My friend is an actual 40 year old virgin. How should he go about setting up his first time?

[corrector]

So it's not about the sex, it's about being desirable?

I never said it was about the sex. Did I not say fly to Asia and use JBW if it meant your SMV would skyrocket compared to where it is at home? This was my first suggestion. Also, if you look desirable than you'll get better service from a hooker as well because the money with them is a bonus rather than a reason to drudgingly do something they really don't want to do.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Its not hard to get laid. Whats hard is finding a quality woman that youre actually excited to meet up with.

I agree with the previous poster about a slumpbuster. The easiest way to get laid is download a few dating apps. and swipe on the fatties. Youre bound to score as long as youre not hideous in the looks department.

 

[corrector]

I realize you're new here...

But you're asking the wrong guy for advice. Corrector is a known time waster here who constantly complains about race and Jesus and whatever other nonsense he can come up with.

So far you've contributed nothing to this thread rather than attack two other posters. Maybe you are the time-waster on here.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I also want to add that I wouldnt advise guys going for fatties, but this is a special circumstance. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

 

[Parallelophone]

What is the worth of the info what seasoned guys here would do?

It doesnt work like that....... your 40y.o. virgin is not going to pull off what most of the guys here could do even with a year of abstinence.

I realize you're new here...

But you're asking the wrong guy for advice. Corrector is a known time waster here who constantly complains about race and Jesus and whatever other nonsense he can come up with.

Its not hard to get laid. Whats hard is finding a quality woman that youre actually excited to meet up with.

I agree with the previous poster about a slumpbuster. The easiest way to get laid is download a few dating apps. and swipe on the fatties. Youre bound to score as long as youre not hideous in the looks department.

Don't worry about my friend. I'm not asking for the easiest/most surefire way to get sex. The real question of this thread is how to make up for lots of sex unhad. What is the most fun to be had after a long period of sexlessness?

I never said it was about the sex. Did I not say fly to Asia and use JBW if it meant your SMV would skyrocket compared to where it is at home? This was my first suggestion. Also, if you look desirable than you'll get better service from a hooker as well because the money with them is a bonus rather than a reason to drudgingly do something they really don't want to do.

But the advice to fly to Asia is more about "What do I do to ensure my best chances at getting laid?" That's not what I'm trying to find out.

 

[corrector]

Don't worry about my friend. I'm not asking for the easiest/most surefire way to get sex. The real question of this thread is how to make up for lots of sex unhad. What is the most fun to be had after a long period of sexlessness?



But the advice to fly to Asia is more about "What do I do to ensure my best chances at getting laid?" That's not what I'm trying to find out.

If you meet the right girl then that should make up for everything else. Every soul-mate you meet wipes out the memory of all bad experiences prior. I remember in 2012 when I met one like that, then I always see that year as year one of something right? Its like 2012 made up for everything before. If I meet someone else like that, then I may be saying its 9 years since a time like that and counting, rather than even saying 7 years of a technical dry spell. I've kissed or dealt with women afterwards but didn't really count them.

If your friend meets his soulmate and has a good relationship and memories, etc... then it is the most fun and it will wipe out the past like it didn't exist. But if there is a break-up he'll be devastated. The bigger the highs are the lower the lows.

 

[Parallelophone]

If you meet the right girl then that should make up for everything else. Every soul-mate you meet wipes out the memory of all bad experiences prior. I remember in 2012 when I met one like that, then I always see that year as year one of something right? Its like 2012 made up for everything before. If I meet someone else like that, then I may be saying its 9 years since a time like that and counting, rather than even saying 7 years of a technical dry spell. I've kissed or dealt with women afterwards but didn't really count them.

If your friend meets his soulmate and has a good relationship and memories, etc... then it is the most fun and it will wipe out the past like it didn't exist. But if there is a break-up he'll be devastated. The bigger the highs are the lower the lows.

So, finding one's soulmate is what's best in life.

 

[corrector]

So, finding one's soulmate is what's best in life.

Not necessarily in life, but definitely in the realm of women. I didn't have sex with my soul-mate, but the aggressive making-out sessions, or dry/clothes on-sex, etc..., and places we've been to certainly stick to memory (she was willing to marry me but I bailed out for moral/ethical reasons and she moved on). I was married two years later and had sex with my wife. However, the marriage didn't go very well and ended too badly, but the dry-spell is usually counted from the last and only ex-wife I've ever had.

 

[Parallelophone]

Not necessarily in life, but definitely in the realm of women.

It's fair payback for not getting to have sex in your prime?

 

[corrector]

It's fair payback for not getting to have sex in your prime?

At 2012 I was 36 years old. I would say it was fair payback for everything prior to 2012 that didn't go right including prime years without sex.

 

[Barrister]

So, finding one's soulmate is what's best in life.

No such thing as a "soul mate." There are probably thousands of women out there that you (or your friend in this case) can all be happy with. A big part of it is timing. Another big part of it is how they mesh with us.

 

[Parallelophone]

No such thing as a "soul mate." There are probably thousands of women out there that you (or your friend in this case) can all be happy with. A big part of it is timing. Another big part of it is how they mesh with us.

So what would be payback? In your post you said you would just go on a regular ol' date and have regular ol' sex. Is that really what you would call a fair exchange for being denied sex in your prime?

 

[Barrister]

If you meet the right girl then that should make up for everything else. Every soul-mate you meet wipes out the memory of all bad experiences prior. I remember in 2012 when I met one like that, then I always see that year as year one of something right? Its like 2012 made up for everything before. If I meet someone else like that, then I may be saying its 9 years since a time like that and counting, rather than even saying 7 years of a technical dry spell. I've kissed or dealt with women afterwards but didn't really count them.

If your friend meets his soulmate and has a good relationship and memories, etc... then it is the most fun and it will wipe out the past like it didn't exist. But if there is a break-up he'll be devastated. The bigger the highs are the lower the lows.

Should he fly out to Asia to meet his soul mate then?

I am actually interested in why you buy into the Disney concept of a "soul mate." Especially as a black pill guy. I find it fascinating that you have overlap with those two mindsets.

 

[Parallelophone]

I'm just posting after @Barrister so he doesn't have to double post in responding to me.

 

[Barrister]

So what would be payback? In your post you said you would just go on a regular ol' date and have regular ol' sex. Is that really what you would call a fair exchange for being denied sex in your prime?

Well, my first post was regarding your initial OP question as to just having sex. I believe you asked what I would do. What I would do is probably not the same as what your friend will have to do.

As for a "fair exchange" for being denied sex, that is a different question than your OP. However, again, you still haven't said why he hasn't gotten sex in his entire life. For us to be discussing a "fair exchange" would imply the concept of fairness is in play. Those who don't help themselves are completely to blame -- that is the problem. Without knowing more, I would say your friend still being a virgin is your friend's own fault. Not anyone else's. He can make the decision today to change himself and become a better version of himself and start having sex with women. Chances are it will involve a lot of trial and error for him since I am guessing he has very little experience with women in general if he is still a virgin.

 

[Parallelophone]

Well, my first post was regarding your initial OP question as to just having sex. I believe you asked what I would do. What I would do is probably not the same as what your friend will have to do.

As for a "fair exchange" for being denied sex, that is a different question than your OP. However, again, you still haven't said why he hasn't gotten sex in his entire life. For us to be discussing a "fair exchange" would imply the concept of fairness is in play. Those who don't help themselves are completely to blame -- that is the problem. Without knowing more, I would say your friend still being a virgin is your friend's own fault. Not anyone else's. He can make the decision today to change himself and become a better version of himself and start having sex with women. Chances are it will involve a lot of trial and error for him since I am guessing he has very little experience with women in general if he is still a virgin.

Let's say he was forced to stay in his house and never leave. He's an Angulo Brother.

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[corrector]

Should he fly out to Asia to meet his soul mate then?

I am actually interested in why you buy into the Disney concept of a "soul mate." Especially as a black pill guy. I find it fascinating that you have overlap with those two mindsets.

I guess it's a black-pill dry spell with a blue-pill hope because it did happen before.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Find an affordable way to get him hookers, ideally two at once.

 

[Parallelophone]

Find an affordable way to get him hookers, ideally two at once.

Is that what you would do if you were looking to make up for lost time?

 

[Lookatu]

"my friend"... LOL