How Much Do You Tolerate Till You Next Her?

John Constantine

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So just giving you the juicey bits.

01. Work Colleague
02. Flirting on & off for last 3 years while she was in a relationship.
03. Banged her around 2 years ago after a work party, yes she was in her relationship.
04. Breaks up with the dude 6 months ago.
05. Flirting with me gets intense
06. Gives me Bl0w Jobs at work 4 or 5 times

07. She cannot pin down a date to meet for sex, keeps having child care issues.. She Canceled 2 dates because she couldn't get away.

Anyway I NEXTED her hard.. She keeps trying to get my attention at work, but gets scraps off me only.

How much time do you give girls to bang before you next them?
Is that the same girl from your 2018 post ?

I believe some emotions are involved on your part. Don’t ever look back if it’s the case.

why would you next a girl that gives you blowj*b at work and clearly wants you to bang her into another dimension unless there’s feelings involved ?
 

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Is that the same girl from your 2018 post ?

I believe some emotions are involved on your part. Don’t ever look back if it’s the case.

why would you next a girl that gives you blowj*b at work and clearly wants you to bang her into another dimension unless there’s feelings involved ?
Nah dude this girl has nothing to do with 2018

Also you don't realise, attention wh0res will sometimes give a dude BJs just to keep him hooked and in her orbit.

6 months of trying to arrange to meet for sex.. Guess how many times we fuked? ZERO

Are you telling me 6 months isn't long enough to arrange a hook up outside of work lol.. Straight up game player or attention hoe
 

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Yeh but the bl0W job things comes with risks.. If get caught out, could have implications for my job.
Dude the whole thing is risky. @soulforge
She can at anytime blame you for sexual harassment and other nasty stuff and guess you will lose the job?
I'd bet it won't be her.

Women these days with the whole #metoo crap and the rampant hysterical feminazi movement has the female prerogative to blame any man for anything - even if it happened 10, 20 or even 30 years ago. We seen so many cases of this, so take great care and maybe also reconsider this?

Actually there is one on going case of that right now:

This dude has been blamed by a former pupil of sexual harassments which happened 20 years ago and guess who is hurting?
It ain't her for sure. And funny enough she comes out and blames him in the exact moment he has released a book which apparently is hugely successful and a bestseller. So I have hard time to believe it is all a coincidence. She has highly like seen a opportunity to profit from his success and she took it. I might be wrong of course, but as history shows this is not the first time women does this when they figure out a man has access to loads of cash due to his now successful career.

I probably never will understand why women does this and comes with stories of stuff that might or nor have happened ages ago. But they do exactly that.

As an example in just Denmark alone women have been going berserk after guys for the last 9-13 months about thing the claim guys have done to them, and of course the women are all believed and do not have produce any evidence. The men are judged sentenced and tossed out without any questions. It is just enough that a chick blames them for something and the guy is toasted, roasted and done, (Which is of course totally crazy). Load of guys heads has been rolling down the feminazi guillotine here in Denmark. But take note that this is not exclusive to Denmark. It is happening all over the western world.

Now this chick can backlash back at you when you're even more successful etc. and 10-15 years from now she will make sure it backfires for you and blame you for something you did or more likely didn't do and you will with certainty take the downfall of that.

Men these days are always guilty as charged and no judge nor a trial is needed to sentence you to eternal punishment.
 
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Dude the whole thing is risky. @soulforge
She can at anytime blame you for sexual harassment and other nasty stuff and guess you will lose the job?
I'd bet it won't be her.

Women these days with the whole #metoo crap and the rampant hysterical feminazi movement has the female prerogative to blame any man for anything - even if it happened 10, 20 or even 30 years ago. We seen so many cases of this, so take great care and maybe also reconsider this?

Actually there is one on going case of that right now:

This dude has been blamed by a former pupil of sexual harassments which happened 20 years ago and guess who is hurting?
It ain't her for sure. And funny enough she comes out and blames him in the exact moment he has released a book which apparently is hugely successful and a bestseller. So I have hard time to believe it is all a coincidence. She has highly like seen a opportunity to profit from his success and she took it. I might be wrong of course, but as history shows this is not the first time women does this when they figure out a man has access to loads of cash due to his now successful career.

I probably never will understand why women does this and comes with stories of stuff that might or nor have happened ages ago. But they do exactly that.

As an example in just Denmark alone women have been going berserk after guys for the last 9-13 months about thing the claim guys have done to them, and of course the women are all believed and do not have produce any evidence. The men are judged sentenced and tossed out without any questions. It is just enough that a chick blames them for something and the guy is toasted, roasted and done, (Which is of course totally crazy). Load of guys heads has been rolling down the feminazi guillotine here in Denmark. But take note that this is not exclusive to Denmark. It is happening all over the western world.

Now this chick can backlash back at you when you're even more successful etc. and 10-15 years from now she will make sure it backfires for you and blame you for something you did or more likely didn't do and you will with certainty take the downfall of that.

Men these days are always guilty as charged and no judge nor a trial is needed to sentence you to eternal punishment.
Exactly why I walked away from Bjs at work.. If she met me outside of work and we banged at my house or her house, that would be a different thing.

Plus I don't know where her mouth has been, with covid at its peak in the UK back then, the whole thing felt risky.
 

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The blow J0b situation is risky.. We have social distancing as company policy.. If word gets out she is whacking me off in work, could jeopardise my job.

Also with covid, it's a health risk too.. Ideally I wanted to smash her once or twice at my house & then just move on.
No BJ is worth that man. If you think you could lose your job over it I would stop. That's just me though. The temptation isn't worth the risk. You could find other high IL girls to have to your place without risking your income.
 

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No BJ is worth that man. If you think you could lose your job over it I would stop. That's just me though. The temptation isn't worth the risk. You could find other high IL girls to have to your place without risking your income.
Yes this is spot on.. I was going through a strict UK lockdown period. So I allowed it because of a dry spell.. However after the 3Rd or 4th time I realised that the risk isn't worth the reward.

After I stopped seeing her in work, she made one attempt to come to my house for sex, but I was too busy that night.

I made two attempts after that to hook up at my house for sex, she couldn't get away from her kids on both occasions, so I simply sacked it off.

When it becomes too difficult to hook up or its no longer fun. Best to next it off
 

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Yes this is spot on.. I was going through a strict UK lockdown period. So I allowed it because of a dry spell.. However after the 3Rd or 4th time I realised that the risk isn't worth the reward.

After I stopped seeing her in work, she made one attempt to come to my house for sex, but I was too busy that night.

I made two attempts after that to hook up at my house for sex, she couldn't get away from her kids on both occasions, so I simply sacked it off.

When it becomes too difficult to hook up or its no longer fun. Best to next it off
Yeah man, exactly! I'm dealing with this too right now with a plate. I feel like I am putting too much effort in with her and it's just not enjoyable at this point to try to arrange plans. It's hard to cute one loose, especially when the sex is good, but not worth it if her IL seems low or she always seems to be busy/distracted.
 

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Yeah man, exactly! I'm dealing with this too right now with a plate. I feel like I am putting too much effort in with her and it's just not enjoyable at this point to try to arrange plans. It's hard to cute one loose, especially when the sex is good, but not worth it if her IL seems low or she always seems to be busy/distracted.

It's funny how once you cut them off, they start yearning for attention again.

All boils down to self respect.. Girl makes things too difficult for me? I simply sack her off.. Far as I am concerned she blew it..
 

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It's funny how once you cut them off, they start yearning for attention again.

All boils down to self respect.. Girl makes things too difficult for me? I simply sack her off.. Far as I am concerned she blew it..
Absolutely dude. I think most (sane ones anyways) pick up on that and see that you won't tolerate BS. The way I see it, if they don't, it wasn't a girl worth having around anyways!
 

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Absolutely dude. I think most (sane ones anyways) pick up on that and see that you won't tolerate BS. The way I see it, if they don't, it wasn't a girl worth having around anyways!
Yes if they don't see it, then they didn't value your worth.. In that case they don't deserve any form of attention from you at all.

The one I nexted is already butt hurt, as after several attempts by her, I refuse to give her any of my valuable time.

A couple of words is the max she gets out of me at work haha.. Men know your worth & ignore these attention hoes!
 
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