Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

[Lookatu]

I’m way ahead of you man. Took that years ago. Instead of assume you know everything about me and my pua journey, try to meet me where I live next time. Like I havent tried everything you’re suggesting

OK good. Realize we try to help. We're not trying to drag you down. However you need to realize that and be more appreciative instead of acting like a d1ck sometimes. I'm spend my time typing this for an absolute stranger because others have helped me in my journey on here and it's a way to give back but if it's met with no appreciation or open ears, I'm out because that's all I can do. I got empathy for you but it's not helping if you're not willing to engage in a productive conversation.

 

[SargeMaximus]

OK good. Realize we try to help. We're not trying to drag you down. However you need to realize that and be more appreciative instead of acting like a d1ck sometimes. I'm spend my time typing this for an absolute stranger because others have helped me in my journey on here and it's a way to give back but if it's met with no appreciation or open ears, I'm out because that's all I can do. I got empathy for you but it's not helping if you're not willing to engage in a productive conversation.

Productive conversation is helping me deal with my sticking points through empathy not assuming you know what the solution is before you even know my situation. I’m not gonna be appreciative for someone offering me advice I’ve tried and found to not work literally years ago.

 

[Lookatu]

Productive conversation is helping me deal with my sticking points through empathy not assuming you know what the solution is before you even know my situation. I’m not gonna be appreciative for someone offering me advice I’ve tried and found to not work literally years ago.

Lol, ok man, Good luck. I see where the millenial entitlement and selfishness is showing through. Lose that and you will start improving in life.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Lol, ok man, Good luck. I see where the millenial entitlement and selfishness is showing through. Lose that and you will start improving in life.

Smh. Again: I did not lose my virginity till I stopped listening to the “be a social alpha” advice. The results, not entitlement, speaks for itself. Good riddance.

In other news I have plans to meet and fvck a 26 y.o. Tomorrow night. We will see how things go.

 

[DonJuanjr]

@SargeMaximus I took the test that lookatu suggested to you. I got Virtuoso (ISTP-T). I dont think personality is set it stone. I am trying to learn how to be more happy with being more extroverted. Maybe you could learn it also.

 

[SargeMaximus]

@SargeMaximus I took the test that lookatu suggested to you. I got Virtuoso (ISTP-T). I dont think personality is set it stone. I am trying to learn how to be more happy with being more extroverted. Maybe you could learn it also.

It’s not set in stone. But it’s also not a requirement that one is extroverted to be able to score with women.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Which dating site are you most successful with?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Which dating site are you most successful with?

Badoo by far. Tho recently pof had gotten me some lays after nothing from it for years.

 

[SargeMaximus]

It’s scary how brainwashed everyone is about covid. My brother, who by his lifestyle, diet, and messy living space clearly doesn’t care about his health, yesterday said in that weird tone that religious people often have “have you found Jesus?” You know the tone. Anyhow he actually said “I’m booking my covid vaccine, I could book you as well!” I just told him I was good but thanks.

next thing he’ll probably disown me because I didn’t get vaccinated. My uncle and aunt have already said unless we are vaccinated we won’t be meeting with them when they come down to visit this year.
This is awful

 

[SargeMaximus]

Well that girl I was supposed to have sex with turned out to be another waste of time. I actually met with her a few months ago but something was off about her so I talked with her and found out she has FAS. Like, how am I attracting a girl with FAS? I thought "like attracts like". I'm not THAT inept am I?

Anyhow I tried to explain to her why we couldn't sleep together but she tried her hardest to convince me. I left peacefully.

Starting to get frustrated with this dry spell. I wonder if covid lockdowns are playing a role.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Got ghosted from this girl. No idea why. I thought I was being a good conversationalist without being a guy that just agrees with her about everything. Pics below.

In other news, texted the 22 year old masochist. We gonna meet for a walk instead of go straight to her bedroom. I just want to make sure I’m into her first and that she doesn’t have some weird disability or something. Also, she wanted me to fvck her in her house while her parents are away and while that is kinky and hot, I can see how that could be an elaborate trap with hidden cameras or neighbors who knows.

best not to jump into weird situations imo.
Gonna try and be more normal in my dating at least for the first 2 dates

 

[SargeMaximus]

Met with a 22 year old I was semi-seeing for a while. It's hard to see her because she lives at home and I live with my brother. So she was finally able to sneak out tonight and we had sex. It was ok. But now she's back at home and her dad is asking her about me and ****. I think I gotta cut my losses. Just not my time in the dating arena lately.

 

[SargeMaximus]

So here’s a screenshot showing that I do get followed by hot girls on Instagram. Some are fake for sure, but some like the latest seem legit.
It’s just frustrating being a “hot guy” with no game to capitalize on it.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Even if your game needs work, appreciate that you have desirable traits that will make it easier for you when you get your game locked down.
Like you, I too am starting to wonder about the effectiveness of cold approaching. I am thinking it works way better in populated areas where females are used to strangers on a daily basis. The county I live in is around 100,000 people. The reaction I get from females is like they're flabbergasted that a stranger is talking to them. So far I am at around 38 approaches, got 7 numbers. Out of those 7, 3 flakes, 3 chats, one of which led to nowhere. The other two had dates scheduled, but got stood up and the last was a date with no second date.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Even if your game needs work, appreciate that you have desirable traits that will make it easier for you when you get your game locked down.
Like you, I too am starting to wonder about the effectiveness of cold approaching. I am thinking it works way better in populated areas where females are used to strangers on a daily basis. The county I live in is around 100,000 people. The reaction I get from females is like they're flabbergasted that a stranger is talking to them. So far I am at around 38 approaches, got 7 numbers. Out of those 7, 3 flakes, 3 chats, one of which led to nowhere. The other two had dates scheduled, but got stood up and the last was a date with no second date.

That’s a better ratio than I had when I did cold approaches tho. I had hundreds with 2 dates. Granted both girls I went on dates with were 18 and 19.

but yeah I hear you. It does seem useless. At least in my case where I don’t get how you go from normal convo to sex. The only way I’ve ever gotten sex was to be blunt and upfront and sexual from the get go. Conversation seems like such an irrelevant detour.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Yeah so here’s an example of a convo. As you can see, I have the ability to have convos, but they are so boring to me and I don’t see how having a convo will lead to sex. To me it’s apples and oranges. So I’m having trouble taking things anywhere with them

 

[SargeMaximus]

Another one. Recent so we will see if she texts me or not.

 

[SargeMaximus]

The rest of the pics

 

[SargeMaximus]

So today I messaged that cute 7.5 that I had ED with during all 3 times we got in bed together. I waited over a month before messaging her again. Screen caps below. Let me know what you guys think

 

[DonJuanjr]

I'm not in a place to give advice, but keep showing the progression of this conversation. It'd be interesting to see how it turns out for you. In my naivete, she seems interested, in that she is at least responding to you. Maybe she is trying to turn you into an orbiter or just absorbing the attention you are giving her? I don't know. You broke some common rules according to djs on here. That's why I'd like to see how it turns out for you.