When a girl reframes things you say, is that a **** test or low interest?

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So I’m chatting with this girl who gave me her number (I’m still trying to work on my conversation game as everyone tells me that will take my game to the next level)

anyhow, I’m telling her how I have my own lead generation business and she keeps saying things like “that’s a good job!” And I say “it’s not really a job as I choose who I work for” and then She goes “yeah sounds like a great job!” And she keeps saying the word job.

so, is that a **** test or a low interest level? I’ve had this before where you say one thing and the girl reiterates it back to you as a low status thing. Like if you say “I like to stay healthy” and she’ll go something like “oh you can’t handle a normal diet?”
 

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Yeah sounds like a pretty dry conversation which will keep the interest low.
Perhaps ask “how good are you with the jobs ✊
 

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Yeah sounds like a pretty dry conversation which will keep the interest low.
Perhaps ask “how good are you with the jobs ✊
I will, thanks. But that will count as the kind of texting I normally do which is highly sexual texting which everyone has been telling me doesn’t work. So if this works, it’s just another point against having a conversation with a girl as an effective game strategy

the issue is: you all been telling me I have to converse with women in order to get better with them, and now you’re telling me to be highly sexual which is what I already do.
Why can’t you guys just admit I already have the best game in that case? I mean, if your solution to me trying your suggested method is to use A method I already use on my own, then I already had it right to begin with. So just admit it
 

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So I’m chatting with this girl who gave me her number (I’m still trying to work on my conversation game as everyone tells me that will take my game to the next level)

anyhow, I’m telling her how I have my own lead generation business and she keeps saying things like “that’s a good job!” And I say “it’s not really a job as I choose who I work for” and then She goes “yeah sounds like a great job!” And she keeps saying the word job.

so, is that a **** test or a low interest level? I’ve had this before where you say one thing and the girl reiterates it back to you as a low status thing. Like if you say “I like to stay healthy” and she’ll go something like “oh you can’t handle a normal diet?”
Some women are just retarded. I'd ignore it and focus on whether or not she's cooperating, i.e. doing her part to make sex happen. Who really cares whether or not this stupid BS is deliberate - either way, she's a fool. If she's a fool that puts out then she's useful. If not, it's a waste of time even talking to her.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Some women are just retarded. I'd ignore it and focus on whether or not she's cooperating, i.e. doing her part to make sex happen. Who really cares whether or not this stupid BS is deliberate - either way, she's a fool. If she's a fool that puts out then she's useful. If not, it's a waste of time even talking to her.
I agree. But when I’m trying conversation game vs my regular highly sexual game, it’s difficult to know the time to propose a meet up and also difficult to stay out of the provider/friend zone. Any tips in that regard?
 

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I agree. But when I’m trying conversation game vs my regular highly sexual game, it’s difficult to know the time to propose a meet up and also difficult to stay out of the provider/friend zone. Any tips in that regard?
You have to just get to the point ASAP. Chit-chat doesn't get you anywhere. Some women will talk all day and then not want to meet up or do anything. This kind of BS attitude from her means that either she's stupid or she's stupid AND a timewaster.
 

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You have to just get to the point ASAP. Chit-chat doesn't get you anywhere. Some women will talk all day and then not want to meet up or do anything. This kind of BS attitude from her means that either she's stupid or she's stupid AND a timewaster.
Ok cool. I’ll pitch a meet and if she balks I’ll walk.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Punish masculine behavior. Submission and complacency or move on
I read a pua article once that said punishing was actually a bad thing because it was still attention. I think nexting makes the most sense here
 
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OP women as a group are dumb as hell they have no passions & hobbies apart from selfies & alcohol.

I was out with a woman the other night she was droning on, and all I could dream about was me going round cadwell park, on my Ducati.

you are all way to tolerable with low hanging fruit
 

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OP women as a group are dumb as hell they have no passions & hobbies apart from selfies & alcohol.

I was out with a woman the other night she was droning on, and all I could dream about was me going round cadwell park, on my Ducati.

you are all way to tolerable with low hanging fruit
Lol k
 
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