt keep choosing and fvcking men who she complains about how abusive they are.

 

[Serenity]

I don't think they are doing it because of low self-esteem.

This one for sure did.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Teach men the wrong things. This comes from both women, simps, white knights, and the scam artist/poser/personality disordered personalities in the manosphere who teach men to behave like blowhards or autists

There really is a lot of horrible advice on the internet, if a man doesn't know where to look. A lot of people who followed PUAs are now part of the wider Incel/blackpill community.

I don't understand simps though, it seems to be some sort of mental illness. The definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over but expecting different results. You would think they realise simping doesn't work but they keep simping harder.

Back in 2010 when i was on Facebook. I noticed Girls would have tons of comments from guys simping but she would never acknowledge them. One day this random guy just commented "Fat"
She immediately replied to him, he just kept trolling and she kept replying. Even ignoring the guys who came rushing to her defence.

It was eye opening, I had never seen anything like it.

 

[AttackFormation]

I don't understand simps though, it seems to be some sort of mental illness. The definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over but expecting different results. You would think they realise simping doesn't work but they keep simping harder.

Back in 2010 when i was on Facebook. I noticed Girls would have tons of comments from guys simping but she would never acknowledge them. One day this random guy just commented "Fat"
She immediately replied to him, he just kept trolling and she kept replying. Even ignoring the guys who came rushing to her defence.

It was eye opening, I had never seen anything like it.

That's an interesting definition of insanity when you think about it. If you do, you realise for example that what men are asked to do - treat dating as a numbers game - must fit under that definition of insanity, because you are expected to do the same thing over and over again until it randomly works. And yet that's what we're expected to do. Are we insane? maybe the definition is lacking, or maybe we are.

Yeah that's actually normal psychology, anyone will react like that for any issue. The negative feedback causes a greater emotional response because it upsets the ego, whereas the passive comments dont rock any emotional boat so they are just taken for granted.

 

[Georgepithyou]

That's an interesting definition of insanity when you think about it. If you do, you realise for example that what men are asked to do - treat dating as a numbers game - must fit under that definition of insanity, because you are expected to do the same thing over and over again until it randomly works. And yet that's what we're expected to do. Are we insane? maybe the definition is lacking, or maybe we are.

Yeah that's actually normal psychology, anyone will react like that for any issue. The negative feedback causes a greater emotional response because it upsets the ego, whereas the passive comments dont rock any emotional boat so they are just taken for granted.

Cold approach for example eventually does work, when have you ever known a woman to date a random internet white knight? We come to this forum for input to further improve our game and learn what we are doing wrong so we can calibrate.

Do you see simps getting together to discuss the best simping methods? Do we have a sosimp forum?

 

[AttackFormation]

Cold approach for example eventually does work, when have you ever known a woman to date a random internet white knight? We come to this forum for input to further improve our game and learn what we are doing wrong so we can calibrate.

Do you see simps getting together to discuss the best simping methods? Do we have a sosimp forum?

Haha i didnt mean the simps, i mean how the woman reacted but maybe you understood that.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Most of my relationships end due to lack of compliance on the woman's part.

Flakiness. Nagging. Dread game. Clinginess.

Eject