The Psychology of Simping explained - OnlyFans

[Kotaix]

TL;DR: "Onlyfans is a way to buy guaranteed acceptance."

Essentially you're paying for a digital escort.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

No....

OnlyFans can manage to get popular in a place like the USA because prostitution is illegal. So many see it as their best option.

And things like this aren't even worth mentioning because it's porn... It's not sex.

 

[Kotaix]

No....

OnlyFans can manage to get popular in a place like the USA because prostitution is illegal. So many see it as their best option.

And things like this aren't even worth mentioning because it's porn... It's not sex.

Porn doesn't allow the actress to address you personally. It's not just porn, but of course it's also not sex.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Porn doesn't allow the actress to address you personally. It's not just porn, but of course it's also not sex.

It's on the same lines as webcam models.

I won't lie... I've jerked off to Chaturbate models before. But to me, it's just like porno.

 

[TheProspect]

It's on the same lines as webcam models.

I won't lie... I've jerked off to Chaturbate models before. But to me, it's just like porno.

Some guys use OnlyFans to simply chat with a girl who will give them the time of day no matter what.

Albeit synthetic, this gives simps opportunities to build relationships they otherwise couldn’t in real life.

It’s not about the sexual gratification for some of these simps, it’s about the unconditional acceptance they receive — it’s about (perceived) connection.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Some guys use OnlyFans to simply chat with a girl who will give them the time of day no matter what.

Albeit synthetic, this gives simps opportunities to build relationships they otherwise couldn’t in real life.

It’s not about the sexual gratification for some of these simps, it’s about the unconditional acceptance they receive — it’s about (perceived) connection.

Well that's stupid.

Even with escorts, I don't think of it like that. I know it's a transaction. Although there is still somewhat of a personal interaction involved. Most escorts have decent personalities. Better than pretentious wannabe princesses that populate the USA.

 

[MatureDJ]

No....

OnlyFans can manage to get popular in a place like the USA because prostitution is illegal. So many see it as their best option.

And things like this aren't even worth mentioning because it's porn... It's not sex.

Agreed. The USA has this "you can look, but you can't touch" Calvinist morality meme. That said, lap-dancing is pretty good All-American invention that can be just about as satisfying.

 

[zekko]

Watched this video recently. It outlines women's abundance contrasted with how many men are frustrated and without companionship, with limited options. If you buy into this notion, it's not hard to figure out the psychology and reasons for guys' simping.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Agreed. The USA has this "you can look, but you can't touch" Calvinist morality meme. That said, lap-dancing is pretty good All-American invention that can be just about as satisfying.

Lap dances are a stupid waste of money. Best thing in the USA is Asian massage parlors.

 

[Robert28]

Well that's stupid.

Even with escorts, I don't think of it like that. I know it's a transaction. Although there is still somewhat of a personal interaction involved. Most escorts have decent personalities. Better than pretentious wannabe princesses that populate the USA.

Escorts aren’t prominent in a lot of places in the US either. Where I live they are few and far between and the few escorts around here are drug addicted wh0res who are owned by gangs. You might pay $450 for some ***** but you’re liable to get robbed by her Jon’s too. Escorts aren’t worth the effort where I live.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Escorts aren’t prominent in a lot of places in the US either. Where I live they are few and far between and the few escorts around here are drug addicted wh0res who are owned by gangs. You might pay $450 for some ***** but you’re liable to get robbed by her Jon’s too. Escorts aren’t worth the effort where I live.

You're right. It's not worth it in the USA. Lots of trial and error and terrible experiences.

Asian massage parlors are the best option if you can find one with attractive girls that will fvck.

But you'll never get anything in the USA like you can in other countries where it's legal and safe. (Legality makes it safe for the girls and guys)

 

[Georgepithyou]

They could just buy a one way ticket to Thailand instead

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

They could just buy a one way ticket to Thailand instead

Not many people can afford that. One way? Meaning you need to gain citizenship to Thailand and get a job there? And the hookers in Thailand aren't super cheap... If you go to the go-go bars, you'll pay 90-110 per girl. That's the only way you can be sure you don't accidentally get a "ladyboy." Then you gotta pay for a hotel every night too.

 

[MatureDJ]

Porn doesn't allow the actress to address you personally. It's not just porn, but of course it's also not sex.

Good point. I think that the way that a simp can pay to send a PM gives him the feeling that she is giving him the time of day in a sexualized social situation. This is part of the validation aspect of sex that a 'ho doesn't give.

 

[MatureDJ]

Lap dances are a stupid waste of money. Best thing in the USA is Asian massage parlors.

So you are saying that the grind of a hot, naked white woman's a33 on a man's member with only a single layer of fleece sweatpants is somehow a much lower level of experience than a middle-aged, Asian mama-san j3rking it off? (I'm talking about both situations having a "happy ending".)

 

[MatureDJ]

They could just buy a one way ticket to Thailand instead

Guide to Punting in Thailand - PuntingWiki

www.puntingwiki.com

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

So you are saying that the grind of a hot, naked white woman's a33 on a man's member with only a single layer of fleece sweatpants is somehow a much lower level of experience than a middle-aged, Asian mama-san j3rking it off? (I'm talking about both situations having a "happy ending".)

1. The good massage parlors have young girls that fvck you. Not just handjob.

2. In strip clubs where I live, the girl won't grind on your d1ck for a regular lap dance. That may only happen in a VIP room if there's enough privacy, but that will cost $100+ dollars and she may grind, but won't care if you get off or not. There's some strip clubs where you can fvck the girls for like $400 in Miami, but that's more than I'm willing to pay for sex.

 

[Zontyy]

There is a girl I know that wants to do an onlyfans with me. I would take the pictures and have the sex and do the video and photo uploading she would collect 25% of the profits. I just don't know how I feel being that I would in my own mind pimping her out to a bunch of online thristy betas

 

[RangerMIke]

I've mentioned this before, but I have a friend who is a advertising model and musician (piano) has a Patreon account, Instagram, and a OnlyFans page... nothing X or R rated. She makes a ridiculous amount of money. Hadn't seen her in a while and met for coffee a a few of months ago. It was aggravating as fvck because her phone kept going off with text alerts... she keeps her OnlyFans customers by responding immediately, she has her calendar set for ALL the people in her account about birthdays, anniversaries (when they joined). and she send them personalized messages when this happens... if she hasn't heard from one of them in a month, she'll again send them a private message asking if they are okay. She makes about $130K/year on her OnlyFans account. But this is almost a full time job for her... answering texts, keeping track of what going on in 2000-3000 customers. She has to load pictures and stories every day... in fact she actually had me taking pics of her in the coffee shop so she could post. She also makes money advertising products on other platforms. Modeling gigs... anyway she pulls in well over $200k.

The ones that are successful have to put a lot of time in this... and they will not have time to do anything else.

A month ago, she contacted me about starting a business (she's smart and actually has a good idea) since her revenue was starting to dry up. What happened is.... well... she fvcked up and started posting pictures of her and her boyfriend. She lost 1,000 clients.

The OnlyFans accounts that make money are the ones that deliver the 'boyfriend illusion' and personalized interaction. When she started indicating that she wasn't available. Once you lose members it's not easy to get them back because the competition is pretty tough.

 

[speed dawg]

I've often wondered if legalizing prostitution would solve most of the problems today, at least in the U.S. The power of the p*ssy in mainstream society would literally disappear overnight.