What advice would give this poor guy?

[MatureDJ]

 

[Georgepithyou]

Being tall isn't going to magically cure your lack of social skills and turn you into Leonardo Dicaprio

 

[Romanemp22]

Agree with hank, no one especially girls likes b1tchiness and victim mentality. If you have lack of something, man the fvck up and work on yourself.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Being really tall doesn´t help either as you frigging bump your head into doors and other stuff.
It all about perspective and you mentality towards life.

 

[Grounded eagle]

He should focus on controlling the controllable s.

 

[bat soup]

His biggest problem isn't being short, his problem is that he has a victim mentality. I once went out with a friend and two Brazilian girls. The guy was good looking and he had a much better job than me, dressed well and spoke good Portuguese. At some point we were dancing with the girls and he said to one of them "if I was taller I would ask you out". Needless to say...

 

[AureliusMaximus]

At some point we were dancing with the girls and he said to one of them "if I was taller I would ask you out"

Talking about shooting yourself in the foot...
Why do some guys do this?

 

[LiveYourDream]

His biggest problem isn't being short, his problem is that he has a victim mentality.

Unless/until he chooses to take off the victim mentality glasses that he experiences life through, he will remain perpetually stuck and unable to clearly see/understand how significantly their constricted perspective affect him and his life.

 

[manfrombelow]

Being short sure is an dis-advantage that prevents him from achieving certain goals that taller guys would have less problems to achieve, but it does not 100% account for 100% of his failure. So I'd advice him to hit the gym, eat healthy, read more books, ditch social media and work on himself more aka channeling his energy inwards instead of outwards.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I hope one day soon he can see beyond the perspectives that currently hold him back.

 

[SW15]

Short guys are not in a good position at all. Not much can be done.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Being short didn't ruin his life.

Believing that being short ruined his life did.

You create outcomes for yourself based on your beliefs and behaviors, not the other way around.