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Been grinding on my business as usual. We're still in lockdown in my country so only working and bettering myself for SMV purposes and my own self. Self improvement is absolute way to go in life for a man. After lockdown my plan is too date a lot and write all of my stories here like I always did.

So I can't go out, lost some plates because I focussed on self improving instead of spinning plates.

I invest in some social circles where I can meet women though and I got invited by a friend to a house party last saturday. I decided to not drink alcohol.

We were a group of 15 with 8 guys and 7 women.

Of the girls there were 4 ugly to average ones and 3 dimes. The Ofcourse the dimes were a group of friends. I just had fun all night. The average girls are my friends, I'm in a whatsapp group with them with my buddies and we chat blabla everyday. So 1 of them obv tries to f8ck me but she f8cked my best buddy and she is kinda the slvt of the group. She even offered to come to my house but I decline since she's not my type and my best buddy f8cked her a lot. I can do way better.

But she sat next to me, trying to sit on my lap a couple of times, saying funny sh1t. Other average girl sat next to me always but my eyes were on the two dimes.
I played it cool like you should. I talked to them relaxed and fun, making fun of them in a positive way, teasing, and building rapport while the average girl agressivley puts her legs on my lap etc.

The moroccan beauty absolute dime hb9 sat next to me and started to flirt a bit with her eyes. I teased her and grabbed her hand. Put her ring off her finger then put it back on and telling her were married now. She laughed out loud. Then I asked her for her hobbies and she said skippyballing lmao. I said Ill be your skippyball all night and freaky stuff like that. She loved it. There was attraction and we clicked well. I started to kino her a lot and then the great moment of switch. There was another good looking guy (actually a guy we know very well also) looking for her attention. She switched on me and went to sit with him. Because I am a cold DJ with loads of experience I handled that well. I switched off my attention to her, kept looking her in her eyes and smile when we pass in the house as everyone is moving ;) but not acting pissed off or annoyed at all. Just focussed my attention on her dime girlfriend instead lol.

After that she went to sit back with me like 40 mins later and her friend left. Before leaving her friend said ''Have fun with The Gambino hahhaha''.

There were no more beds in the house otherwise I could def f*ck her.

Hours later when everyone went to sleep we cuddled and kissed build rapport and took her home. Now 2 days later I didn't text her or snap her.

Anyway great to see I still got it lol I only work everyday so I dont meet much women anymore. Hopefully we open up after this corona sh*t and we can party again! It was a good night.
 
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What exactly do you 'have'?

When everyone went to sleep, you 'cuddled and kissed' and "built rapport?"

It's no wonder she didn't reply to your 'hey what's up' message the next day. She now thinks your d!ck doesn't work.

But hey, you cuddled the sh!t out of her.

Good job.

** I don't mean to be so hard on you. You're probably a nice kid. But d@mn.
no i didnt Text her at all yet. I wait 1/2days now. She can text me too, dont be To eager im a busy man. And i could not fck her in the living room of the house. So Many people Could come in. And im going text her this evening.
 

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no i didnt Text her at all yet. I wait 1/2days now. She can text me too, dont be To eager im a busy man. And i could not fck her in the living room of the house. So Many people Could come in. And im going text her this evening.
Another one for the motel.
 

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Me: Hey how are you?
Her: Heyyy good and you?
Me: Great and even better after saturday haha

Were both playing waiting game on text lol. I'll see where it goes. I will def see her again on a house party or maybe ask her out when Im back around in her region.

Other thing is shes 20 im 30. I dont know if she cares though just saying.
 

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Me: Hey how are you?
Her: Heyyy good and you?
Me: Great and even better after saturday haha

Were both playing waiting game on text lol. I'll see where it goes. I will def see her again on a house party or maybe ask her out when Im back around in her region.

Other thing is shes 20 im 30. I dont know if she cares though just saying.
I think you'd be better off not chatting over text and using it just to arrange a meet.
 

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Bullsh*tong me.

she checking my snapstory but does not open my snapchat chat message or reply.

i assume low interest/game playing
 

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Bullsh*tong me.

she checking my snapstory but does not open my snapchat chat message or reply.

i assume low interest/game playing
Move on, i wouldnt contact her again. If she comes back at you at some point with serious interest, you could give it a shot. If you meet her at a house party, keep your cool unless she makes a worthy effort.

Things to avoid in general: Telling a woman you are "feeling even better" because she made out with you( fvcked you, made you a cake, whatever) on saturday. Dont give away that she can make your day, that gives her power.
 

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She replied that she had loads of fun too. Going to put her on the backburner until i got time for her
 
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Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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