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Proof Hitting The Gym Improves Your Chances With Ladies!

soulforge

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I decided to do a little experiment recently with some online dating apps.

I have a profile on Tinder & Bumble. I decided to keep profile pictures that didn't obviously reveal or show that I am in good shape & that I have a muscular build.

That being said you can still tell with my face pictures & my shoulders that I lift, I think the neck gives it away.

Anyhow managed to get 3 different numbers off chicks & added them to my WhatsApp.

I asked all 3 girls to meet me for a drink.

All three of them gave me some lame excuses..

01. You live too far away for me sorry
02. I am busy for the next 3 weeks
03. One just completely ignored me lol

I decided to send them a short video of myself lifting in the gym. Guess what? All 3 chicks done a complete U-Turn and the interest level suddenly increased.

The one who said I am too far away from her, stopped talking to me. I waited a full day, then sent her a video of myself in the gym, suddenly she began talking to me again & asking me lots of questions?

Where as before, she had written me off.

When her interest level went up, I simply replied back with.. Hey sorry you are too far for me haha
 

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forearm vascularity simply works ;-)

I decided to do a little experiment recently with some online dating apps.

I have a profile on Tinder & Bumble. I decided to keep profile pictures that didn't obviously reveal or show that I am in good shape & that I have a muscular build.

That being said you can still tell with my face pictures & my shoulders that I lift, I think the neck gives it away.

Anyhow managed to get 3 different numbers off chicks & added them to my WhatsApp.

I asked all 3 girls to meet me for a drink.

All three of them gave me some lame excuses..

01. You live too far away for me sorry
02. I am busy for the next 3 weeks
03. One just completely ignored me lol

I decided to send them a short video of myself lifting in the gym. Guess what? All 3 chicks done a complete U-Turn and the interest level suddenly increased.

The one who said I am too far away from her, stopped talking to me. I waited a full day, then sent her a video of myself in the gym, suddenly she began talking to me again & asking me lots of questions?

Where as before, she had written me off.

When her interest level went up, I simply replied back with.. Hey sorry you are too far for me haha
 

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Good mogging action there. Never relax around thots. Especially the ones on tinder. Gotta keep them in check with how inflated their egos are.
 

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Ya’ll need to stop hating on the XX crowd, they’re simply playing out their biological imperatives. Raging against it does nothing and will change nothing.

Females, in the end are like exotic pets they require specific husbandry. Treat them like finicky racehorses and reap the rewards.

that is all
 

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Excellent experiment you got there, OP. Seeing a man getting fit somehow always triggers a woman's interest at a very deep (subconscious) level. But mind you, please don't get carried away to think that hitting the gym is for the ladies. No, it's for you, and yourself only.
 

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Ya’ll need to stop hating on the XX crowd, they’re simply playing out their biological imperatives. Raging against it does nothing and will change nothing.

Females, in the end are like exotic pets they require specific husbandry. Treat them like finicky racehorses and reap the rewards.

that is all
We're not raging. We're making fun of them. Very different thing.
 

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when I read the title of the post I thought it would be something lame like "look at this youtube body builder he is getting a lot of girls" but this was a true experiment, thanks.
 

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You absolutely did the best thing telling her "Sorry we live too far" after she pulled that crap on you.

Fight fire with fire. Put these entitled women in their place by withdrawing all attention

Well I rejected two of them.. First one I simply gave her a taste of her own medication when her interest peaked & told her she was too far away (even though she 45 minutes away)

The second chick who originally ignored me, replied back with "hey looking so good, your arms look so big, are you in the gym now?

I simply ignored her haha

The third chick, I actually just got in from a date with her now.. She was a hotty, so i thought might aswell smash. She was pretty damn fine in person, hopefully meet her again for another date & if that doesn't happen.. No big deal
 

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Excellent experiment you got there, OP. Seeing a man getting fit somehow always triggers a woman's interest at a very deep (subconscious) level. But mind you, please don't get carried away to think that hitting the gym is for the ladies. No, it's for you, and yourself only.
I only train for myself, and have done for maybe that last 15-20 years.

However I hear quite a few dudes on here making a ridiculous claim that Getting big or ripped does not help in anyway to landing females.. So I decided to experiment & see if there is any truth to these claims.

Clearly looking pumped does make a difference.
 

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I know what app you are using, this is a very disingenuous post honestly, that app is pretty much strictly a hook up app.

Devoid of your post, I don't disagree with you, but come on bro
 

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I know what app you are using, this is a very disingenuous post honestly, that app is pretty much strictly a hook up app.

Devoid of your post, I don't disagree with you, but come on bro
I could pull any woman I want from this app, they are all gross, this is where I go when I want some filthy pig to swallow it then I promptly leave
 

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I've experienced this. Online dating with typical boring pics? No response. Hanging out at a bar? Not much better. Head to the pool wearing nothing but a pair of swim trunks? Girls were all over me. Same guy, just showing off the body I had worked hard for, and suddenly I was literally having to keep them from being too aggressive. Anybody who says being in great shape doesnt make a difference with women has obviously been in great shape and willing to show it off.
 

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Social media is the most fake online platform, full of BS and low IQ posts.

HOWEVER I totally agree with this post, if you dont show it off they dont believe you exist.

Everyone is controlled by their phone, you must show them you have a life, you must show them you are in shape, you must remind them your business is there daily or they will presume you have shut down.

The moment i started tagging myself in posh pubs, with pics of the food, pics of my full physique, pics of me standing on the marble stairs of the hotel abroad, (even though I was staying in the 3 star next door.) Was the moment my social proof sky rocketed with women

Theyre so controlled they think its suspicious if you dont update them. Crazy
 

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I've experienced this. Online dating with typical boring pics? No response. Hanging out at a bar? Not much better. Head to the pool wearing nothing but a pair of swim trunks? Girls were all over me. Same guy, just showing off the body I had worked hard for, and suddenly I was literally having to keep them from being too aggressive. Anybody who says being in great shape doesnt make a difference with women has obviously been in great shape and willing to show it off.
Exactly.. I also believe seeing a video of you smashing out in the gym, is much more effective than a picture of you looking a little hench or ripped.. Again this is dependent on the quality of video & how you look overall.

Obviously being big/ripped alone does not get you the woman.. However in regards to online dating.. It will definitely improve your chances of getting the dates!
 

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Great way to weed out women with horrible personalities, nice job op.

If a girl doesn't know you have muscles and still meets tou, she can be pleasantly surprised.
 

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Another example of how a brief video of me simply lifting weights & looking strong, powerful gets those girls vagina moist & ready to smash.

Remember these are girls who started with low/average interest level towards me & has hugely increased based on simply having a muscular body.

Those who claims muscles never help, are living in denial of the reality.

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Perfect timing! I just got a set of dumbbells. Gyms are still closed in my town. Hopefully dumbbells will give me some shape in the next few weeks. Never lifted before (stupid me!), but never too late.
 
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