Message to all smaller dudes or minority dudes out there gaming women

[corrector]

You need to leave Toronto lol. Are there any other cities in Canada that are POC friendly? I've been to Vancouver, but I wasn't feeling any vibes while there. I was also fatter and young at the time lol. When I was in Nashville, my confidence was low and I was always ****** off. After I moved, my confidence shot up tremendously and I started getting more girls. It's not just you, Toronto is bad lol.

I am unable to leave Toronto. Live with my folks in a small house and house prices everywhere have gone up to the stratosphere so buying or renting elsewhere is not realistic.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I am unable to leave Toronto.

Toronto has some HBs. I’ve always gotten play there from black chicks and white chicks

 

[corrector]

Toronto has some HBs. I’ve always gotten play there from black chicks and white chicks

Oh right, so I should not focus on Asians or ethnics. (just kidding)

 

[EyeBRollin]

Oh right, so I should not focus on Asians or ethnics. (just kidding)

Ive only gotten looks from Asian chicks out in California. Indian chicks don’t fvck with black guys at all. Hispanic chicks it depends on their origins. Puerto Rican’s and Dominicans on the east coast USA are just Spanish speaking black girls. Mexicans are a different story

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Ive only gotten looks from Asian chicks out in California. Indian chicks don’t fvck with black guys at all. Hispanic chicks it depends on their origins. Puerto Rican’s and Dominicans on the east coast USA are just Spanish speaking black girls. Mexicans are a different story

my ex was Indian, but I’ve had absolutely terrible luck with Arab women for some reason

 

[DonJuanjr]

Every girl has some chad or rich dude chasing or orbiting them.

I would argue that if they're orbiting, then they're not really a chad. If confidence is the most important thing to females, then one would think that as long as your more confident than a dude who fits a chad stereotype look, you'll be more desireable to the woman. If a dude that has chad looks is orbiting a chick, then why is she relegating him to orbiter, and not jumping on his d!ck?

 

[corrector]

my ex was Indian, but I’ve had absolutely terrible luck with Arab women for some reason

My exwife was Indian too.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I would argue that if they're orbiting, then they're not really a chad. If confidence is the most important thing to females, then one would think that as long as your more confident than a dude who fits a chad stereotype look, you'll be more desireable to the woman. If a dude that has chad looks is orbiting a chick, then why is she relegating him to orbiter, and not jumping on his d!ck?

because Chads are a dime a dozen for any chick that doesn’t look like a land troll. You act like there’s only one guy that’s taller than 6ft, good looking, and Horny out there in the field lol.

 

[DonJuanjr]

If chads are a dime a dozen, then that goes against a belief on this site that there are more hot chicks than alphas... If the latter statement is true, then that would make you think that the women are a dime a dozen to the chads. Which why would they waste time orbiting? I consider chads stereotypical alphas. I think you are lumping in attractive betas. All I'm saying is lets not get away from the meaning of the term.

 

[corrector]

You're not a victim of anything. Get over it. Get on with your life.

You may think I'm being a jerk - but I'm not.

I was homeless 5 years ago.

I didn't blame anybody.

People, like you, who play the victim card and refuse to improve themselves get no sympathy from me, nor should they from anyone else.

Quit blaming 'the system' for your failures. Look in the mirror, and fix whatever issues about yourself you don't like.

You edited your post.

You got laid when homeless? Did you get any pity play with any women?

In what way do you expect me to "improve myself"? I post on a self improvement thread and the thread gets locked because of haters who dont want to see me self improve. You cant even make stuff like that up.

 

[corrector]

Go to the gym. Invest in some updated looks.

Do you have a nice career? Nice place to live?

Gyms are closed. I am working on a new career. I cant do anything about where I am living at now. There could be worst living situations and I am good with my own setup. A woman cant fit into it unless she comes from a ghetto in a third world country and understands what a hard life means. The type of girl @FuzzX found I guess. You have to wonder why he went after that type of girl right?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You edited your post.

You got laid when homeless? Did you get any pity play with any women?

In what way do you expect me to "improve myself"? I post on a self improvement thread and the thread gets locked because of haters who dont want to see me self improve. You cant even make stuff like that up.

Man, I know a sh1t ton of dudes that got laid while having zero to no cash of their own. And they could get laid with established babes. Most were bullsh1t artists, liars and schemers, the type that would sell you into a scam if they had a legit job. But they were getting laid left,right and center and these females were being stupid for them. So it's obvious the guys knew what females needed to see or hear.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

No. Most men aren’t attractive enough and can’t afford HB8+

Looks don't matter if you go that route

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Gyms are closed. I am working on a new career. I cant do anything about where I am living at now. There could be worst living situations and I am good with my own setup. A woman cant fit into it unless she comes from a ghetto in a third world country and understands what a hard life means. The type of girl @FuzzX found I guess. You have to wonder why he went after that type of girl right?

Sounds ideal. You know the cynical talk from this side will say "well wait till she gets around the other women here, and they will show her all the ways she can get over on you. I'd say if you took a woman with that background it would make sense that ontop of it she is also very religious so that keeps her somewhat checked....

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

If chads are a dime a dozen, then that goes against a belief on this site that there are more hot chicks than alphas... If the latter statement is true, then that would make you think that the women are a dime a dozen to the chads. Which why would they waste time orbiting? I consider chads stereotypical alphas. I think you are lumping in attractive betas. All I'm saying is lets not get away from the meaning of the term.

Because women are more selective than men. A woman will only sleep with 1% of available single men, while a Chad(men in general) will sleep with anything that's not a land troll on a slow Tuesday. A lot of average to below average girls do have low key flings with horny desperate Chads that never go anywhere hence why you always hear women complaining about being ghosted or played by men. Do you really think these are beta dudes playing them? No, these girls are not reading in between the lines when it comes to these hookup flings with guys well above their league.

 

[DonJuanjr]

A lot of average to below average girls do have low key flings with horny desperate Chads that never go anywhere

Are these guys orbiting though? I think we have a disconnect with the term orbit or chad. I wouldn't say a desperate chad capitalizing on a below average female is the same thing as orbiting.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Are these guys orbiting though? I think we have a disconnect with the term orbit or chad. I wouldn't say a desperate chad capitalizing on a below average female is the same thing as orbiting.

Orbiter or not, every girl has connections with guys that you would assume are Chads. If the girl isn't ugly, I will bet money that this girl has a professional sports player, good looking bartender/party chad, or Christian Grey in her arsenal. Why isn't she in a relationship with this guy? Beats me, the more you worry about it, the more insecure and beta you look. You have Chad placed on too high of a pedestal. First, you have to understand that any guy will simp for a girl that he likes. Next, girls especially single girls post 23 are picky af and will reject guys based on their chipotle order preference. Girls are going to be attracted to different types of guys, so there is no such thing as this universal mega chad that makes every single girl wet their panties like these black pills keep moaning about. I swear yall are more obsessed with Chad than women are tbh.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Pretty presumptuous statements regarding my outlook there. I'm simply arguing terms have meanings, and let's not obfuscate them... I didn't disagree with your premise of average guys doing just fine with chicks. In fact, this statement I made:

If confidence is the most important thing to females, then one would think that as long as your more confident than a dude who fits a chad stereotype look, you'll be more desirable to the woman.

Agrees with this one:

...The fact that you were able to have sex/win an relationship with them means you beat out this mythical guy you prompt up daily.