Attention is like crack to women

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With Instagram, Snapchat, dating apps, etc. women are now inundated with messages from thirsty guys telling them that they´re beautiful. They love all of this free, ego-boosting attention but just like a crack addict, they become tolerant and require a higher and higher dose.

After a while 100 messages per day from average guys are not enough - now they need rich men and celebrities to validate them. They become so addicted that they end up spending their whole day looking at their phones (not replying, of course, just looking) and join dating apps just to harvest more simp followers. Women have become like crack addicts these days. But we're the ones dealing out the crack.

Stop giving out free crack to these addicts!
 

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The over the top bashing of women is some sort of overcompensation for something that's lacking in their lives - like success with women.
when you have been forged on the fire, after being grinded through the gynocentric court system that protects females and mothers at all costs, you will never give any validation again.
 

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Are there guys that post here regularly that have never seen t!ts in their lifetimes? Absolutely.

You can spot them from a mile away.

They're the ones who create threads that bash women, and 'female nature'.

They're also the ones who only comment on existing threads where they get to bash women, and 'female nature.'

The over the top bashing of women is some sort of overcompensation for something that's lacking in their lives - like success with women.

It's easy to come on here, create a screen name, and sit anonymously at your computer, thumping your chest about fvcking b!tches and all that...

Guys need to start showing receipts. Heck, post your own d@mn picture.

If you're a snaggletooth loser that couldn't get laid if you were the last man on Earth, fine, but we need to know that, so we know not to take anything you say seriously.
There’s the last 2 women I’ve dated. I showed my proof, now show yours.
 

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It's easy to come on here, create a screen name, and sit anonymously at your computer, thumping your chest about fvcking b!tches and all that...
What's hard to do?
 

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Man, you copied and pasted from some other dude's Facebook photo album, didn't you?

jk jk

Gimme a sec.

Maybe I'll create a thread for guys to put their Receipts.
Nah I’m just an average guy to be honest. Nothing special or stand outish about me at all. I’m not the tallest, not the most ripped, not a Chad by no means.
 

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It's easy to come on here, create a screen name, and sit anonymously at your computer, thumping your chest about fvcking b!tches and all that...
I'm not sure you're the best candidate to say this.

At the time of writing this you have made 1862 posts since you joined 129 days ago. That's ~14.5 posts every single day or a little over 1 post every two hours on average every 24 hours, if we only count waking hours it's even more frequent.

Of course, you could type up your days quota before or after fvcking b!tches though, without hurting your average.

Anyways, on the topic of this thread, definitely do have a critical attitude towards women and don't be so easy.
 

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With Instagram, Snapchat, dating apps, etc. women are now inundated with messages from thirsty guys telling them that they´re beautiful. They love all of this free, ego-boosting attention but just like a crack addict, they become tolerant and require a higher and higher dose.

After a while 100 messages per day from average guys are not enough - now they need rich men and celebrities to validate them. They become so addicted that they end up spending their whole day looking at their phones (not replying, of course, just looking) and join dating apps just to harvest more simp followers. Women have become like crack addicts these days. But we're the ones dealing out the crack.

Stop giving out free crack to these addicts!
I don't give them attention. I screen.
 

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I have a problem with guys who have no desire to improve themselves. They just come on here, and rip women apart.

I respect you as a poster, but you don't need to respond.

Nothing personal, but people who don't see things my way just bother me after a while.
Yeah and as you stated thats YOUR problem. Who givesa. Let the guys vent we have no other safe spaces.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women are so desperate for male attention and validation that they'd even LARP as a "Femcel"... Can these women get attention and validaiton from non-incels? Yes of course, even a middle age single mom can get attention from thirsty men.

But these women who fake their -cel status do so because they're indulging that childish fantasy of "lonely damsel in distress" and they know incels are so desperate, so vulnerable that they're just easy prey....

Here's an attractive female LARPing as a Femcel... I time-stamped the exact spot for you, no need to watch the whole vid...


Men as a collective are truly pitiful, we freely give away our attention and validation..... and then we wonder why women walk all over us...

Lonely.jpg
 
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Nothing personal, but people who don't see things my way just bother me after a while.
Yeah, I've noticed. Maybe you're a bit too invested in this forum and in convincing complete strangers that your way is the right way.

OP has a fair point here that has been expressed and widely agreed upon many times on here, although it sure is an interesting way to say it. I agree with OP, many women do get addicted to attention from as many men as possible. There are certainly men on this forum who see all women as one in a negative light, even just from a handful of experiences. Imagine how these women regard men when bombarded with many many more handfuls of cheap men, it's a lot easier for them to regard men as almost worthless.

This isn't a "I hate women" thread, it's a "I hate simps" thread describing an effect caused by men where the solution is to not indiscriminately shower women in positive undeserved attention.
 

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With Instagram, Snapchat, dating apps, etc. women are now inundated with messages from thirsty guys telling them that they´re beautiful. They love all of this free, ego-boosting attention but just like a crack addict, they become tolerant and require a higher and higher dose.

After a while 100 messages per day from average guys are not enough - now they need rich men and celebrities to validate them. They become so addicted that they end up spending their whole day looking at their phones (not replying, of course, just looking) and join dating apps just to harvest more simp followers. Women have become like crack addicts these days. But we're the ones dealing out the crack.

Stop giving out free crack to these addicts!
At risk of joining the "incel" gang I'm going to agree with this

i don't hate women far from it , I usually admire how efficiently & ruthlessly they play

but boundless social media proof & validation for women has become a serious issue in the game

its created a complexity where women think social media is real life even your average HB6/7's are believing they can bag any man they want and i find it quite comical

im also noticing the competition between women is increasing too "100 likes" used to be a good barometer now i see chicks deleting pics if they get less than 300

:rofl:the single ones with kids are being left for dust leaving them to fight out for the orbiter scraps

a few weeks back single mother HB8 was complaining to me the quality and amount of guys liking her pictures had been declining that made me laugh

i dont like the current landscape on social media if i had the time i may consider a drive to increase my social proof on there but really what is the point and where does it end

you get 5K followers , then you start competing with someone with 10K , you get 10K and your competing with someone with 20K its never ending and for guys it is ridiculously difficult to get that kind of audience anyway

spend the time on self development and making money instead young king

the thots will eventually follow these social platforms wont dominate forever
 

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OP has a point.

Whereas before women would go out to a club for validation, now they just sit at home.

They are missing out on the Real Life parts of social interaction.

Yesterday I was at the cobbler's for example, and there was this decent looking girl in front of me, with headphones in. The girl got all jittery and freaked out just because I asked her whether she is in line.

As much as they are getting addicted to the online attention, they are unlearning how to do normal interactions.

Everyone is a nervous wreck nowadays.

And not only that. While they might be too nervous to have a normal chitchat while running errands, they can go back home to get their attention fix online.

Of course there are exceptions. I got a hb8 living in the appartment upstairs, about 24 yrs old. She deleted instagram when she got a bunch of simps sloppering all over her pics because she couldnt deal with the scrutiny of being objectified.

There is no 1 size fits all.

I got rid of my IG. **** the simping.
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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OP has a point.

Whereas before women would go out to a club for validation, now they just sit at home.

They are missing out on the Real Life parts of social interaction.

Yesterday I was at the cobbler's for example, and there was this decent looking girl in front of me, with headphones in. The girl got all jittery and freaked out just because I asked her whether she is in line.

As much as they are getting addicted to the online attention, they are unlearning how to do normal interactions.

Everyone is a nervous wreck nowadays.

And not only that. While they might be too nervous to have a normal chitchat while running errands, they can go back home to get their attention fix online.

Of course there are exceptions. I got a hb8 living in the appartment upstairs, about 24 yrs old. She deleted instagram when she got a bunch of simps sloppering all over her pics because she couldnt deal with the scrutiny of being objectified.

There is no 1 size fits all.

I got rid of my IG. **** the simping.
I think men are starting to catch on that simping is counter-productive.

Just like women get shamed for being slutty and driving down the price of sex, men should be shamed for being simps.
 

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Bottom line is (if I may be so bold) that within every woman is still an angel and a devil (a madonna and a wh0re). The difference between them is how much they develop these aspects of their personality.

No woman is 100% a wh0re. No woman is 100% an angel. We have to recognize this. If we can see which aspects of a woman is underdeveloped we can truly allow a woman to be her self.

For example:
1. Bring out the slut in a formerly good girl. Allowing her to do what she didn't dare do before. A girl like that will feel very comfortable and trusting with you. This is also the method implied in The Game, I think. They emphasize not to be judgemental towards sexual endeavours.
2. Recognize the divinity within a girl that has only had bad experiences, may have been promiscuous or only has been appreciated for her sexual value. If you show the stability, hoping she is not mentally ill, and you help her recognize the beauty within as opposed to the beauty without, a woman like that may appreciate you very much. Although she will inherently want to get over being objectified. You can't truly influence the inner workings of a person that much. That's where "captain save a ho" comes in. Let's remember that society incentivizes women to be objectified. *not only is it society. When a woman, or a person for that matter, has developed a pattern of behavior, it is not easy to undo.

My view, to get somewhat deep.
 

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I was listening to a woman drone on the other night, theyre totally oblivious to how they all say the same victim sentences weve heard a million times before.

as she spoke I just dreamt about going round a race track in spain on a Ducati
 

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I was listening to a woman drone on the other night, theyre totally oblivious to how they all say the same victim sentences weve heard a million times before.

as she spoke I just dreamt about going round a race track in spain on a Ducati
Yea, they don't think.

How stupid do you have to be to end up 36 and childless as a woman? Especially one that doesn't have some physical affliction. Then they panic and try to marry anyone that's willing to get em before 40.

I got one that calls me for support because she keeps having physical fights with her guy and she tells me how she wants to try and get pregnant by him even though he never said he wanted to marry her. I'm telling you... It's a whacky place, this planet.
 

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I think men are starting to catch on that simping is counter-productive.

Just like women get shamed for being slutty and driving down the price of sex, men should be shamed for being simps.
It is very slowly catching on its counter productive

but naturally takes younger guys a few years to catch on , then you have the cavemen who will never learn and will just like any picture they see with flesh

its coming to tipping point though i believe supply of female thirst traps combined with only fans and porn will eventually outweigh simp demand

and at that stage the dynamic will flip it has too

I tell you what i cant wait to see is when the current generation of insta girls get replaced by the next gen / platform and get completely discarded as they are too old

where as i will be a multi millionaire and still physically in my prime
 
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