Should I drop my main plate?(UPDATE: Dropped)

[Igetit!]

It's not my job to make it happen. I did all of things that should have caused her to want that and clearly she didn't.

Yep. This is what I meant from one of my earlier replies when I said that this was a woman,and not a math problem.

This was a PERSON,with her own personal thoughts and feelings,motivations and goals. And unless she shares those thoughts,we're just all guessing and speculating as to what she wants. Only SHE knows what's truly in her heart and mind. Op said he did the things he believed that would make her interested,and they didn't work. Hence,why I said it's not math.....

In math,everything is predictable. You may not know the answer to something,but you can use a certain formula with a certain set of numbers and reach a predictable outcome. In math,if you get the wrong answer,it's cause YOU made a mistake. If you do everything "right",you'll get the correct outcome......EVERYTIME.

It's not like that with a woman. With a woman,you can do everything technically right......and STILL lose out with her. You may get 5 women in a row doing one specific thing,but lose out with a 6th doing the same thing that got you the other 5. That's just how it is.


The chick just lost interest....for WHATEVER reason. Maybe OP did something wrong. Maybe he did nothing wrong. No way to know without knowing her side of things and what it was she wanted.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yep. This is what I meant from one of my earlier replies when I said that this was a woman,and not a math problem.

This was a PERSON,with her own personal thoughts and feelings,motivations and goals. And unless she shares those thoughts,we're just all guessing and speculating as to what she wants. Only SHE knows what's truly in her heart and mind. Op said he did the things he believed that would make her interested,and they didn't work. Hence,why I said it's not math.....

In math,everything is predictable. You may not know the answer to something,but you can use a certain formula with a certain set of numbers and reach a predictable outcome. In math,if you get the wrong answer,it's cause YOU made a mistake. If you do everything "right",you'll get the correct outcome......EVERYTIME.

It's not like that with a woman. With a woman,you can do everything technically right......and STILL lose out with her. You may get 5 women in a row doing one specific thing,but lose out with a 6th doing the same thing that got you the other 5. That's just how it is.


The chick just lost interest....for WHATEVER reason. Maybe OP did something wrong. Maybe he did nothing wrong. No way to know without knowing her side of things and what it was she wanted.

Yeah I mean looking back on the last time I saw her I guess I should have seen the writing on the wall....we drove somewhere to go do something fun which was a 20 or 25 minute drive and she mentioned how her son's hockey started up and how much time that would be taking out of her schedule. Then on the ride home she was unusually silent for a long part of the ride but grabbed my hand and held it.

We got back watched a show and then went to bed and when we were kissing and making out she said she just felt like chilling and didn't want to fvck...it was the first time she ever did that. We did fvck in the morning when we woke up and cooked breakfast and things seemed OK but when I left she gave me an extra long hug as if she was saying more than just a normal goodbye.

I didn't put all that together as it happened but I guess it was clear she intended that to be the last time we saw each other.

 

[Barrister]

Yeah I mean looking back on the last time I saw her I guess I should have seen the writing on the wall....we drove somewhere to go do something fun which was a 20 or 25 minute drive and she mentioned how her son's hockey started up and how much time that would be taking out of her schedule. Then on the ride home she was unusually silent for a long part of the ride but grabbed my hand and held it.

We got back watched a show and then went to bed and when we were kissing and making out she said she just felt like chilling and didn't want to fvck...it was the first time she ever did that. We did fvck in the morning when we woke up and cooked breakfast and things seemed OK but when I left she gave me an extra long hug as if she was saying more than just a normal goodbye.

I didn't put all that together as it happened but I guess it was clear she intended that to be the last time we saw each other.

Women....