I lost my virginity today

[universal dawah]

I had to pay 15 dollars in order to lose my virginity with a prostitute. It was not a good experience at all. I did not feel anything while having sex. I did not ejaculate and she did not masturbate me with her hand when I asked her. If sex is bad like this then I will never get married

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Getting married means you won't have any sex though.

 

[universal dawah]

Getting married means you won't have any sex though.

How?

 

[corrector]

I had to pay 15 dollars in order to lose my virginity with a prostitute. It was not a good experience at all. I did not feel anything while having sex. I did not ejaculate and she did not masturbate me with her hand when I asked her. If sex is bad like this then I will never get married

I am sorry to hear that. But $15 sounds very cheap and you sometimes get what you pay for. What country are you in? How old are you?

 

[universal dawah]

I am sorry to hear that. But $15 sounds very cheap and you sometimes get what you pay for. What country are you in? How old are you?

It's a lot money here in bangladesh especially for a 16/17 years old. I am gonna be 17 in this july. I don't understand what money has to do with it. I just wanna know why I did not feel anything when I entered my stick inside that 30 years old. I used protection btw

 

[corrector]

It's a lot money here in bangladesh especially for a 16/17 years old. I am gonna be 17 in this july. I don't understand what money has to do with it. I just wanna know why I did not feel anything when I entered my stick inside that 30 years old. I used protection btw

It is because you are used to fapping and watching porn. You wont like the real thing. Try doing a nofap. They call it death grip syndrome. Its the only way to deal with that. It also messes you up so you cant stay hard or ejaculate. Quit the porn and fapping.

 

[universal dawah]

It is because you are used to fapping and watching porn. You wont like the real thing. Try doing a nofap. They call it death grip syndrome. Its the only way to deal with that. It also messes you up so you cant stay hard or ejaculate. Quit the porn and fapping.

yes maybe because I masturbated twice yesterday that's why it happened but I don't know. I felt good when the woman rubbed my stick to make it hard but it felt like nothing when I entered it inside her. she was feeling pain but I was not feeling like anything. can it be like because she is a prostitute and old so she is not tight? There can be something with her not me. I did not even ejaculate there that's why I had to masturbate when I came back home. I was not attracted to her either

 

[corrector]

yes maybe because I masturbated twice yesterday that's why it happened but I don't know. I felt good when the woman rubbed my stick to make it hard but it felt like nothing when I entered it inside her. she was feeling pain but I was not feeling like anything. can it be like because she is a prostitute and old so she is not tight? There can be something with her not me. I did not even ejaculate there that's why I had to masturbate when I came back home. I was not attracted to her either

How did you come to decide to use a prostitute to lose your virginity? Did anyone on here influence you to do this? If this was a Western country then the prostitute could be charged with statutory rape.

 

[universal dawah]

How did you come to decide to use a prostitute to lose your virginity? Did anyone on here influence you to do this? If this was a Western country then the prostitute could be charged with statutory rape.

I have already reached age of consent according to most western countries. It is illegal to be a prostitute under 18 but not illegal to have sex with a prostitute when you are under 18. I wonder are female private parts different from each other? I mean if I could not enjoy one does it mean I could enjoy another girl? she was not tight at all. I don't believe anything is wrong me. Something has to be wrong with her only or it can be like I could not feel anything because of condom. I don't know how to get a gf that's why I tried a prostitute and I might try another one again just to get some experience and feel something.

 

[corrector]

I have already reached age of consent according to most western countries.

I see your point. You are over 16 years old and choose to do that.

It is illegal to be a prostitute under 18 but not illegal to have sex with a prostitute when you are under 18. I wonder are female private parts different from each other? I mean if I could not enjoy one does it mean I could enjoy another girl? she was not tight at all.

Prostitutes have sex with allot of guys so they are not likely to be very tight. She would have to give you a hindu massage for you to have enjoyed that. Obviously she doesn't sound very talented. Other people complain they do that and they release too quickly and feel ripped off.

I don't believe anything is wrong me. Something has to be wrong with her only or it can be like I could not feel anything because of condom. I don't know how to get a gf that's why I tried a prostitute and I might try another one again just to get some experience and feel something.

Sounds like a dead-fish experience.

 

[Romanemp22]

For 15 euros/dollars you can only pay for a gypsy h00ker in my country. Now if you did that just because you wanted to see what it feels like or whatever it was an awful idea to lose it with a prostitute.

That thing needs to happen with a real girl, by terms real I mean girl you like and who likes you back. It can't be compared. I paid escorts before but because my very good friend is their pimp I got it half the price but if he wasn't their owner I would never pay for it.

 

[universal dawah]

For 15 euros/dollars you can only pay for a gypsy h00ker in my country. Now if you did that just because you wanted to see what it feels like or whatever it was an awful idea to lose it with a prostitute.

That thing needs to happen with a real girl, by terms real I mean girl you like and who likes you back. It can't be compared. I paid escorts before but because my very good friend is their pimp I got it half the price but if he wasn't their owner I would never pay for it.

I have approach anxiety

 

[universal dawah]

I see your point. You are over 16 years old and choose to do that.



Prostitutes have sex with allot of guys so they are not likely to be very tight. She would have to give you a hindu massage for you to have enjoyed that. Obviously she doesn't sound very talented. Other people complain they do that and they release too quickly and feel ripped off.



Sounds like a dead-fish experience.

I have approach anxiety so can't really approach girls

 

[corrector]

I have approach anxiety so can't really approach girls

How did you approach the prostitute then?

 

[universal dawah]

How did you approach the prostitute then?

I was not attracted to her and she was a woman not girl. I did not talk about sex with her. She opened her pant and I opened my then she started rubbing my penis just to make it hard then she inserted it inside her. Later I said "can you rub my penis again?" and she was like "why don't you do it by yourself"

 

[universal dawah]

it reminds me of "extra mask" from "the game" by neil strauss where he also did not feel anything during first intercourse

 

[corrector]

I was not attracted to her and she was a woman not girl. I did not talk about sex with her. She opened her pant and I opened my then she started rubbing my penis just to make it hard then she inserted it inside her. Later I said "can you rub my penis again?" and she was like "why don't you do it by yourself"

They dont have attractive yonger prostitutes in your country? Are they more expensive? Generally you dont see prostitutes you dont like becase you are paying for it.

 

[universal dawah]

They dont have attractive yonger prostitutes in your country? Are they more expensive? Generally you dont see prostitutes you dont like becase you are paying for it.

there are younger ones but They are expensive and after this experience I don't feel like giving my money for sex. I don't feel like sex is even enjoyable

 

[corrector]

there are younger ones but They are expensive and after this experience I don't feel like giving my money for sex. I don't feel like sex is even enjoyable

You are right, it is not enjoyable. Therefore dont pay for sex again. Wait for marriage.

Listen to @Atom Smasher. He will help get you in the right mindset. Dont listen to anyone else.

 

[zekko]

$15 sounds very cheap and you sometimes get what you pay for.

Fair point. I mean pay a prostitute and she won't even give you a hand? But yeah, $15.
Not that I would know, I've never used a prostitute, full disclosure.