Asking for her number

[Lostsoul19]

Hello,
So I've been texting this girl and I felt things are going well so I asked for her number.
Then we had a little interaction and I think she gave me a **** test by saying it's confidential. So my dumb ass said do you think i would leak that confidential information? *Emoji*
Now, she straight away ignored that question. I saw this from the notification bar and didn't reply. SO she texts again after 20 minutes some random meme. And then again after 30 minutes, a random meme. Last text was 1.30 am so I went to sleep and replied to her texts the other day without asking her to answer that question. Should I ask again for the number or should I point out that she didn't reply to my question in a playful way? I don't want to destroy the comfort I have created in the interaction yet i want to escalate and get her out on a date as soon as possible so I want an opinion.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Comfort isn't ever going to convert into attraction

As many are discovering / have discovered the modern woman is a rampant time & attention thief

a lot of Women actually want to convert and collect orbiters now primarily for social media now some have even realised it's wise to entertain orbiters now and then to keep them hanging around on her "grid"......and that is what this girl is doing to you

a chick I've been messaging on Instagram ignored me all weekend Friday - Sunday

last night she messages " sh1t sorry must have been drunk when you sent those i cant remember seeing them"

Translation - *you weren't high enough of a priority for me to bother replying / i am used to getting away with this behaviour *

So with these types of girls the fastest way to drill through all the nonsense is too just be direct if she doesn't give you the answer you want or something close to it just completely cut contact

after you get over yourself the first couple of times...... it actually becomes kind of therapeutic too weed these girls out your also more likely to find a good one quicker because your not wasting valuable time and resources on the time thieves

 

[ThisIsSparta]

I don't want to destroy the comfort I have created in the interaction yet i want to escalate and get her out on a date as soon as possible so I want an opinion.

Her comfort means nothing to you if it doesnt result in action.

There are just to many women out there using men to "comfort"/affirmate their ego.

Dont let that woman waste your time!

Ask for a date asap, if she agrees, ask again for her number.
If she doesnt want to date you or give you her number, tell her you are not looking for a pen pal and if she changes her mind she knows where to find you. Then go silent and pursue other women.

 

[Serenity]

I don't want to destroy the comfort I have created in the interaction

Comfort is important, but only if she's hesitant to take it a step further and have genuine worries (be they rational or irrational). Blatantly ignoring a question is not the behavior of someone who's genuinely unsure of you. To do this she would in fact be so comfortable toying with you that you'd have to go out of your way to destroy that comfort.


Your question basically meant "do you trust me?" Which may very well be too soon for her to answer so she chose to pretend you didn't just ask that. I think the wisest course of action in this particular instance is to let it go for now and rather challenge her trust in you later when you've built some more.

Anyways, what was the interaction?