EyeBRollin
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At 22, you should be focused on establishing yourself in a career. Don’t even worry about chicks right now. Forget this girl.
Maybe notIf she wasn’t a virgin, would you feel guilty?
you’ve come to the right place my guy. Regarding the OP, hang around here some more and familiarize yourself with the DJ Bible and other game literature.Maybe not
Whatever you're feeling is totally normal.Hey guys,I need your input as I have been feeling confused and sad for quite some time.
About me- I am tall and good looking,but due to my open personality I make a lot of enemies. I am 22 year old and in first year of a five year long course.The year is about to end.
The story- During the first four months I got a propose from arguably the hottest girl of our class,and even though I was unhappy with my life(don't know why) I started dating her and got into a relationship pretty quickly.We both were each others first everything,lost virginities to each other and so on.
The problem-After the first month of our relationship I started having anxiety because of her as I felt I wasn't her priority and she may cheat on me.Also,her male best friends who are pretty popular are my sworn enemies so I had doubts that maybe she could be like them.So ,to deal with these emotions I told her I wanted a break to which she said she wants a break up.So I tried beta things by saying her to give me a chance and which she arrogantly dismissed many times.She also got pretty ill during this time,which I think was due to break up. So after a week I called her to an isolated place and said I want to be back,which she shot down,so I said all the best of luck with a smile and left,and that evening she said she wants to be back!! And we got back and the lockdown started.
During lockdown we had a fight and again broke up and I unfollowed her from all social media.
So now the classes have again started and it has been difficult for me. She also looks like she isn't doing well too. And lately her male friends have filled her head with vile things about me. I have been acting totally normal Infront of her.
So,I wanted to know what should I do now?
Also,keep in mind there are very few dating options around me.
Thanks man. The thing is I have read DJ Bible and other literature many times,but what I have realized now is that when **** hits the fan,only thing that helps is experience. My exams are in a week,but I haven't been able to focus at all. Let's hope it changes.you’ve come to the right place my guy. Regarding the OP, hang around here some more and familiarize yourself with the DJ Bible and other game literature.
You come to find that thou shall not comfort any woman that rejects us. In fact, hang around long enough you’ll actually grow to believe it’s her loss and that she’s the loser for rejecting you.
That's a great reply,surely will implement these.Whatever you're feeling is totally normal.
Many of us have slept with dozens of women and went through a similar phase when we were starting out - guilt, insecurity, anger, jealousy.
Meditate to calm your mind.
Realise that these turbulent emotions won't last.
Workout to release happy hormones.
Talk to new people, males and females.
Get involved in a new hobby.
You're a student, make the most of your course.
This isn't a big deal, things will fall in place, give things time.
You're well on your way to be a player elite.
There are lots of women out there, better than her, who would love meeting you, give them a chance.
It was a smart choice. You need to develop your emotional side more before you can be finally able to date someone and get in a serious relationship.The problem-After the first month of our relationship I started having anxiety because of her as I felt I wasn't her priority and she may cheat on me.Also,her male best friends who are pretty popular are my sworn enemies so I had doubts that maybe she could be like them.So ,to deal with these emotions I told her I wanted a break to which she said she wants a break up.
There's always the crows, flying around a rotten relationship just waiting for it to be over and eat the leftovers. She's a girl, so all her friends are gonna be provinding her emotional support. It means that you, from now on, will be the ultimate villain in her friends' mouth. Crazy, right?So now the classes have again started and it has been difficult for me. She also looks like she isn't doing well too. And lately her male friends have filled her head with vile things about me. I have been acting totally normal Infront of her.
How do you know this? If you genuinely took her virginity you must have screwed up pretty bad for her not to want you.Thank you so much guys for your output.But I feel guilty that I took her virginity and am now being like a stranger to her.So,has this happened to anyone and how did you deal with it?
Yes...there is a huge difference between knowing something you read and actually using this knowledge in practice in your own life. That comes via experience and actually using it.Thanks man. The thing is I have read DJ Bible and other literature many times,but what I have realized now is that when **** hits the fan,only thing that helps is experience. My exams are in a week,but I haven't been able to focus at all. Let's hope it changes.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I had unfollowed her from insta after break up seven months age and sent her a follow request just two days ago.She ignored my request.How do you know this? If you genuinely took her virginity you must have screwed up pretty bad for her not to want you.
I reckon you need to work on yourself as there are many more girls out there for you. Keep many plates spinning. That's what I do now, I can't tolerate poor behaviour and will just move to another plate once they start playing up!
How does one develop their emotional side. I have been feeling emotionally weak for quite some time.Yes...there is a huge difference between knowing something you read and actually using this knowledge in practice in your own life. That comes via experience and actually using it.
Know that even when using it you will likely fail for a while until you understand all the nuances and when and how to use it properly in various situations. These are learning experiences on the path to success and should be valued because they will be your best teachers.
Ignore her as well and withdraw your Instagram request.I had unfollowed her from insta after break up seven months age and sent her a follow request just two days ago.She ignored my request.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Hello young man,Hey guys,I need your input as I have been feeling confused and sad for quite some time.
About me- I am tall and good looking,but due to my open personality I make a lot of enemies. I am 22 year old and in first year of a five year long course.The year is about to end.
The story- During the first four months I got a propose from arguably the hottest girl of our class,and even though I was unhappy with my life(don't know why) I started dating her and got into a relationship pretty quickly.We both were each others first everything,lost virginities to each other and so on.
The problem-After the first month of our relationship I started having anxiety because of her as I felt I wasn't her priority and she may cheat on me.Also,her male best friends who are pretty popular are my sworn enemies so I had doubts that maybe she could be like them.So ,to deal with these emotions I told her I wanted a break to which she said she wants a break up.So I tried beta things by saying her to give me a chance and which she arrogantly dismissed many times.She also got pretty ill during this time,which I think was due to break up. So after a week I called her to an isolated place and said I want to be back,which she shot down,so I said all the best of luck with a smile and left,and that evening she said she wants to be back!! And we got back and the lockdown started.
During lockdown we had a fight and again broke up and I unfollowed her from all social media.
So now the classes have again started and it has been difficult for me. She also looks like she isn't doing well too. And lately her male friends have filled her head with vile things about me. I have been acting totally normal Infront of her.
So,I wanted to know what should I do now?
Also,keep in mind there are very few dating options around me.
Women are responsible for their own actions. It's not as if virginity has any value in today's society anyway.Maybe not
Honestly who cares? Go worry about other women. Too much focus on her is the issue at hand.So,we both are head our our batch,and instead of doing things with me she does things with her male friends and acts really rude to me,what does it mean? She hasn't moved on or something else?
Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.