What are the biggest red flags for you?

[powersize]

What are the biggest red flags for you when you date a new chick?

 

[dk1990S111]

A lot of tattoos/sleeve, any face piercings

 

[powersize]

A lot of tattoos/sleeve, any face piercings

How about their actions?

 

[SargeMaximus]

A red flag for me with my fwb yesterday that has me decided to next her.

I brought a USB over to watch some stuff. She accidentally stepped in it or something while it was in the computer. She apologized but never offered to replace it. It still works but I was just thinking if the roles were reversed I would offer to replace it because I damaged her property.

She then got pouty when I wasn’t talking to her instead of realize where the fault lay.

Next.

 

[Billtx49]

A red flag for me with my fwb yesterday that has me decided to next her.

I brought a USB over to watch some stuff. She accidentally stepped in it or something while it was in the computer. She apologized but never offered to replace it. It still works but I was just thinking if the roles were reversed I would offer to replace it because I damaged her property.

She then got pouty when I wasn’t talking to her instead of realize where the fault lay.

Next.

That episode speaks lack or respect…

 

[SargeMaximus]

That episode speaks lack or respect…

Hence the next

 

[powersize]

That episode speaks lack or respect…

Agree. But I was wondering of some common patterns that you can apply for majority of girls

 

[westinlover]

Every woman has so many red flags that trying to avoid any of them means you'll be forced into celibacy.

 

[SargeMaximus]

That episode speaks lack or respect…

Additionally, what is the solution to this? I’ve noticed many people disrespect me tho I never do anything to deserve it

 

[powersize]

Out of my head I can recall a couple that may be applied for pretty much every girl:

when the girl does not ask questions about you - low interest
when the girl is in her phone with you - low interest
when the girl does not offer to pay her part of the bill - low interest/manipulation
when the girl is constantly delays her replies on your text - low interest

 

[Billtx49]

Agree. But I was wondering of some common patterns that you can apply for majority of girls

Women's flags will vary, but the most important flags you need to know are those that will identify damaged and disordered women in advance. Many posts about that in the forum archives.

 

[Billtx49]

Additionally, what is the solution to this? I’ve noticed many people disrespect me tho I never do anything to deserve it

Nothing commands respect more than recognized power. Read up on that.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Nothing commands respect more than recognized power. Read up on that.

A google search for that brings up Technology/PC related articles

 

[Billtx49]

A google search for that brings up Technology/PC related articles

A book on power has been mentioned here before. Believe it called laws of power. Search this forum.

 

[powersize]

A book on power has been mentioned here before. Believe it called laws of power. Search this forum.

48 laws of power?

 

[SargeMaximus]

A book on power has been mentioned here before. Believe it called laws of power. Search this forum.

I have it and read it and follow it. In my experience the ones who disrespect me are people trying to manipulate me to do what they want me to do

 

[Billtx49]

I have it and read it and follow it. In my experience the ones who disrespect me are people trying to manipulate me to do what they want me to do

If that’s what’s happening, they probably see you as an Easy yes man. Knowledge becomes power so continue reading up on human behavior.

 

[SargeMaximus]

If that’s what’s happening, they probably see you as an Easy yes man. Knowledge becomes power so continue reading up on human behavior.

I’m not an easy yes man at all. I’ve always done what I want. But they try soooo hard. I’ve never been swayed to do anything I don’t want to do

 

[Georgepithyou]

If they complain about an ex or mention a cheating ex.

If she has a flaky/flighty personality

If she is showing super high interest right from the start, despite you doing nothing

If she is always super jealous

 

[Robert28]

If she’s a woman and from America, huge red flag.