Is this a test or what?

[RBK]

Still too supplicative

She's hard wired to respond to dominance , that is not dominance its submissive

If you weren't hung up on this girl it would be easier to think clearly

So you have two things to work on

1) Stop getting hung up on girls or it will fvck you and your game completely up i don't care how pretty she is .....there's literally billions of them out there and most of them are constantly fvcking like rabbits

always keep in the back of your mind IT IS JUST YOUR TURN

2) Study text game .... its hard work and will take a lot of mistakes but girls are obsessed with it and you will lost more than you gain with poor text game

Good advice here. Girls want to be dominated, especially 20 year olds. I know sometimes we default to being a "nice guy" and "sweet" but man that **** does not work in 2021. Save that **** for after you're dating. You're one of 30 guys texting her, try to differentiate yourself and don't get hung up on one. I've made this mistake as well when I was younger.

 

[RBK]

Is this coach Corey Wayne? Yeah I truly think is best for setting up dates, however do you think modern women specifically young ones are very attracted to men who can stablish rapport or combo and getting out of it with their chances intact or even increasing the girls attraction?

I don't love Corey Wayne he's a little soft and he looks like a *****. Don't know how he pulls (or if he even does). Some of his relationship stuff is OK.

You need your own style. Little mix of everyone. AMS is too brutal sometimes but if you just want to **** thats fine.

 

[RBK]

Mobile phones are a females domain, she rules like Elizabeth Bathory bathing in the blood of her beta male orbiters, for just exisiting.

lmao at this reference, most won't get it.

 

[PRW63]

Shantaram said:


I just told her no worries and to hit me up whenever she's free.

I don't like this line ....... remember a woman is usually analysing and dissecting every word you send to her

I don't like it either. It is a Corey Wayne line. So is the cat analogy mentioned earlier. Although I generally like CW, that line doesn't sit well with me and seems inconsistent with the rest of what CW teaches. It basically puts the woman in the position of "asking you out" which is not going to happen if she has options,...and she always has options. It also puts you in her frame and puts her in charge. I would rather the guy just keep it simpler than that and just say, "Ok. Catcha later" and move on. It is non-commital, makes no future promises, and doesn't imply that the guy "still wants her". Yet he won't be inconsistent if he tries again in a week or two because he never claimed he wouldn't try again either. It leaves the woman "wondering",...and that usually works to the guy's advantage.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

When you say "Call me when your free" that's friend vibes, you don't allow her to lead because she's just gonna go to a man that's better than you and use your resources to do it, never let a woman lead unless she is paying all your bills and you trust her, which you shouldn't, as loyalty and opportunity conflict; idle hands, when she has idle hands she should call you, but a woman's hand is never idle.

 

[RBK]

When you say "Call me when your free" that's friend vibes, you don't allow her to lead because she's just gonna go to a man that's better than you and use your resources to do it, never let a woman lead unless she is paying all your bills and you trust her, which you shouldn't, as loyalty and opportunity conflict; idle hands, when she has idle hands she should call you, but a woman's hand is never idle.

Other side of the coin is unfortunately she won't contact you because she has 14 other dudes who will invite her out.

It's a no win situation for a man.

 

[manfrombelow]

Man I've been in this same situation plenty of times: Let me tell you what happened:

1) You basically aroused her sexual curiosity by making her wait the first 3 times and gradually escalating to cuddling/petting or whatever u called it

2) At this point, she was ready to fucc (chasing), and probably thinking about you banging her hard-- she really wanted to see u the same day for that reason, while the iron aka her ***** juices were hot and she was horny

3) You basically extinguished her ***** juices by saying no, basically turning her down without realizing it

4) Mostl ikely she went elsewehre to satisfy that sexual curiosity, let off that horny steam and thus diminished back to baseline

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You could turn this around bud. Just be careful man. some girls when they are super adamant/thirsty about seeing u , might just be that shes tryna get over someone or ... lets hope shes just a freak and wants to bone

I second this. Couldn't say it any better.

OP, you can decline a girl's advance ONLY WHEN YOU HAD ALREADY FVCKED HER BEFORE.

But if there was no sex, then every opportunity counts. Especially when it's the opportunity offered by her. Yes she wanted to FVCK you when she asked you out, but you turned her off by saying no.

Now, all you need (and have) to do is stop contacting her, and start hitting on other women. In the mean time, if she reinitiates contact again, invite her over your place.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Other side of the coin is unfortunately she won't contact you because she has 14 other dudes who will invite her out.

It's a no win situation for a man.

You are wrong, the win situation for men today is self development of all kinds

 

[bat soup]

I went out with a girl 3 times already, no sex, but heavy petting the last time on a Saturday. On Monday she started chasing, and said that she really wanted to see me that same day. I said no, 'cause I had work and also thinking that seeing her too much and complying to her requests will diminish her attraction towards me, but we defined a date for Saturday. Saturday came, I asked if we were still on and she gave some excuse and aldo mentioned she went out drinking until very late, clearly trying to get my attention. Anyway, I just told her no worries and to hit me up whenever she's free.
Did I do wrong not going with her on Monday as she requested?
I often times think she is retaliating or trying yo make me chase? Is this a test?
Hoe fo you handle this stuff?
Is there any better way to increase her attraction than just letting her go? Maybe posting cool stuff you do on Instagram, as I usually do?

Sometimes women get horny and if you don't satisfy them, they go and find another guy and start playing you as a kind of revenge for making them feel bad.