Update on the topic:
She cancelled the trip to her "ex ****buddy" after i told her what i thought about it.
Yes she cheated! With at least one other guy. You were right.
Has daddy issues and and a severe attention (=c*ck)seaker! A new male friend appeared mysteriously and the first time a saw how they interacted at a party i knew 100% they were/have been ****ing. It was a boat party and she floated on a matress, he swam to her, got on the matress and kind of "bend over her" and whispered something in her ear (the way you do it if you say something like "i f*cking enjoyed licking you wet p*ssy yesterday..."). Thats when i used my IT skills to get more info. She and a female friend both ****ed a pilot each while on vacation at the very beginning of our relationship. And they met again for a hotel stay over two months after that in another city. And she told me she that she was on advanced training for a job there.
Found out last summer and dumped her.
Had some fun an travelled here in europe while it was still possible.
After that a saw her again, but we didnt have a relationship. This was conveniant because of the lockdown. She tried hard to force me back into a realtionship and seemed to really want to make it work. But when she opens her mouth she is lying all the time.
She even pulled the "i am pregnant" card. After i totally cut contact. When i suggusted that i bring over a pregnancy test and we do it immediately, she tried to gaslight "You are such a controlling psycho...". At this moment i knew she was lying...
And i am pretty sure, she hast got some drug issues as well. Cocaine...
So many lies. You wouldnt believe it.
So what do I learn of all this:
Always trust your gut!
Believe actions, not words.
Girls with daddy issues = good for a short ball drain, but nothing more
Anythin else you would add? I want to learn and become better
BTW: ATM i have a fling with a 23 year old brazilian Au pair. Never had such a hot girl. I think she is using me to make her friend with benefits jealous. But i already ****ed her. And she sent me a voice message that this summer she wants to go on my sailing boat with me and make photos for her insta... She totally uses me for my resources (=boat), but i can totally live with that. Simple exchange of resources...
Really strange. Was never able to attract as hot females as now. And I am mid 30s...
BTW I am not rich. Only above average salary and bought a decent old boat together with two male friends. Renovated it... Status definitely seems to work.
Asked my male friends if they ever got ***** because of their BMWs or Mercedess. Everyone of them stated that it never worked. Somehow with a 50 year old renovated wooden sailing boat, it works. So choose wise how you invest your "showing off" money