Recently I just started talking to this girl in December. She said she just got out of a relationship. Within a month she moved in with me. I was looking through her phone because obviously of my trust and insecurity which I should have never done now that I found these forums. She moved out an left a few things she still hasn’t come to get. I’ve reminded her of it once and she said she’ll come get it another day but still hasn’t.
Last night I was texting her an I waited a little bit on her text like between 15-25 mins. She told me she was applying for jobs and all I said was “Nice” she then said sometimes our text are dry and she’s said this before so I said “Ok lmao, and what did you apply for?” She said “A job” at first then a few seconds later opened the messages back up and said that she applied for a few other jobs. She then got mad talking about some girl I use to know because she has a fan page and she goes to assume I’ve been talking to her. I told her she can think as she wishes. When she went through this little for I just told her I was helping my friend with something hence the text “Nice”. I told her I was busy helping my friend.
Ive apologized before for looking through her phone an this is like the second time she’s brought it up.
She text me this morning saying it’s not about you being busy it’s just some things you’ve done that it’s hard for me to trusts you. I’m yet to respond to this. I don’t want to be apologizing again. I feel like that’s the wrong move. That would make me chase her even more.
Note that she respond to me rather quickly within 1-10 minutes. When I was making her wait a little before I responded she would reply with like 1 minute if not less.
what approach should I take here? I’m sure apologizing won’t do any good Because I’ve done that already
Last night I was texting her an I waited a little bit on her text like between 15-25 mins. She told me she was applying for jobs and all I said was “Nice” she then said sometimes our text are dry and she’s said this before so I said “Ok lmao, and what did you apply for?” She said “A job” at first then a few seconds later opened the messages back up and said that she applied for a few other jobs. She then got mad talking about some girl I use to know because she has a fan page and she goes to assume I’ve been talking to her. I told her she can think as she wishes. When she went through this little for I just told her I was helping my friend with something hence the text “Nice”. I told her I was busy helping my friend.
Ive apologized before for looking through her phone an this is like the second time she’s brought it up.
She text me this morning saying it’s not about you being busy it’s just some things you’ve done that it’s hard for me to trusts you. I’m yet to respond to this. I don’t want to be apologizing again. I feel like that’s the wrong move. That would make me chase her even more.
Note that she respond to me rather quickly within 1-10 minutes. When I was making her wait a little before I responded she would reply with like 1 minute if not less.
what approach should I take here? I’m sure apologizing won’t do any good Because I’ve done that already
