Needy behavior - she says she's doesn't want nothing atm

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Ok like I said earlier 2 dates, last club night I acted needy and I was drunk.

On the dates we made out 10times or so, we had fun, everything perfect.

Today

Me: Hey lets hang out at my place this week...
9 hours of silence
Me: You know.. Never mind.
Her: Hey
Her: It's not the moment for me now...
Her: You probably want more but I don't need that atm...
Me: Not really
Me: I don't even know you that well.. I want to get to know a girl before I want more. I don't think about that now. Well were done then.

Ok guys again.....

Whatever you do, be patient and don't be needy, you will ruin everything. Yours sincerley Gambino
You need to invent a pretext to invite her to your place. Otherwise she probably feels like if she comes over then you'll be expecting sex.

It's better if you say "I'll make dinner for you or "we can watch a movie" etc. That way there's less pressure.

In any case her replies are really low interest.
 

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You need to invent a pretext to invite her to your place. Otherwise she probably feels like if she comes over then you'll be expecting sex.

It's better if you say "I'll make dinner for you or "we can watch a movie" etc. That way there's less pressure.

In any case her replies are really low interest.
In all honesty, shouldn't every girl know that going over to a guys house means he's going to try to have sex with her.

Even worse is if he doesn't make the move and is just boring and dishonest about it. Nobody is fooling anybody by pretending that's not what's on his mind.
 

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Ok like I said earlier 2 dates, last club night I acted needy and I was drunk.

On the dates we made out 10times or so, we had fun, everything perfect.

Today

Me: Hey lets hang out at my place this week...
9 hours of silence
Me: You know.. Never mind.
Her: Hey
Her: It's not the moment for me now...
Her: You probably want more but I don't need that atm...
Me: Not really
Me: I don't even know you that well.. I want to get to know a girl before I want more. I don't think about that now. Well were done then.

Ok guys again.....

Whatever you do, be patient and don't be needy, you will ruin everything. Yours sincerley Gambino
The phones all have a block and delete function. execute and get her hotter younger tighter sister.
 

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In all honesty, shouldn't every girl know that going over to a guys house means he's going to try to have sex with her.

Even worse is if he doesn't make the move and is just boring and dishonest about it. Nobody is fooling anybody by pretending that's not what's on his mind.
Yes but modern women are retards who want plausible deniability. Rant about girl boss and wants kids at geriatric pregnancy.

It's not up for debate. Comply or bye.

Additionally most men today are so low T they don't make a move.
 

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In all honesty, shouldn't every girl know that going over to a guys house means he's going to try to have sex with her.

Even worse is if he doesn't make the move and is just boring and dishonest about it. Nobody is fooling anybody by pretending that's not what's on his mind.
She knows, of course. But the point is that having a pretext takes the pressure off. It's like giving her an out.

And it's not dishonest because both of you know the real reason.
 
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