First time cheating on current LTR

[cheekclapper]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?



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[bat soup]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

Don't get emotionally involved.

 

[Larry Lurex]

That’s what hookers are for.

 

[bat soup]

That’s what hookers are for.

Exactly. Quick, easy and no emotional manipulation. They won't find out where you live and come ruin your life. Plus, as an added bonus, you don't have to listen to them speak.

 

[Caelum]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

I just treat women like I know they treat the majority of men. They never come out and say "hey, I don't have feeling for you anymore" bla bla. They say that after they've been with another dude for 3 months behind your back. So go out and do whatever you like and don't think twice because that is what women are being thought today and that is what they practice.

 

[DonJuanjr]

I say go for it. You want the thrill of the hunt. You're probably experienced enough to handle it right.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

Societal constructs such as "love" are placed on us by both women and weak men , my question has always been how the hell is it possible to legitimately commit yourself to one woman for the rest of your life when you still find other women attractive !?!

Love is supposed to conquer all ..... haha no will power and societal shaming does

Any guy in a relationship who says he doesn't find other girls attractive is a liar or a simp

Men are naturally designed to procreate with as many women as possible, your girlfriend should actually be pleased other women want to sleep with you it should reassure her she is with an alpha male

all the guilt shaming and moral wrongdoing is literally placed on you by society , the movies , TV , the media

it's utter nonsense

go and smash that ***** whilst you still can.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It is time to let your relationship girl go if you are not satisfied. I'm monogamous by choice because my ltr meets my needs. If yours doesn't, then you are not in the right relationship.

 

[xplt]

When I am in a relationship and I've everything I need, other women don't bother me. I start looking around when my needs aren't met.

I've cheated twice on a good and loyal girl about eleven years ago and I felt like a piece of **** and the sex wasn't even worth it. Never done that since. If I feel like I need to **** around, I would leave the relationship.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

Men cannot cheat. We're born to smash as many as possible. It's in our DNA encoding from nature.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

It is time to let your relationship girl go if you are not satisfied. I'm monogamous by choice because my ltr meets my needs. If yours doesn't, then you are not in the right relationship.

Is this "right relationship" out there though? Lets be real....... the quest for the "right(perfect?) relationship" is ONEITIS mindset.

After you have been with a certain number of women there is no such thing as the perfect woman or the perfect relationship. There is always that chick in the past that banged you better, the other that stired more emotions in you and the one that was the better housewife ..... etc.etc.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Is this "right relationship" out there though? Lets be real....... the quest for the "right(perfect?) relationship" is ONEITIS mindset.

After you have been with a certain number of women there is no such thing as the perfect woman or the perfect relationship. There is always that chick in the past that banged you better, the other that stired more emotions in you and the one that was the better housewife ..... etc.etc.

I have had a lot of chicks in my past and none have banged me better. No one is perfect or without issues in various ways. Im just saying I genuinely feel other women would be a letdown. There is such a thing as not wanting to cheat even though you can. If you want to stray, then you are not in the right relationship, and maybe that is what right means, not wanting to cheat.

 

[Plinco]

Assuming that you want to keep your current ltr, you should consider the downside risk here as well.

 

[soulforge]

Go for it. Men don't really cheat.. For us guys smashing another girl is no big deal.

When a woman in a LTR bangs another guy, then that is more than likely cheating, as she had to go somewhere in her head & emotionaly to be able to do that. She is ready to bail on the LTR or she no longer loves you.

A man can easily bang another female & his feelings for the LTR do not change. He can still love his LTR like he always did.

A man shows his love by being a provider, sharing his resources & protecting his female, even if that means dying for her.

A female shows her love by having sex with only the one man she is committed to.

A key that opens many locks is a master key.. A lock that opens to many keys, is shiitty lock.

 

[Bandolero]

This is why this Forum is nowadays full of ****.
You are acting like a piece of **** and making excuses in your favor, then when the same stuff happens to you guys, you are quick to open a thread how women are cheaters and liars.
If you have the balls , then go and tell your girl that you want to bang another one.
Otherwise you are a liar, and people should keep away from you, if you have to lie to get what you want.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

This is why this Forum is nowadays full of ****.
You are acting like a piece of **** and making excuses in your favor, then when the same stuff happens to you guys, you are quick to open a thread how women are cheaters and liars.
If you have the balls , then go and tell your girl that you want to bang another one.
Otherwise you are a liar, and people should keep away from you, if you have to lie to get what you want.

god this

 

[AttackFormation]

This is why this Forum is nowadays full of ****.
You are acting like a piece of **** and making excuses in your favor, then when the same stuff happens to you guys, you are quick to open a thread how women are cheaters and liars.
If you have the balls , then go and tell your girl that you want to bang another one.
Otherwise you are a liar, and people should keep away from you, if you have to lie to get what you want.

Indeed. Threads like this is why i see myself as a "conscientious objector" to any gender war. These kinds of guys have the same psychology as the women they would whine and bytch about in their hamster wheel hypocrisy, they just happened to be born as another gender.

 

[RickTheToad]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

Good way to fvck up a good situation. Any self-respecting person would leave if/when they found out. Life, IS NOT SHORT. Another great American lie. If you value yourself and her, or just you, don't do it. Better to leave than to do this. If you do not heed my warning, just remember, karma is a nasty little b!tch.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Otherwise you are a liar, and people should keep away from you, if you have to lie to get what you want.

Some men are playing to win, just like women do.

If you say never lie(including half-truths and hiding the truth) to get what you want, you are either a hypocrit or wont get far in life.

 

[Ricky]

Bros- I have to do it.

I have a current great LTR- great career, 8/10, cooks, cleans, does whatever I say. A great life-partner for getting through it.

no- I’m it going to break up with her, I don’t care about the “moral” things we’ve all been conditioned to believe.

we’re animals. I’m in my early 30’s, life is short and I want to have these experiences while I still have my youth.

I’ve already been getting nudes from various girls and my drive to want to slam them is insane.

I’ve yet to pull the trigger yet though.

what are your stories, experiences?

Quick takes.. Be aware of the pain this can cause people
Also it's so easy to get caught nowadays
Final take..watch fatal attraction

This is why i took time becoming exclusive. I could have lots of variety then. Then once exclusive.. i was not cheating.