Quit Overvaluing her worth, any single woman over 24 is damaged goods

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A lot of guys see a pretty woman with make up and assume she has her shvt together and would make a nice partner. However, our bubble is shattered when we see this same female with a bum or guy that treats her like shvt, so we start assuming girls only like dudes like him. Pump the breaks because how do we know she isn't crazy or a bum either? I just went on a date with a girl that graduated from a prestigious university, has solid career, pretty/young, and basically checked every mark. I meet this girl and she is high on some drug and find out that she lives in a trailer park with loads of student debt. There's no way you would've known this about her based off her profile or if you were to see this girl all dolled up at Whole Foods/Trader Joes.

My next point is that there are feminine women out there that want a man to submit to. However, the catch is that they do it an earlier age because they know their value and know when to catch a man. This whole I'm going to wait till after college/career is bull shvt and Kevin Samuels calls it out too. Feminine women will have healthy relationships in college, medical school, law school, during a career, and etc because I see it all the damn time. She is just using it as an excuse to be toxic and ride the carousel plain and simple. If she is over 24 and still single than she is damaged goods, so treat her as such!
 
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OP needs to get laid more. Every thread is about how bad women are. We get it. Most are shvt. A few are tolerable. Screen carefully and go on about your life.
And this is how you know if a guy on this site is lying about being high value or not. High Value men do not have time to waste on indebted children minded women that smoke pot and live in trailer parks in counties without a interstate.
 

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And this is how you know if a guy on this site is lying about being high value or not. High Value men do not have time to waste on indebted children minded women that smoke pot and live in trailer parks in counties without a interstate.
Correct. That includes making threads about those women.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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vs the 3 hours I wasted with that girl last night
why didn't you...
treat her as such!
;)

but ur rite tho.
I just went on a date with a girl that graduated from a prestigious university, has solid career, pretty/young, and basically checked every mark. I meet this girl and she is high on some drug and find out that she lives in a trailer park with loads of student debt. There's no way you would've known this about her based off her profile or if you were to see this girl all dolled up at Whole Foods/Trader Joes.
i've slept with girls like this from the club. they were amongst the fastest lays i've ever had. thing is, you just gotta know from the start, this girl will be a fckbuddy and nothing more. ya she looks good on paper/linkedin, but she is mentally fcked in the head. something you'd never be able to tell going off their social media.
 

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This thread took me 4 minutes to post vs the 3 hours I wasted with that girl last night
I am quite sure that you could have figured out in maxim 15 minutes that she is jaded , and from there on push aggressive for the pull

the only problem here is that you are not that used with screening . As time will pass by , you will become better at it
 

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OP needs to get laid more. Every thread is about how bad women are. We get it. Most are shvt. A few are tolerable. Screen carefully and go on about your life.
Considering we get what we expect in life not what we want, not surprising OP struggles with women.

His posts are extremely negative and pessimistic. He's focused way too much on women and not the other aspects of his life.

Too bad for such a young guy. Maybe he'll turn it around one day.
 

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we see this same female with a bum or guy that treats her like shvt, so we start assuming girls only like dudes like him. Pump the breaks because how do we know she isn't crazy or a bum either?
I agree with this. I've thought this many times. We get confused into thinking she's high value just based on her looks (which are heavily exaggerated with cosmetics). We see these "hot girls" with guys who seem like low lives.... But it's because the girl might be on the same level. We get confused by the fake looks exterior.

Great observation.
 

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This thread took me 4 minutes to post vs the 3 hours I wasted with that girl last night
You chose to continue the interaction when you could have left at any point. I am assuming you weren't being held at gunpoint correct?

Comical how guys think they simply will just magically eliminate 100% of women who won't bang them somehow and are unwilling to sort through women who aren't with their program.

Either do a better job screening prior to "wasting time" or if you did, chalk it up to part of the process guys have to go through.
 
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You chose to continue the interaction when you could have left at any point. I am assuming you weren't being held at gunpoint correct?

Comical how guys think they simply will just magically eliminate 100% of women who won't bang them somehow and are unwilling to sort through women who aren't with their program.

Either do a better job screening prior to "wasting time" or if you did, chalk it up to part of the process guys have to go through.
Like I said there's no way you could've screened it out from just her profile. In addition, she didn't come up to me and say Hi Jake, I live in a trailer far away and have student loan debt to my eye balls lets begin this date! She asked me to hang out that night, I did and was too busy working to be playing text tag with her all day.
 

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Like I said there's no way you could've screened it out from just her profile. In addition, she didn't come up to me and say Hi Jake, I live in a trailer far away and have student loan debt to my eye balls lets begin this date! She asked me to hang out that night, I did and was too busy working to be playing text tag with her all day.
You attract what you put out there. You put out negative energy almost nonstop so it's of no surprise these are the types of women you attract. Negativity attracts negativity.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Believe me, one day these girls will lower their standards. But it won’t be until they are missing teeth and smell like **** from their bad habits (and possibly homeless.) Then they will proposition average guys who are half their age.
 

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Believe me, one day these girls will lower their standards. But it won’t be until they are missing teeth and smell like **** from their bad habits (and possibly homeless.) Then they will proposition average guys who are half their age.
not really , women almost always settle with average guys as they get older , because they value security more than anything else . Including those who are cute

being average or slightly bellow is not really a valid reason for not getting laid

Finding a woman that is not an id1ot , well , that is a different story . But I would say that this is the same thing when it comes to friendships . Most of the men are complete id1ots
 
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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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