Girl I've been Dating Has a Boyfriend

[oldmanofthesea]

Bottom line on this one is that you're looking for a relationship not just a sexual partner so that being the case, you need to eject now that you've discovered it. End of story.

Whether or not you let her BF know is a moral dilemma and a very personal choice, but me personally, I wouldn't say anything to him. I have such a pessimistic view of LTRs that I know my telling a guy about her isn't going to make even a dent in the wake she is going to leave behind her over the course of her lifetime, and I like to do my best to stay out of drama. There is a pretty good chance that her BF is blue pilled and probably a great guy, but you can't help the fact that he doesn't understand women and relationships and you can't fix that for him.

 

[Bokanovsky]

So there has been this woman i met from OLD that i have been dating for about a month for now, nothing too serious as we are just getting to know each other. She is really nice,feminine and attractive. I thought things were going well until i found out she had a boyfriend this whole time. They have been together for over 2 years.

On one hand i feel betrayed, but technically this is how the boyfriend should feel. She was hiding this from me and seems to have no remorse. She still wants to continue to see me though.

I'm not sure how i feel about her sleeping with another guy while with me, I feel like i should tell this guy.

Has anyone been in this sort of situation? I'm not sure what to do?

If you were planning to marry her, I would reconsider those plans

 

[manfrombelow]

Like I said, the real amount of d!icks that any woman you encounter had, regardless of their age and words, is very likely to be at least x3 of the amount of d!ck you think she had. Not that it's a bad thing though. It's not about being good or bad, but it's just part of reality, and we must accept reality for what it is instead for what we want it to be.

 

[andreihaha]

Interesting thread. Yes? Well the last time you went down on a girl, did you think you were the only one she is seeing?

I don't think I'm the only one she's seeing. I know I am.
But I'm not saying this a perpetual state or that things can't change.

And I'm sure you know that 99% is ridiculous. I don't think it's even applicable to attractive women. (which is quite a lot less than 50% of them for me, but depends on every guy).

Don't get me wrong, I agree that a large number of women are unreliable. But cheating is biologically our instinct, you know, keeping our species alive. While theirs is more on the birth side of things. Sadly, because of all the leftist propaganda, the gender identity is changed a bit, but the biology is still there.

 

[andreihaha]

Look guys, let's not over-complicate things unneccesarily here.

If you are presented with a new fresh juicy pvssy, your only job is fvck it good. That's it. Who gives a fvck about literally anything else?

Well, literally everyone who's not desperate to put it in a hole.

 

[andreihaha]

Biology is one thing, but they have greater psychological incentive to cheat as well as vastly more opportunity. They cheat much more often than men now imo.

I couldn't critique your opinion even if I wanted to. But I think it would be debatable, even if we had some stats.
Also, there's quite a number of men and women who possess the ability to keep the partner away from this kind of temptation. Better to work on that ability than just complain about unfaithful women. I'm saying that in general, not pointed towards anyone in particular.

 

[2Rocky]

If you have 2 others you are rotating with...shouldn't be a problem...But she is relegated to "Sex only" Status. If you are spending money or time outside the bedroom with her than you are a client, not a lover.

 

[Focal core]

The fvck has happened to this site? I must've been away for half a year or so...
She's fvcking someone else and you're like "Hmm why should I stop seeing her? I'll totally continue eating that puzzy, hopefully she washed the other guy's ***..."
She's been lying to you from day one. And OLD chicks live with the impression that they have so many choices.

George, don't get me wrong, I'm not mad on you, sh1t like this happens to most of us. I'm just disappointed that no one else is seeing a problem here. Red pill my azz.

Just walk away and never look back. I know it's not easy. I really do. Deep down, you knew what to do from the moment you found out, didn't you?

Give a leeway mate.. Though a lots lotta low level man couldnt get a quality single women... Its an illusion for them.. For then it its juicy just fvck it until its gone.. Its no better than a dog mating strategy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I don't see why the behavior can't be reciprocated. Perhaps I'm too petty & competitive but if loyalty is no longer there, then not sure why I would continue to believe it's even something worth valuing

When it gets bad its not even worth mentally dealing with it.

 

[vingenzo]

i think you got yourself a key out , fu*k her until you get bored of her than bring that up .

 

[mjb3617]

Eh I was in this situation before. Caught the feels and didn't end well. Finally ejected when I found my self-respect and told her to go take a hike.

Don't catch feelings OP. Bang her and enjoy the fun, but the minute you start giving a f***, eject, eject, eject.

 

[dude99]

So there has been this woman i met from OLD that i have been dating for about a month for now, nothing too serious as we are just getting to know each other. She is really nice,feminine and attractive. I thought things were going well until i found out she had a boyfriend this whole time. They have been together for over 2 years.

On one hand i feel betrayed, but technically this is how the boyfriend should feel. She was hiding this from me and seems to have no remorse. She still wants to continue to see me though.

I'm not sure how i feel about her sleeping with another guy while with me, I feel like i should tell this guy.

Has anyone been in this sort of situation? I'm not sure what to do?

2 things to consider.

1. I a triangle situation like this, and you know about the other guy, but he doesn't know about you, this means she cares about you the least. She probably doesn't care if you walk. She is using you for attention and validation.

And 2. If you continue to validate her and see her you are rewarding bad behaviour. You are giving a garbage quality chick your time and attention.

 

[Georgepithyou]

If you have 2 others you are rotating with...shouldn't be a problem...But she is relegated to "Sex only" Status. If you are spending money or time outside the bedroom with her than you are a client, not a lover.

She was the only one i was seeing, i decided to cut her off though.

Eh I was in this situation before. Caught the feels and didn't end well. Finally ejected when I found my self-respect and told her to go take a hike.

Don't catch feelings OP. Bang her and enjoy the fun, but the minute you start giving a f***, eject, eject, eject.

Problem is i was looking for a relationship, i know i wouldn't be able to handle it if it went on.

2 things to consider.

1. I a triangle situation like this, and you know about the other guy, but he doesn't know about you, this means she cares about you the least. She probably doesn't care if you walk. She is using you for attention and validation.

And 2. If you continue to validate her and see her you are rewarding bad behaviour. You are giving a garbage quality chick your time and attention.

Which is why i felt i needed to leave, sure i could still stayed and slept with her but i felt like i was basically degarding myself and morals.

 

[corrector]

Honestly i feel like im not the only guy she is cheating with, i knew it was too good to be true when she was so friendly at the start.

Did you actually have sex with her?

 

[Georgepithyou]

Did you actually have sex with her?

Yes, she has her own car and place. Her BF works really irregular hours so he wasn't around.

 

[corrector]

Yes, she has her own car and place. Her BF works really irregular hours so he wasn't around.

If she was honest about that with you then would you have still have sex with her the first time? You didn't at least suspect she had someone in the picture (ie any photos of her with another guy inside her home, or indication that more than one person is living there, etc...)?

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So there has been this woman i met from OLD that i have been dating for about a month for now, nothing too serious as we are just getting to know each other. She is really nice,feminine and attractive. I thought things were going well until i found out she had a boyfriend this whole time. They have been together for over 2 years.

On one hand i feel betrayed, but technically this is how the boyfriend should feel. She was hiding this from me and seems to have no remorse. She still wants to continue to see me though.

I'm not sure how i feel about her sleeping with another guy while with me, I feel like i should tell this guy.

Has anyone been in this sort of situation? I'm not sure what to do?

I charge up my troll cannon when they talk cereal relationship.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She was the only one i was seeing, i decided to cut her off though.



Problem is i was looking for a relationship, i know i wouldn't be able to handle it if it went on.



Which is why i felt i needed to leave, sure i could still stayed and slept with her but i felt like i was basically degarding myself and morals.

Her sex tape would end up on world star. Wait wut?

 

[IKO69]

sounds like a high quality girl

anyway if you just want to smash and you don't fear any potential retaliation from the guy (if he finds out) go for it

 

[TheKid]

What would she do in your position?
Fuxk it all up, bang her untill she doesnt comply and then out her with a bang.
Fuxk these hoes make them pay.