A wild crazy day that ended up with a FNL...Lay report

[BackInTheGame78]

So yesterday was a little crazy...

Day started out with a woman I had been texting for a few days and I let her know I had a few hours free to meet up today. She said "I will let you know". Now the old me would have probably said "OK cool..." The new me says "That's OK. We can just do another day when you are more sure." She responds with "OK." This was at about 8:30am. Went to work and went about my day and didn't think anything of it.

Had a date yesterday set up with a new woman and we went to play mini golf at an indoor place. It's a cool place and have ben getting great results taking women there. Here is where it gets crazy. Things were going well, she told me how much fun she was having and that how glad we came here and when we get done I ask if she wanted to go grab a drink at this place down the road and she says "sure". I tell her how to get there and she says "I'll just follow you". So I say cool and start driving. I see her pull out but there is another truck between us. Get to the stop sign and turn right and get to the place and wait for a few minutes...nothing. So I go to Bumble to msg her(she didn't want to exchange numbers prior) and she fvcking unmatched me and never showed up! I had to laugh...it was the first time that has ever happened where a woman bounced on a venue change...

So I don't think anything of it...get home, had to do a few more work things and it's around 10:30 at this point...so the girl from this morning texts me "Hi" and then 5 minutes later "What are you up to?". I immediately got a sense this was her feeling out some type of invite to get together...so I told her "not much, jist finishing up some stuff for work and was about to watch a movie. You?" And she says "Same" and then "Do you have to work tomorrow?". I tell "No, done for the week and just had to finish some stuff cause I am on vaca next week." She says "Nice". So I decided to tease her and said "You know...this has to be the lamest booty call I have ever gotten!" and sent a wink emoji with it. She responds "Well I was going to invite you to come over but it's definitely not a booty call". I told her "That's good because I need to be wined and dined before I put out." She said "LMAO! Well it's up to you...but you have 10 minutes to decide cause my friends want me to go out with them but if you wanted to stop by I'll tell them I have plans." So I was like "I'm down". She texts me the address and I get there around 12:15am...

Never met this chick before but she looks a lot like Pink...same hair, same features, she is not my normal woman I go for but she is kinda hot. Right of the bat we get along great...for the first 45 minutes we are just standing up talking by the kitchen and she gets me a beer and ahe is drinking vodka and soda...at that point I am like "My legs are kinda tired, is it cool of I sit down on the couch?" And she says "Yeah sit wherever"...so I sit on one couch and she sits on the other couch. Over the course of about 30 minutes of us talking and watching some comedy show she moves closer on the other couch to be caddy corner with me, then moves to my couch on the other end, then moves in the middle and starts touching my leg with her hand and putting her legs next to mine. At this point I am pretty sure it is about to be going down...but I keep playing it cool.

After about another 20 minutes or so she gets up to get another drink and then comes and sits next to me, and puts her head on my chest and starts rubbing her hand all over me...my chest, my arm, my head...and I start doing the same. After about 10 minutes of this, we look at each other and just start making out...going hot and heavy for a while then she gets up and goes to the bathroom and things cool off and she is laying in front of me long ways on the couch. She ends up falling asleep and its like 3:30 so I tell her I need to get going and she says "Do you just want to go lay down in my bed with me?" And I say "I am cool with that but I always sleep naked so if you aren't cool with that then I need to go." And she says "No that's fine..."

So she gets in bed, I get naked and slide in next to her and after about 5 minutes of rubbing each other we start kissing again and I slide her hand down to my hard as a rock c0ck and she starts stroking it and away we go...

Just left her place after banging her 3 times...did not sleep much at all...she thanked me for coming and said she hopes to see me again soon. I told her I would be in touch with a smirk and left...

Curious as to your thoughts as to why this happened after I calmly rejected her "I'll let you know offer" for today...did she think I just must have a lot of other women to make plans with so I wasn't going to wait? Did she think she was going to lose me when I went radio silent? Or was it simply striking when the iron was hot on my part and I just took advantage of an obvious green light?

Super cool chick, in her mid 30s, nice body, very sexual...she let me cvm in her mouth multiple times so she is definitely sexually open to things...planning to add this one to the rotation.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Simple. You triggered her attraction response to a man who projects authority and a “take it or leave it” attitude. You told her in no uncertain terms that her indecision is unacceptable, and in so doing elevated your value. You demonstrated superiority.

I was thinking as I read along that the mini golf chick was going to be a success story. I found myself a little pissed that she ditched you LOL.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Simple. You triggered her attraction response to a man who projects authority and a “take it or leave it” attitude. You told her in no uncertain terms that her indecision is unacceptable, and in so doing elevated your value. You demonstrated superiority.

I was thinking as I read along that the mini golf chick was going to be a success story. I found myself a little pissed that she ditched you LOL.

Interesting perspective. I admit it has gotten easier lately because I am flooded with options right now...talking to somewhere between 15-18 women and literally don't have time for them all. It's almost like a message rotation where I will only talk to a few on any one day other than if they reach out to me.

I kind of overextended myself coming out of that long term main plate/pseudo GF woman I was seeing. I need to remember this and continue to do so even when things aren't as abundant.

Yeah that was really weird. The funniest part about it is she wasn't even really hot...maybe a 6 or 6.5 but a little chunky. Had a nice rack and butt tho. The woman I banged last night was much better looking and in better shape.

Anyway, I guess it is another first for me...the ditch on venue change hahaha

 

[Barrister]

[QUOTE="BackInTheGame78, post: 2818370, member

Yeah that was really weird. The funniest part about it is she wasn't even really hot...maybe a 6 or 6.5 but a little chunky. Had a nice rack and butt tho. The woman I banged last night was much better looking and in better shape.
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It just goes to further show that average looking women are just as entitled and full of themselves as hot women. There’s very little reason to deal with them since the drama level is just as high and they don’t make your d1ck as hard.

I can’t imagine doing to any date what that chick did to you. Just ridiculous.

 

[2Rocky]

I pulled what the chick did once.....

....I was at a memorial service for an acquaintance who was an emergency room doctor who died in a tragic accident. Several of the nurses he had worked with were at the service with a gathering after. I got to talking to one of the best looking ones, and she invited me to go downtown to the bar with her and her hot nurse friends. When they turned right at the crossroads, I turned left and headed home. I just couldn't reconcile hooking up with a chick from meeting her at a funeral. It was about the time that Wedding Crashers came out...

 

[2Rocky]

Yeah, I looked...the Memorial was in 2003...WC came out in 2005.....

 

[Romanemp22]

Women likes a man who acts c0cky and have options. They don't want a guy who will nod his head on every little thing she say. Good thing you fvcked her brains out so now you have free sex whenever you want.

But I'm more intrigued by the story of the woman who left in the middle of the date hahah I was really laughing hard on that. You definitely dodged a bullet on that one that's for sure.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Women likes a man who acts c0cky and have options. They don't want a guy who will nod his head on every little thing she say. Good thing you fvcked her brains out so now you have free sex whenever you want.

But I'm more intrigued by the story of the woman who left in the middle of the date hahah I was really laughing hard on that. You definitely dodged a bullet on that one that's for sure.

Yeah I still don't really understand that one either. I have done that with women where I felt things were not going good at all and they still always showed up at the next place. That things were seemingly going well and she of her own volition was saying how much fun she was having and that it was the most fun date she has been on in a while and that she loved the date idea and gave no indication she was about to do that was really weird...

Whatever, no sweat off my back, I have another date with a new woman for tomorrow and again on Monday...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You know how some women are. She could've gotten a phone call or text from Chad while she was following you.

Ah well. Sounds like you won't be missing this girl.

Yeah, we have no way of getting in touch so I guess I will never find out hahaha

 

[BackInTheGame78]

[QUOTE="BackInTheGame78, post: 2818370, member

Yeah that was really weird. The funniest part about it is she wasn't even really hot...maybe a 6 or 6.5 but a little chunky. Had a nice rack and butt tho. The woman I banged last night was much better looking and in better shape.

It just goes to further show that average looking women are just as entitled and full of themselves as hot women. There’s very little reason to deal with them since the drama level is just as high and they don’t make your d1ck as hard.

I can’t imagine doing to any date what that chick did to you. Just ridiculous.
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Yeah I agree...but it is good to know someone is low quality early on rather than waiting for a few months and wasting time that way.

 

[Barrister]

It just goes to further show that average looking women are just as entitled and full of themselves as hot women. There’s very little reason to deal with them since the drama level is just as high and they don’t make your d1ck as hard.

I can’t imagine doing to any date what that chick did to you. Just ridiculous.

Yeah I agree...but it is good to know someone is low quality early on rather than waiting for a few months and wasting time that way.
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Agreed. I always wonder in a situation like this why she even agrees to the second location instead of declining though. Chicks can be so bizarre.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Agreed. I always wonder in a situation like this why she even agrees to the second location instead of declining though. Chicks can be so bizarre.

Conflict avoidance

 

[MoMoses]

Cool story man! Thanks for sharing!

She said "I will let you know". Now the old me would have probably said "OK cool..." The new me says "That's OK. We can just do another day when you are more sure." She responds with "OK."

Perfect. Just perfect! This is something I have learned aswell. Most aren't intentionally testing you with this lame "I will let you know", but you not accepting this is sending a very clear message: My Time Is Valuable

Sexy as hell, because this means you've got things going on for yourself and you're not just gonna sit at home waiting around for her to contact you. There might be other women, she doesn't know.

So I go to Bumble to msg her(she didn't want to exchange numbers prior) and she fvcking unmatched me and never showed up! I had to laugh...it was the first time that has ever happened where a woman bounced on a venue change...

LOL, stupid bimbo Too insecure to say no to your face. These kind of flakes are the lamest.

One thing though.. I used to take women to a mini-golf aswell as a first date. I stopped doing this because it's a lot of fun but in my personal experience it creates more of a friendship vibe rather than a "I'm gonna rip your panties of your body with my bare teeth" kinda vibe. You know what I mean right? I took maybe 25 chicks to that mini golf and all liked me. All had a lot of fun and were laughing the entire time, trying to compete with my sucky mini golf skills. I ended up sleeping with 8 of those women. Only 8. I didn't even have a second date with half of them and I didn't kiss all of them because the setting wasn't there (children around, families on a day out, etc)

I found out that my success rate sky rocketed when I stopped taking them to the mini golf and instead focused on meeting them in places and at times where I knew I had a higher chance at escalating.

Just my personal experience though. If it works for you.. the better. Everyone's different.

Curious as to your thoughts as to why this happened after I calmly rejected her "I'll let you know offer" for today...did she think I just must have a lot of other women to make plans with so I wasn't going to wait? Did she think she was going to lose me when I went radio silent? Or was it simply striking when the iron was hot on my part and I just took advantage of an obvious green light?

I think you stroke the iron when it was hot. She texted you and you correctly read her vibe.

I went on a date too yesterday. Had a similar experience as you. There's a night curfew in my country and I'm starting to see how I can use this in my advantage. Making sure the date is on a high point when my alarm goes off... I have to go... night curfew. This girl was almost begging me to stay because she didn't want me to go yet. She said I could stay the night because she has a "guest bed room". I accepted.. knowing full well I'd never see the inside of that guest bedroom hehe

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Cool story man! Thanks for sharing!



Perfect. Just perfect! This is something I have learned aswell. Most aren't intentionally testing you with this lame "I will let you know", but you not accepting this is sending a very clear message: My Time Is Valuable

Sexy as hell, because this means you've got things going on for yourself and you're not just gonna sit at home waiting around for her to contact you. There might be other women, she doesn't know.




LOL, stupid bimbo Too insecure to say no to your face. These kind of flakes are the lamest.

One thing though.. I used to take women to a mini-golf aswell as a first date. I stopped doing this because it's a lot of fun but in my personal experience it creates more of a friendship vibe rather than a "I'm gonna rip your panties of your body with my bare teeth" kinda vibe. You know what I mean right? I took maybe 25 chicks to that mini golf and all liked me. All had a lot of fun and were laughing the entire time, trying to compete with my sucky mini golf skills. I ended up sleeping with 8 of those women. Only 8. I didn't even have a second date with half of them and I didn't kiss all of them because the setting wasn't there (children around, families on a day out, etc)

I found out that my success rate sky rocketed when I stopped taking them to the mini golf and instead focused on meeting them in places and at times where I knew I had a higher chance at escalating.

Just my personal experience though. If it works for you.. the better. Everyone's different.



I think you stroke the iron when it was hot. She texted you and you correctly read her vibe.

I went on a date too yesterday. Had a similar experience as you. There's a night curfew in my country and I'm starting to see how I can use this in my advantage. Making sure the date is on a high point when my alarm goes off... I have to go... night curfew. This girl was almost begging me to stay because she didn't want me to go yet. She said I could stay the night because she has a "guest bed room". I accepted.. knowing full well I'd never see the inside of that guest bedroom hehe

I would agree that if I only did mini golf that would be more of a friend vibe but I then transition it to drinks so first it's fun and then it's a drink...with whoever losing at gold buying the first round!

But there is this one part of the course with painted sand traps and it literally looks like a giant c0ck with 2 balls and I always point this out and usually get them to crack up laughing and that at least leads to some sexual vibes also...