I've underestimated how picky women are (rant)

[derby1]

Theres nothing more sickening than self improvement, lower body fat, top 20% in most local social circles

and some 3, goes wishy washy on you

 

[B80]

It's bad enough having to read their stuck-up profiles online. Also, women tend to be rude to men that they don't like, whereas men are polite even if they're not interested.

It's bad enough having to read their stuck-up profiles online. Also, women tend to be rude to men that they don't like, whereas men are polite even if they're not interested.

could 'rudeness' sometimes be a sh1t test though to see how the man responds/deals with it?

 

[corrector]

But you can get a hot ethnic with JBW game right?

 

[Bokanovsky]

But you can get a hot ethnic with JBW game right?

No, you will need FCQ game for that.

 

[corrector]

No, you will need FCQ game for that.

What does FCQ game mean?

 

[Bokanovsky]

What does FCQ game mean?

I have no idea, man.

 

[BadBoy89]

Fairly recently I was having a conversation with a woman I know who is in her early 20s, she is a single mom and has physically declined for sure over the past year and is very average looking. She went on about what her "type" was and it was really specific, from the man's hair, skin tone, body type, etc. I really didn't care because she's not something I would personally consider but it was very odd to hear that.

Last year I did a social experiment on tinder and used photos from myself when I was in my early 20s, so between 21-23. I was and still am 6'4", very fit/athletically built, was definitely more handsome back then, though I still look very good for my age, etc. Anyway, I had some matches and then had these conversations where these women told me I wasn't their type. I naturally responded with a "a white man that is 6'4" in really good shape and is handsome isn't your type? Good luck".

Last year I had an average woman point out a fat woman around my age and tell me that was my league. I thought about that and wasn't sure if she was serious or not, but the idea hit me that if a white man that is 6'4" and in shape is supposed to date that what does she think of more average men?

In 2019 I went to a speed dating event, the idea popped into my mind when an older friend mentioned it and I was intrigued and wanted to give it a try. He wasn't able to go but I decided to follow through with it. Anyway, there were around 10 women, all were average and below, and out of all of them only 2 had any personality or were enjoyable to speak with. A few were full blown blatantly rude to me and I honestly left the experience regretting that I even went in the first place, which I genuinely was very angry over due to me looking forward to having a new and hopefully fun experience. It then dawned on me that there was a reason why these women were and probably still are single, which I'll get into below.

You are trying to qualify yourself to these women you are trying to date. Once a man does this, he loses all leverage.

You have to sleep with these women first, then you can date them. Not the other way around. When a woman says "I want x height and y money and z looks, its what her logical brain tells her. But if a guy comes in and appeals to her emotional brain, all that stuff she specifies is out the window.

Y'all take women too seriously. Most women are full of it. You can't trust them when it comes to sex and emotion. Just lower your expectations and do your own thing.

Remember men, mindset of abundance.

 

[Velasco]

When a woman says "I want x height and y money and z looks, its what her logical brain tells her. But if a guy comes in and appeals to her emotional brain, all that stuff she specifies is out the window.

For a man, it ALL comes down to HEIGHT and HAIR. The things the man CANNOT change are what is MOST IMPORTANT to a girl.

In my building, there was this a hot 29 year old girl looking to get married. Tons of guys asked her she said no. Then it came down to 2. One guy was short, had a ton of money, and educated. Other guy was tall, no money, and more educated. Guess who she picked?

Life is all about height. Get tall or ruin your life,

?

 

[SW15]

I have the suspicion that women that resort to Speed Dating are women whose clocks are ticking and that are getting desperate.

Agree. The pandemic likely killed off those events for good.


If they haven’t, it’s a bad solution. No man should attend those events.

 

[SW15]

Focus on getting wealthy.

Everything else falls into place after that

Not for pansy beta males like Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos.

If you're rich and have an awesome look and demeanor, then you can get poontang.

A drug dealer/trafficker with a Porsche or a Corvette is going to get women more excited than a dweeb like Bill Gates.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Your mindset about women continues to poison you. You don't want to hear it, but it is the truth.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This is why I screen women out now because I'm sick of dealing with crazy hopeless romantic women that just want to waste your time. I know a girl that's in her thirties that will only settle for a real Christian man that's her age or older. He also has to be hot and no kids btw.

Wait until you're in your 40's.

 

[corrector]

Agree. The pandemic likely killed off those events for good.


If they haven’t, it’s a bad solution. No man should attend those events.

They don't have zoom speed dating?

 

[corrector]

Focus on getting wealthy.

Everything else falls into place after that

Yeah, like just get a few million dollars. Just use the treasure map.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Not for pansy beta males like Bill Gates and Jeff Bezos.

If you're rich and have an awesome look and demeanor, then you can get poontang.

A drug dealer/trafficker with a Porsche or a Corvette is going to get women more excited than a dweeb like Bill Gates.

dis

 

[Georgepithyou]

I don't think that's true all the time. A buddy of mine is skinny as hell, dresses like a slob, has terribly unkempt hair and bad looking scruffy facial hair and has a super hot girlfriend. he is very arrogant and full of himself though.

Let me guess, social circle?

 

[MatureDJ]

I've long been aware that women in general today are picky in regards to the men they go for but it was far worse than I thought originally.

I totally get why an attractive woman wouldn't go for a man who is obese, has poor hygiene, etc. However, I've also seen women have these ridiculous standards that are rather confusing to me.

This is a story I have shared on here, but I used to hang out with a guy that worked at a bank and he recanted a time where his coworkers set up one of the tellers on a date with someone they knew. They naturally asked her about the experience and she said she wasn't interested, to which they asked her why. She specifically stated that is was because he was overweight......but the irony is that she was fat herself lol.

Fairly recently I was having a conversation with a woman I know who is in her early 20s, she is a single mom and has physically declined for sure over the past year and is very average looking. She went on about what her "type" was and it was really specific, from the man's hair, skin tone, body type, etc. I really didn't care because she's not something I would personally consider but it was very odd to hear that.

Last year I did a social experiment on tinder and used photos from myself when I was in my early 20s, so between 21-23. I was and still am 6'4", very fit/athletically built, was definitely more handsome back then, though I still look very good for my age, etc. Anyway, I had some matches and then had these conversations where these women told me I wasn't their type. I naturally responded with a "a white man that is 6'4" in really good shape and is handsome isn't your type? Good luck".

Last year I had an average woman point out a fat woman around my age and tell me that was my league. I thought about that and wasn't sure if she was serious or not, but the idea hit me that if a white man that is 6'4" and in shape is supposed to date that what does she think of more average men?

In 2019 I went to a speed dating event, the idea popped into my mind when an older friend mentioned it and I was intrigued and wanted to give it a try. He wasn't able to go but I decided to follow through with it. Anyway, there were around 10 women, all were average and below, and out of all of them only 2 had any personality or were enjoyable to speak with. A few were full blown blatantly rude to me and I honestly left the experience regretting that I even went in the first place, which I genuinely was very angry over due to me looking forward to having a new and hopefully fun experience. It then dawned on me that there was a reason why these women were and probably still are single, which I'll get into below.

These women have a set of standards and are looking for combinations in men that I truly believe are impossible to find and naturally the result is these women are perpetually single. I now have this feeling that these women may be like this because they don't actually want a man and are doing this subconsciously. It's almost like they want to feel normal by trying to find a man but with their standards they can go back to their female friends and lament over how there are no good men left. I don't fully understand it but a feeling I get is that these standards are put in place to keep them alone in order to avoid getting hurt or disappointed. I also get the feeling that in some cases these women want to feel that they are victims of life and attain some sort of odd gratification from having other women tell them how hard their life is because they can't find a man. I also get the feeling that many of these women simply don't know what they want in life, due to both their own internal issues as well as those relating to the social programming they've had.

The main issue I see is you have a bunch of unhappy people, both men and women. Women have through their own behavior made themselves unavailable, whether or not they even realize this is uncertain. As the years pass they become increasingly lonely and unhappy and given enough time will find themselves permanently locked into this frame of existence. Men will often find that it is hard to get much of anything and will find themselves lonely as well, though not due to their own behavior. Some men will fight for the left over scraps and disregard any sense of personal standards with the women they are going for. Others will just accept that what they are looking for just isn't available but will move on with life and focus on other things, though naturally they will not be entirely happy unless they can completely let go of the desire to have a dating/sex life.

Something to think about is that the spinsters have all decided to "date" sperm donors, and by being so picky, when they finally get inseminated, they can say "I've tried to find the right man, but there are no good men around, but I still want to be a mother". The single mommies who are picky still want the same type of Chad that had knocked them up (although aged like they are), and since they are already mothers, they don't have to worry about the bioclock - in essence, they are being the Golden Canyon ready for when they can snag that Chad for a shag. And if they are feeling horny as it's been a while since they were able to get a Chad, they can always go on decide to get drunk one night and let a normie in.

As for men being "lonely", so long as they can GeoEscortMax, they'll never be lonely. If you ask me whether I enjoy myself more on a "regular date" with no physicality or a session with an escort, the answer there is clear. I can remember being a in new town, and as I was unable to GeoMax for a while, I decided to hit the swing dancing club (which I have determined is about the best way to do NightGame), and so for a few weeks, I'd go there, gradually enjoying it less & less. On the way back to my place I would always pass by a nudie bar, so I decided to go in; I walked out with a wet spot on my pants and a smile on my face, and hadn't looked back. I still do some NightGame & TinderGame, but only when GeoMaxxing, and only refrain from GeoEscortMaxxing if the results from NightGame & TinderGame "get the job done".

 

[MatureDJ]

I tried speed-dating in 2015 and there are no fond memories about it. Almost every woman just ask what I do for a living. I feel there are only two things most women care about: my background and my employment. Maybe if I had chad-tier looks they wouldn't be asking such questions.

If you had Chad-tier looks, you'd be too busy banging to be going to speed dating events.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is why I screen women out now because I'm sick of dealing with crazy hopeless romantic women that just want to waste your time. I know a girl that's in her thirties that will only settle for a real Christian man that's her age or older. He also has to be hot and no kids btw.

I more or less screen women by playing DontCallBackGame with anyone that seems less than very interested. Yes, most don't contact me, but the ones that do I know are worth me putting in the time. Of course, these tend to be the crazier ones ...

 

[Robert28]

Something to think about is that the spinsters have all decided to "date" sperm donors, and by being so picky, when they finally get inseminated, they can say "I've tried to find the right man, but there are no good men around, but I still want to be a mother". The single mommies who are picky still want the same type of Chad that had knocked them up (although aged like they are), and since they are already mothers, they don't have to worry about the bioclock - in essence, they are being the Golden Canyon ready for when they can snag that Chad for a shag. And if they are feeling horny as it's been a while since they were able to get a Chad, they can always go on decide to get drunk one night and let a normie in.

As for men being "lonely", so long as they can GeoEscortMax, they'll never be lonely. If you ask me whether I enjoy myself more on a "regular date" with no physicality or a session with an escort, the answer there is clear. I can remember being a in new town, and as I was unable to GeoMax for a while, I decided to hit the swing dancing club (which I have determined is about the best way to do NightGame), and so for a few weeks, I'd go there, gradually enjoying it less & less. On the way back to my place I would always pass by a nudie bar, so I decided to go in; I walked out with a wet spot on my pants and a smile on my face, and hadn't looked back. I still do some NightGame & TinderGame, but only when GeoMaxxing, and only refrain from GeoEscortMaxxing if the results from NightGame & TinderGame "get the job done".

I laugh at people that claim single moms are so desperate they’ll take ANY guy. In my experience they are one of the most picky groups of women out there. 30’s single moms especially.