This is possible and something that I started developing once COVID hit. I personally believe that in order to accomplish this a man needs to be not only busy throughout the day but have many goals that he is actively working towards. These pursuits are of priority in your life and you focus your energy on them.
For instance, I started working much more once COVID hit, it wasn't something I planned for but I had the opportunity to kill it and I took it. I also had several things going on, real estate, investments, etc. Once the gyms opened back up I got back into that routine and I'm in unbelievable shape, I've been fit my entire adult life but not like I am today. I'm doing very well for myself and financially very comfortable but I've set a goal of being well into multi millionaire status within the next 5 years or so, I'll be around 35 to 36. I do not have the time or energy to bring a woman into my life that will detract from these goals. As has been said on this forum, women are an additional decorative topping on the cake and should not be the primary ingredient.
In the past I had burnt myself out by chasing women that had low interest, were attention *****s that led on tons of men or were bat **** crazy....or were some combination of all of these. I didn't have enough going on in my life and looking back at that time it was as if bringing these women in would somehow make my life more fulfilling, which is not at all how you should be looking at it. Something else that I will add to being super busy and having goals is to have some sort of social life and not become completely isolated. I feel when a man has a lot going for him and has his social needs met he is in a really good place, never have a woman be your primary or only means of fulfilling your social life needs.
