asian women vs white western women

[bat soup]

LOL the middle class in Asia are orders of magnitude better off. I will be emigrating there in a few years and we will have servants, basically.

her family think I’m really poor. Even though I earn in the top 20%, so much tax, everything is so expensive....

you’re better off in Asia on £20k than you are in the U.K. on £70k.

I've lived in Taiwan and Malaysia. Hardly poor countries.

I think that what some incredibly ignorant people like this specimen think is not important, since I don't want to associate with those kinds of people anyway.

 

[forcerecon01]

I've lived in Taiwan and Malaysia. Hardly poor countries.

I think that what some incredibly ignorant people like this specimen think is not important, since I don't want to associate with those kinds of people anyway.

japan here

 

[Fruitbat]

Has your Asian wife never asked you once why it is that you chose to marry an Asian woman?

Your honest response would have to be, as you have written, that you can't get a hot/feminine/submissive white woman. Your Asian wife would then have to internalize this and, even if she doesn't directly show it, would be curious as to why it is that you can't find a white wife. Asians are very based and redpilled when it comes to this stuff, and have huge racial awareness.

I don't mean this as a criticism. It's just something to consider. It is literally frame-destroying stuff when it comes to maintaining a woman's respect in the long-run. Asian women are not stupid, and they are just as hypergamous as all other women.

I was married to one before and she can clearly see that I could get a white woman.

I suppose this is something literally anyone gets if they marry an Asian.

I told her that I see my friends married to white women and they are constantly under their thumb and the women are more focussed on their career and drinking and I didn’t want that for my kids and family.

it’s a matter of perspective on this, being honest, it’s a bit of both. I could indeed get better looking and younger in Asia, but also, I dated 3 years with white women and the young ones didn’t want to settle down and the older ones were dating in their 30s for a reason.

so, yes, I suppose I’m stuck with this but still, I could have picked others.

it’s not that I couldn’t get a white woman, it’s that I could get better in Asia and I decided the social taboo I didn’t care about enough.

4 years in. Sex on tap still, beautiful kids. Happy times. Life is good man.

 

[Fruitbat]

The ones you're banging are. Asians lose their awe of White incels when they get cashed-up.

Asian women are pragmatic (like all women) and go for white incels for provisioning reasons, either to increase their SMV, beta bucks, visa etc.

Man, incels can’t even get a plane ticket together dude!

 

[forcerecon01]

Not true at all.

Not even close to reality on this one.

Damn Pan has a lot of hate .....

 

[Georgepithyou]

Asian women can cook are sexy and have traditional values. White society is a mess and its even worse in the workforce

Asian is a very broad term. Korean/Japanese women are not the same as Filipinas for example. It's like comparing Afghans to British.

Dating Asian women and complaining about White women is classic racist incel school-shooter behavior

Men having preferences mean they are incels? A lot of men genuinely perfer asian women because they tend to be in shape and feminine. A lot of White women end up as sjw feminists covered in tattoos with really masculine hobbies like drinking.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Damn Pan has a lot of hate .....

His probably an Asian Incel, who's mad at white guys for taking "his" women. So his using racist generalisations as a coping mechanism.

 

[bat soup]

It's just a fact of life, fellas, that if you're a white guy married to an asian women then people are going to assume you're an autistic and deviant sexpat.

But who cares what other people think? Just rock your life the way you want to, but just don't expect other people to be impressed.

Nobody is trying to impress ignorant losers like you.

 

[bat soup]

His probably an Asian Incel, who's mad at white guys for taking his women. So his using racist generalisations as a coping mechanism.

Yes, that wouldn't surprise me. There are some very angry guys like that out there. Something is definitely not right with him, for sure.

 

[Fruitbat]

It's just a fact of life, fellas, that if you're a white guy married to an asian women then people are going to assume you're an autistic and deviant sexpat.

But who cares what other people think? Just rock your life the way you want to, but just don't expect other people to be impressed.

i think it’s changing now. They might think you struggled in the dating market.

I’m not going to lie, people do think this way. I have a neighbour who won’t talk to me for some reason. We figure he’s an Aussie and has some kind of issue with white/Asian couples.

the people who hate it the MOST are middle aged white women because they know there’s a continent of women they can’t compete with.

so,I take a little pride in losing the respect of some of these people. Who even said I cared what they think about anything? I’m partly trying to tell this culture and way of thinking to F off. I hated it, they are welcome to chase their wife around to look after their kid while she’s concentrating on promotion of getting wasted on wine, or getting lectured on whatever political nonsense she’s reading.

the fact that these unhappy men and their unhappy wives are looking down on me tells me I’m doing it right - and they know,deep down, who’s happier, who actually has their sh1t together and who’s a broken society.
Guys know exactly how great a younger wife from a conservative culture is, the only reason they look down on it is they resent you for having the balls to get it and fear the opinion of others.

white guys marrying Asians are95% not incels and just dudes who like me, were fed up with what’s on offer here.

all my friends are married to white women their own age and they are all unhappy and most are dominated by their wives

 

[forcerecon01]

i think it’s changing now. They might think you struggled in the dating market.

I’m not going to lie, people do think this way. I have a neighbour who won’t talk to me for some reason. We figure he’s an Aussie and has some kind of issue with white/Asian couples.

the people who hate it the MOST are middle aged white women because they know there’s a continent of women they can’t compete with.

so,I take a little pride in losing the respect of some of these people. Who even said I cared what they think about anything? I’m partly trying to tell this culture and way of thinking to F off. I hated it, they are welcome to chase their wife around to look after their kid while she’s concentrating on promotion of getting wasted on wine, or getting lectured on whatever political nonsense she’s reading.

the fact that these unhappy men and their unhappy wives are looking down on me tells me I’m doing it right - and they know,deep down, who’s happier, who actually has their sh1t together and who’s a broken society.
Guys know exactly how great a younger wife from a conservative culture is, the only reason they look down on it is they resent you for having the balls to get it and fear the opinion of others.

white guys marrying Asians are95% not incels and just dudes who like me, were fed up with what’s on offer here.

all my friends are married to white women their own age and they are all unhappy and most are dominated by their wives

Happy its working out for you. I want the same thing. White western women are feminists with no wife qualities

 

[Fruitbat]

Happy its working out for you. I want the same thing. White western women are feminists with no wife qualities

not all - some good ones out there but they are in such short supply, especially compared to Asia which is a production line of fit, educated women with conservative objectives.

still, they are people like any other. They seem very different but they are still people - good and bad out there.

just be prepared to bluepill with them. Any decent Asian woman won’t be drinking and taking drugs. These are the girls to avoid.

I met mine while she was studying in my country. She had a university full of chads but the main thing an Asiangirl will think is “family in 5 years possible?”!

 

[forcerecon01]

not all - some good ones out there but they are in such short supply, especially compared to Asia which is a production line of fit, educated women with conservative objectives.

still, they are people like any other. They seem very different but they are still people - good and bad out there.

just be prepared to bluepill with them. Any decent Asian woman won’t be drinking and taking drugs. These are the girls to avoid.

I met mine while she was studying in my country. She had a university full of chads but the main thing an Asiangirl will think is “family in 5 years possible?”!

wow thats cool

 

[Fruitbat]

wow thats cool

good Luck.

it depends on what you want. This is a DJ forum, if you’re here for lays then def not Asian

Asian is a very broad term. Korean/Japanese women are not the same as Filipinas for example. It's like comparing Afghans to British.



Men having preferences mean they are incels? A lot of men genuinely perfer asian women because they tend to be in shape and feminine. A lot of White women end up as sjw feminists covered in tattoos with really masculine hobbies like drinking.

Vietnam here. Can attest they are a good fit for western. Their culture is pretty receptive to foreigners. Despite the US attempting to industrially slaughter them some 50 years back, they are pretty chill. A lot think they fought on the wrong side now when they see South Korea.

Korea/Japan/China more socially conservative. Especially Korea. A lot of Asia seems to look up to Korea.

one thing which surprised me. They know far less about the west than you would think. My wife knows about Japan and Korean culture but western culture, she didn’t know who Brad Pitt or Angelina jolie are, the only person she knew of was Justin Beiber.

her knowledge of white culture was almost zero.

a lot in VN and Thailand associate white peoples with drugs and smelly guys in dreadlocks.

the idea “they all want to come to Europe” is false. In Vietnam, it’s true in the 2 poorest provinces. They can earn far more in Europe or US. Other than that, they are quite happy there.

we have a false idea in the west that we are masters of the universe and we dominate the developing world. Most of them don’t know the first thing about us and are more interested in Japan and China.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Korea/Japan/China more socially conservative. Especially Korea. A lot of Asia seems to look up to Korea.

To be with Too tier Korean women you gotta be a part of the culture like the Korean Englishman youtube channel. It seems like the best looking women only speak korean and zero english. Being a foreign guy with fluent korean puts you at a massive advantage since your competition is virtually non existant

 

[forcerecon01]

All the Asian fetishists are exposing themselves on this thread. It's deeply blackpill.

Targeting Asian women for sex/love/affection is practically the definition of Black Pill i.e. The world is doomed and you've given up.

asian women make better wives

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I like asian women and I think they are a real good steal in the global dating market. Do you Don Juans feel white western women are taking advantage of feminism and ruining America because of it? Why can't an 8 man attract an 8 woman instead of only getting a 6 woman as an 8 man. Talk about a bad deal.

Asian are more feminine and traditional anyway but if westernized it's the same trash. CRP just went the F off on western rubbish. There's no easy solution. Unless you will leave the west. Better exists but it's getting worse everywhere and I see no way back. Pick your poison.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

that would be a dream come true wouldn't it lmao. Feminism is destroying America

It's destroying women. If morons want to follow stupidity deeming paying taxes and Netflix and chill as empowering, I am not complaining. Be trolling in a tuxedo Tee when talking marriage and family.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Searching for markets where you don't have to compete with other men is anti-Game and anti-self improvement. As a man, you have a burden of performance. If you're in a market where women aren't attracted to you then it's on you to be better. If you're finding yourself in a position where only Asian women are putting up with you then that's a very concerning low-SMV indicator, and bad for your inner-Game.

People move for better job opportunities, people also move for better dating opportunities. You have a very negative and limiting mindset.

 

[Fruitbat]

Searching for markets where you don't have to compete with other men is anti-Game and anti-self improvement. As a man, you

Searching for markets where you don't have to compete with other men is anti-Game and anti-self improvement. As a man, you have a burden of performance. If you're in a market where women aren't attracted to you then it's on you to be better. If you're finding yourself in a position where only Asian women are putting up with you then that's a very concerning low-SMV indicator, and bad for your inner-Game.

Who said that white women aren’t attracted to guys who date Asian?

You are making some assumptions, ignorant assumptions based off a decades old cliche of white pensioners heading off to buy mail order brides.

Asia is the apex of world development currently. The west is full of old people, losing its dominance and is slowly self destructing.

I had some 18 years of dating white and other races. I chose Asian.

The myth you are spouting here is EXACTLY the myth that Middle Aged middle class feminists say. White guy/Asian girl is exploitative and “they can’t get a white girl”
They use this narrative to protect their own SMV. You evidently haven’t worked this out. Either that, or you are just gaining a bit of pointless one-upmanship by degrading those who have a much better deal than you have.

deliberately making it harder for you to find an appropriate wife because you want to compete with other men is just stupid.

Also, the qualities that get you success with white women are often not the qualities Asian women seek. White women do not have the qualities white men seek.

it’s evident the other way. A lot of Asian men like white women for their independence, and their relative easy nature to do with sex and family.

You indeed can get more for your SMV in Asia, I can’t get a 27 year old beautiful white woman who is wealthy. I am nearly 39 and slightly overweight. I can live with that.