i know we are, but its a sad state of affairs when telling someone you like them will result in them losing interest
How would you guys handle this text?
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AureliusMaximus
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After just meeting a few times and saying something like that; it is like a red flag on a communist parade...
Too many of them lol.
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In this situation I don't think so at all. The mistake is when a guy is overinvested when she is not and start saying all this stuff that she's not feeling. In this situation she's feeling it and reciprocating it would be positively received.
Context matters. In a different context I would agree with you, but not this one.
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An ambiguous answer is all you need.
I respectfully disagree, Me nor anyone I know, has never had a good experience from telling a woman anything. in under 3 months
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Keep the momentum going!!!
She said the “L” word because she wants to see your level of commitment.
You do not have to say it back, but you should do something to show your level of commitment now!
If I were in your situation, I would seriously go Tiffany’s and get her some earrings at the very low end price point.
Surprise her with that gift then the momentum keeps going and you do not have to say the “L” word.
Women are very perceptive. Show too many signs of pulling back your commitment level and it is game over. The emotional connection she has to you is lost forever.
The “L” word is a giant test. If you want her, do not fail it.
She said the “L” word because she wants to see your level of commitment.
You do not have to say it back, but you should do something to show your level of commitment now!
If I were in your situation, I would seriously go Tiffany’s and get her some earrings at the very low end price point.
Surprise her with that gift then the momentum keeps going and you do not have to say the “L” word.
Women are very perceptive. Show too many signs of pulling back your commitment level and it is game over. The emotional connection she has to you is lost forever.
The “L” word is a giant test. If you want her, do not fail it.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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To me, love is a measurement of convenience; we have desire for those who are going to make our lives more convenient. Declarations of Love to me means that the convenience you provide is on another level, but it's not enough.
All you can do is avoid filling their heads with bull**** and be honest
All you can do is avoid filling their heads with bull**** and be honest
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I once dated a girl that told me all the time she loved me. Never once did I tell her. My reply was "you're a sweetie" or some **** like that. I wasn't looking to fall in love. I just wanted fun times and a hot girl.
My response never caused any issues in the 2yrs we were together. She did voice her displeasure to others, but never me. Stay true to yourself and if they have a problem with it then so be it. There are always more out there.
My response never caused any issues in the 2yrs we were together. She did voice her displeasure to others, but never me. Stay true to yourself and if they have a problem with it then so be it. There are always more out there.