I think you're definitely right about the win but I think that the reason they behave that way is because they are in a constant state of rebounding from one guy to the other
the last 5 women who I wasnt that interested in(but remained ammicable),
were all in relationships. Even though they pursued me as "single". One even re-tagged herself in her marriage two weeks after we didn't work out, I was absolutely gobsmacked as Id known her for a year, and not once did I see her mention a husband. I didnt care, it was just the sneakiness.
this means we can presume the ones who ghosted us outright , are all in some kind of relationship also.
No Woman is single fellas, Not one.