Boyos, so LA county has recently opened up strip clubs again. I was at one of my favorite joints that's been closed for well over a year. They opened again friday night and I rolled in last night.
The crowd of patrons was about half females, half male. Normally, even on a packed night, at most there'd only be about 20% females. But tonight it was packed with female patrons.
These women came here primarily for 1 thing: male attention/validation.
They know the guys at strip clubs are horny and extra desperate due to lockdown. So they came here for some quick, easy, real world validation.
The concept is this: the strippers in the club are hot, if these female patrons manage to steal attention away from the stripers then it gives them a high and a psychological win...
One particular patron was a hot, thin blonde that got up on the 2nd stage (the mini stage, not the main stage) and started dancing. The male patrons were oogling her. I decided to walk over and start throwing up some dollars... I told her to keep taking her clothing off and I'll throw more. Sure enough she continues to keep stripping until she got completely naked. Other guys rolled up and started throwing up money as well.
She must have made an easy $400 in the span of 5 minutes. You can see on her face how high she got from the validation/attention from men. Yes, the money is a plus, but more importantly that money is a measure of how much validation she accumulated (similar to likes on social media).
She was with a group of both males and females and I'm sure one of those dudes must have been her boyfriend. But did it matter to her? Did she stop for 1 minute and think how her actions might cuck him and embarrass him? Nope. To her, validation is more important than her boyfriend's dignity.
Her face was glowing from the high. The faces of the other female patrons were a mixture of envy, jealousy, admiration and inspiration - inspiration to try to emulate her by acting just as wh0rish. Which is what they did throughout the night as other women got up on the 2nd stage as well, albeit they didn't get fully naked, at most, some of them took their top off or stripped down to undergarments.
Lessons to be learnt:
1) Women crave validation, they can't survive without it. They specifically go to places where men congregate to get a piece of that validation.
2) Women compete with each other for validation
3) In pursuit of validation, women could care less if they publicly cuck and embarrass their boyfriends/partners
4) Men are fools, our validation is more valuable to women than gold and yet we give it away for free without expecting anything in return. Is it even a surprise that women don't respect men who bend over backwards to cater to them?
In a strip club, a man can learn just how valuable his attention is to women: "you want these dollars, you gotta get naked." It's a fair trade, and ironically, women actually develop more respect for you if they have to give you something in exchange for your validation.
The crowd of patrons was about half females, half male. Normally, even on a packed night, at most there'd only be about 20% females. But tonight it was packed with female patrons.
These women came here primarily for 1 thing: male attention/validation.
They know the guys at strip clubs are horny and extra desperate due to lockdown. So they came here for some quick, easy, real world validation.
The concept is this: the strippers in the club are hot, if these female patrons manage to steal attention away from the stripers then it gives them a high and a psychological win...
One particular patron was a hot, thin blonde that got up on the 2nd stage (the mini stage, not the main stage) and started dancing. The male patrons were oogling her. I decided to walk over and start throwing up some dollars... I told her to keep taking her clothing off and I'll throw more. Sure enough she continues to keep stripping until she got completely naked. Other guys rolled up and started throwing up money as well.
She must have made an easy $400 in the span of 5 minutes. You can see on her face how high she got from the validation/attention from men. Yes, the money is a plus, but more importantly that money is a measure of how much validation she accumulated (similar to likes on social media).
She was with a group of both males and females and I'm sure one of those dudes must have been her boyfriend. But did it matter to her? Did she stop for 1 minute and think how her actions might cuck him and embarrass him? Nope. To her, validation is more important than her boyfriend's dignity.
Her face was glowing from the high. The faces of the other female patrons were a mixture of envy, jealousy, admiration and inspiration - inspiration to try to emulate her by acting just as wh0rish. Which is what they did throughout the night as other women got up on the 2nd stage as well, albeit they didn't get fully naked, at most, some of them took their top off or stripped down to undergarments.
Lessons to be learnt:
1) Women crave validation, they can't survive without it. They specifically go to places where men congregate to get a piece of that validation.
2) Women compete with each other for validation
3) In pursuit of validation, women could care less if they publicly cuck and embarrass their boyfriends/partners
4) Men are fools, our validation is more valuable to women than gold and yet we give it away for free without expecting anything in return. Is it even a surprise that women don't respect men who bend over backwards to cater to them?
In a strip club, a man can learn just how valuable his attention is to women: "you want these dollars, you gotta get naked." It's a fair trade, and ironically, women actually develop more respect for you if they have to give you something in exchange for your validation.
