She's (likely) leaving in 3 months?

[Sgthaytham]

We've been dating for a month or so. Last night we were hanging with friends and she told us she was likely going to head back to her home country in 3 months time.

FML - what do I do?

 

[dude99]

We've been dating for a month or so. Last night we were hanging with friends and she told us she was likely going to head back to her home country in 3 months time.

FML - what do I do?

You date other women

 

[Sgthaytham]

You date other women

Do I continue dating her too?

 

[dude99]

Do I continue dating her too?

Sure. Have her in your rotation until she leaves. You have only been seeing her a month you could not possibly have talked about being exclusive. Besides any girl that tells you in X number of days or weeks i am out of dodge can't expect you not be exclusive. It would be selfish of her to expect it

 

[oldmanofthesea]

If you've only been dating this woman for a month, you don't even really know her yet. Why are you saying FML over her leaving? You are demonstrating far, far too much neediness, desperation, attachment, and scarcity by being this upset over her leaving.

Continue dating her until she leaves (if you feel you can do it without catching feelings, which I have serious doubts about given your comments), but don't date her long distance.

 

[Grounded eagle]

We've been dating for a month or so. Last night we were hanging with friends and she told us she was likely going to head back to her home country in 3 months time.

FML - what do I do?

See other women.

 

[Grounded eagle]

Do I continue dating her too?

I don’t recommend a LDR.

 

[RangerMIke]

Most "relationships" end after 3 months anyway... just move on and stop thinking about her.

 

[Sgthaytham]

If you've only been dating this woman for a month, you don't even really know her yet. Why are you saying FML over her leaving? You are demonstrating far, far too much neediness, desperation, attachment, and scarcity by being this upset over her leaving.

Continue dating her until she leaves (if you feel you can do it without catching feelings, which I have serious doubts about given your comments), but don't date her long distance.

That's why here, so I don't end up splurting **** out to her...

 

[Rainman4707]

Date other women.

I agree with all the other posters.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

We've been dating for a month or so. Last night we were hanging with friends and she told us she was likely going to head back to her home country in 3 months time.

FML - what do I do?

You wish her the best and move on. Do not be butt hurt or get emotional. Simply wish her the best and continue dating as others have suggested.

Modern Man Advice

 

[jaymbrs]

I'm in the US and when I hear someone moving to another country, I equate it to moving to another state. It's pointless to continue dating in either case. Nothing wrong with keeping in touch, but dude move on.

 

[BMX]

I personally say "No" to long distance hoes...

 

[bat soup]

We've been dating for a month or so. Last night we were hanging with friends and she told us she was likely going to head back to her home country in 3 months time.

FML - what do I do?

Line up her replacements.