What are the biggest red flags for you?
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How about their actions?
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I brought a USB over to watch some stuff. She accidentally stepped in it or something while it was in the computer. She apologized but never offered to replace it. It still works but I was just thinking if the roles were reversed I would offer to replace it because I damaged her property.
She then got pouty when I wasn’t talking to her instead of realize where the fault lay.
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That episode speaks lack or respect…
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Agree. But I was wondering of some common patterns that you can apply for majority of girls
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Additionally, what is the solution to this? I’ve noticed many people disrespect me tho I never do anything to deserve it
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when the girl does not ask questions about you - low interest
when the girl is in her phone with you - low interest
when the girl does not offer to pay her part of the bill - low interest/manipulation
when the girl is constantly delays her replies on your text - low interest
Women's flags will vary, but the most important flags you need to know are those that will identify damaged and disordered women in advance. Many posts about that in the forum archives.
Nothing commands respect more than recognized power. Read up on that.
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A google search for that brings up Technology/PC related articles
A book on power has been mentioned here before. Believe it called laws of power. Search this forum.
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48 laws of power?
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I have it and read it and follow it. In my experience the ones who disrespect me are people trying to manipulate me to do what they want me to do
If that’s what’s happening, they probably see you as an Easy yes man. Knowledge becomes power so continue reading up on human behavior.
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I’m not an easy yes man at all. I’ve always done what I want. But they try soooo hard. I’ve never been swayed to do anything I don’t want to do
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If she has a flaky/flighty personality
If she is showing super high interest right from the start, despite you doing nothing
If she is always super jealous
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.