Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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What happened?
Why do you think it did?What happened?
The red pill is still the red pill.Incels just have a hard time telling the difference.What happened?
The red pill is still the red pill.Incels just have a hard time telling the difference.
In psychology these are called thought distortions. It's the minds way of bending reality to fit the mindset they have. Instead of the other way around which would actually benefit them. It's the minds easy button so to speak. It's not me, it's them.The level of effort required for the average man to yield a decent result has increased dramatically. The reason why it was so motivating in the past to get into self-improvement was because minor improvements yielded results in the real world. I don't even really advise men to get in the gym and work out anymore because I spent a decade doing it and I can't say for sure that it's still worth it. Back when I started it was definitely worth it, just going from 135(lol!) to 140 got me a few girlfriends with zero game. I think the equivalent today would be closer to 10 to 15 lb of muscle to accomplish anything decent, so it's 3x more difficult.
Yep.Couldn’t find their own ass with both hands.Seriously though,incels will say what they say and do what they do.It only matters if you listen.Simps have this problem too.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The reality is that most men are doing this and seeing the goal post moved further and further to point to where it has became ridiculous. I agree that back in the day this wasn’t the case and most guys complaining about women were just fat and lazy. However, most guys preaching black pill today arent ugly, do workout, and have careers or at least sustainable small business. I make over 100k, 6ft 1, 12% bf, and I’m not ugly and I’m called an Incel lol.In psychology these are called thought distortions. It's the minds way of bending reality to fit the mindset they have. Instead of the other way around which would actually benefit them. It's the minds easy button so to speak. It's not me, it's them.
Depends where you are starting from. I have a naturally wide frame, big shoulders and am built like a sparkplug so adding muscle came pretty easy to me. But on the flip side so does adding fat so I have to be very mindful of what I am eating much more than a lot of people.
I think most people focus their improvements on the wrong areas. Social skills, conversational skills, and body language tweaks will likely get more results than going to the gym for the average guy. Mainly because most guys aren't willing to work hard enough or intense enough at the gym to see quality results. See a pattern? Unwillingness to work hard for what you want in all aspects of life.
Because you choose to be that. It's a choice. Choose something else then.The reality is that most men are doing this and seeing the goal post moved further and further to point to where it has became ridiculous. I agree that back in the day this wasn’t the case and most guys complaining about women were just fat and lazy. However, most guys preaching black pill today arent ugly, do workout, and have careers or at least sustainable small business. I make over 100k, 6ft 1, 12% bf, and I’m not ugly and I’m called an Incel lol.
Things have changed. So why would ould you think doing the same things that got results before would give you the same results now? Life is about constant change and adapting to it.I am the poster child for self-improvement. I have done it all. At the same time I can also objectively see that things have seriously changed and that there is a trade-off for choosing how you spend your free time
I obviously don't know you and have never seen you in person (or even a photo of you). But my guess as to what you're "missing" is this...The reality is that most men are doing this and seeing the goal post moved further and further to point to where it has became ridiculous. I agree that back in the day this wasn’t the case and most guys complaining about women were just fat and lazy. However, most guys preaching black pill today arent ugly, do workout, and have careers or at least sustainable small business. I make over 100k, 6ft 1, 12% bf, and I’m not ugly and I’m called an Incel lol.
I want a beneficial relationship with a female, wtf is wrong with this lol?Because you choose to be that. It's a choice. Choose something else then.
Nothing. But the mindset of constant negativity is doing nothing to help you in that regard, only hinder you.I want a beneficial relationship with a female, wtf is wrong with this lol?
while I agree that too much negativity is a bad thing. You cannot walk in to a relationship/marriage with your guard down especially in 2021.Nothing. But the mindset of constant negativity is doing nothing to help you in that regard, only hinder you.
Your subconscious mind will always follow your belief system and work at making those a reality. And honestly, your belief system really sucks bro.
Definitely not advocating for having your guard down but I also don't believe that just because x number of past experiences with women have gone a certain way that you automatically assume this one will as well. You are only creating a self-fulfilling prophecy for yourself at that point then.while I agree that too much negativity is a bad thing. You cannot walk in to a relationship/marriage with your guard down especially in 2021.
Yea, I notice the goal post moving. Not just due to women's expectations, but RP expectations as well. In the RP Reddit groups telling guys to "Lift!!" is almost a new religion,...and telling them to chase a career isn't far behind it. It starts out as "You just have to be in better shape",...to,..."You have to look like Atlas or you are a loser. It starts as "You have to make a decent stable income",...to..."You have to make $150k a year or you are a loser". Well that is great in your late 20's or early 30's when you have time for the added education and your brain is fresh enough to absorb it, and your body will still respond to the workouts in the gym.The reality is that most men are doing this and seeing the goal post moved further and further to point to where it has became ridiculous. I agree that back in the day this wasn’t the case and most guys complaining about women were just fat and lazy. However, most guys preaching black pill today arent ugly, do workout, and have careers or at least sustainable small business. I make over 100k, 6ft 1, 12% bf, and I’m not ugly and I’m called an Incel lol.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.